Arts & Entertainment
‘Love, Simon’ wins Best Kiss at MTV Movie & TV Awards
Lena Waithe, Lady Gaga also made appearances

Nick Robinson and Keiynan Lonsdale in ‘Love, Simon’ (Screenshot via YouTube)
The 2018 MTV Movie & TV Awards was filled with LGBT representation including a Best Kiss win for “Love, Simon” and a Trailblazer Award honor given to Lena Waithe at the ceremony which aired on Monday night.
The cast of “13 Reasons Why” announced the winner for Best Kiss was Nick Robinson and Keiynan Lonsdale’s kiss at the end of the gay teen romance. This is the second year in a row that a same-sex kiss won the award. In 2017, Ashton Sanders and Jharrel Jermone’s kiss in “Moonlight” received the honor.
Lonsdale, 26, accepted the award as Robinson was unable to make the show.
“I just want to say to every kid, you can live your dreams and wear dresses,” Lonsdale told the crowd. “You can live your dreams and kiss the one that you love, no matter what gender they are. You can live your dreams and you can believe in magic. You can live your dreams and you can be yourself.”
Lonsdale came out as bisexual while filming the movie in 2017.
Lena Waithe was honored with the Trailblazer Award for her achievements in television. In 2017, Waithe became the first woman of color to win the Emmy for Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series for writing the “Master of None” episode “Thanksgiving.” The episode tackled her character Denise’s coming out to her family over a series of Thanksgivings. She is also the creator and executive producer of the Showtime drama “The Chi,” which follows the lives of people in the South Side of Chicago.
In her acceptance speech, the 34-year-old credited Jennie Livingston’s 1990 documentary “Paris Is Burning,” which chronicled the ’80s ball culture in New York City, for paving the way in culture.
“Every time someone says shade or talks about reading or just decides to serve face for no reason at all, please look up to the sky and give thanks because we owe them a huge debt of gratitude,” Waithe says. “They strutted through a brick wall so we wouldn’t have to.”
Other highlights of the night included Chris Pratt receiving the Generation Award and Tiffany Haddish hosting the ceremony with gags like wearing Meghan Markle’s wedding dress and sporting a pregnant belly as a nod to Cardi B’s “Saturday Night Live” performance.
Lady Gaga also made an appearance to accept the award for Best Music Documentary for her documentary “Five Foot Two” and to present the award for Best Movie.
“I love you little monsters so much! And, Happy Pride Month,” Lady Gaga says. “I just have one problem, I recently found out that I am actually five-foot-three and three quarters … I am so, so sorry, but thank you so much.”
She announced the Best Movie winner with flair yelling “Black mother f—– Panther.'”
See the full list of winners below.
BEST MOVIE – “Black Panther”
BEST SHOW – “Stranger Things”
BEST PERFORMANCE IN A MOVIE – Chadwick Boseman in “Black Panther”
BEST PERFORMANCE IN A SHOW – Millie Bobby Brown in “Stranger Things”
BEST HERO – Chadwick Boseman (T’Challa/Black Panther) in “Black Panther”
BEST VILLAIN – Michael B. Jordan (N’Jadaka/Erik Killmonger) in “Black Panther”
BEST KISS – Love, Simon – Nick Robinson (Simon) and Keiynan Lonsdale (Bram)
MOST FRIGHTENED PERFORMANCE – Noah Schnapp (Will Byers) – “Stranger Things”
BEST ON-SCREEN TEAM – “It” – Finn Wolfhard (Richie), Sophia Lillis (Beverly), Jaeden Lieberher (Bill), Jack Dylan Grazer (Eddie), Wyatt Oleff (Stanley), Jeremy Ray Taylor (Ben), Chosen Jacobs (Mike)
BEST COMEDIC PERFORMANCE – Tiffany Haddish – “Girls Trip”
SCENE STEALER – Madelaine Petsch (Cheryl Blossom) – “Riverdale”
BEST FIGHT – “Wonder Woman” – Gal Gadot (Wonder Woman) vs. German Soldiers
BEST MUSIC DOCUMENTARY – “Gaga: Five Foot Two”
BEST REALITY SERIES/FRANCHISE – “Keeping Up with the Kardashians”
BEST MUSICAL MOMENT – “Stranger Things” (Mike and Eleven dance to “Every Breath You Take”)
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund National Champagne Brunch was held at Salamander Washington DC on Sunday, April 19. Gov. Andy Beshear (D-Ky.) was presented with the Allyship Award.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)



















The umbrella LGBTQ sports organization Team D.C. held its annual Night of Champions Gala at the Georgetown Marriott on Saturday, April 18. Team D.C. presented scholarships to local student athletes and presented awards to Adam Peck, Manuel Montelongo (a.k.a. Mari Con Carne), Dr. Sara Varghai, Dan Martin and the Centaur Motorcycle Club. Sean Bartel was posthumously honored with the Most Valuable Person Award.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)















Television
‘Big Mistakes’ an uneven – but worthy – comedic showcase
In the years since “Schitt’s Creek” wrapped up its six season Emmy-winning run, nostalgia for it has grown deep – especially since the still painfully recent loss of its iconic leading lady, Catherine O’Hara, whose sudden passing prompted a social media wave of clips and tributes featuring her fan-favorite performance as the deliciously daft Moira Rose. Revisiting so many favorite scenes and funny moments from the show naturally reminded us of just how much we loved it, even needed it during the time it was on the air; it also reminded us of how much we miss it, and how much it feels now like something we need more than ever.
That, perhaps more than anything else, is why the arrival of “Big Mistakes” – the new Netflix series starring, co-created and co-written by Dan Levy – felt so welcome. We knew it wouldn’t be the Roses, but it seemed cut from the same cloth, and it had David Rose (or at least someone who seemed a lot like him) in the middle of a comically dysfunctional family dynamic, complete with a mother who gets involved in town politics and a catty sibling rivalry with his sister, and still nebbish-ly uncomfortable in his own gay shoes. Only this time, instead of running a charmingly pretentious boutique, he’s the pastor of the local church, and instead of a collection of kooky small town neighbors to contend with, there are gangsters.
As it turns out, it really does feel cut from the same cloth, but the design is distinctly different. Set in a fictional New Jersey suburb, it centers on Nicky (Levy) and his sister Morgan (Taylor Ortega) – he openly gay with an adoring boyfriend (Jacob Gutierrez), yet still obsessive about keeping it all invisible to his congregation, and she drudging aimlessly through life as an underpaid schoolteacher after failing to achieve her New York dreams of show biz success – who inadvertently become enmeshed in a shady underworld when a gesture for their dead grandmother’s funeral goes horribly awry.
They’re surrounded by a crew of equally compromised characters. There’s their mother Linda (Laurie Metcalf), whose campaign to become the town’s mayor only intensifies her tendency to micromanage her children’s lives; Yusuf (Boran Kuzum), the Turkish-American mini-mart operator who pulls them into the criminal conspiracy yet is himself a victim of it; Max (Jack Innanen), Morgan’s live-in boyfriend, who pushes her for a deeper commitment and is willing to go to couples’ therapy to prove it; Annette, his mother (Elizabeth Perkins), who lends her society standing toward helping Linda’s campaign against a misogynistic opponent (Darren Goldstein); and Ivan (Mark Ivanir), the seemingly ruthless crime boss who enslaves the siblings into his network but may really be just another slave himself. It’s a well-fleshed out assortment of characters that helps our own loyalties shift and adapt, generating at least a degree of empathy – if not always sympathy – that keeps everyone from coming off as a merely “black-and-white” caricature of expectations and typecasting.
To be sure, it’s an entertaining binge-watch, full of distinctive characters – all inhabiting familiar, even stereotypical roles in the narrative – who are each given a degree of validation, both in writing and performance, as the show unspools its narrative. At the same time, it makes for a fairly bleak overall view of humanity, in which it’s difficult to place our loyalties with anyone without also embracing a kind of “dog eat dog” morality in which nobody is truly innocent – but nobody is completely to blame for their sins, anyway.
In this way, it’s a show that lets us off the hook in the sense that it places the idea of ethical guilt within a framework of relative evils, as it permits us to forgive our own trespasses by accepting its “lovably” amoral characters, each of whom has their own reasons and justifications for what they do. We relate, but we can’t quite shake the notion that, if all these people hadn’t been so caught up in their own personal dramas, none of them would have ended up in the compromised morality that they’re in.
However, it’s not some bleak morality play that Levy and crew undertake; rather, it’s more an egalitarian fantasy in which even “bad” choices feel justified by inevitability. Everybody’s motivations make enough sense to us that it’s hard to judge any of the characters for making the choices – however unwise – that they do. In a system where everyone is forced to compromise themselves in order to achieve whatever dream of self-fulfillment they may have, how can anybody really blame themselves for doing what they have to do to survive?
Of course, all things considered, this is more a relatable comedy than it is a morality play. As a comedy of errors, it all works well enough on its own without imposing an ideology on it, no matter how much we may be tempted to do so. Indeed, what is ultimately more to the point is how well this pseudo-cynical exercise in the normalization of corruption – for that is what it really about, in the end – succeeds in letting us all off the hook for our compromises.
In the end, of course, maybe all that analysis is too deep a dive for a show that feels, in the end, like it’s meant to be mostly for fun. Indeed, despite its focus on being dragged into the shady side of life, the arc of its messaging seems to be less about a moralistic urge toward making the “right” choice than it is a candid recognition that all of us are compromised from the outset, often by choices we only force upon ourselves, and that’s a refreshing enough bit of honesty that we can easily get on board.
It helps that the performances are on point, especially the loony and wide-eyed fanaticism of Metcalf – surely the MVP of any project in which she is involved – and the directly focused moral malleability of Ortega; Levy, of course, is Levy – a now-familiar persona that can exist within any milieu without further justification than its own queer relatability – and, in this case, at least, that’s both the icing on the cake and substance that defines it. That’s enough to make it an essential view for fans, queer or otherwise, of his distinctive “brand,” even if he – or the show itself – doesn’t quite satisfy in the way that “Schitt’s Creek” was able to do.
Seriously, though, how could it?
