Rehoboth Beach
Rehoboth Beach celebrates Pride this weekend
Events to raise funds for unhoused youth in Delaware
June may be over but Delaware is still celebrating Pride. Rehoboth Beach is hosting its annual Pride celebration weekend from July 18-21.
The celebration has everything you might expect from a Pride weekend — from dance parties to drag, the four-day celebration of LGBTQ identity has something for everyone.
Sussex Pride, the organization behind Rehoboth Beach Pride, is celebrating its second year of organizing the events. Its mission is to “celebrate, strengthen, and support the LGBTQ+ community in Sussex County and the state of Delaware, working through a social justice lens.” This includes sponsoring events to help members of the LGBTQ community find resources, providing a platform for discussions about the future of LGBTQ rights, and hosting events like Rehoboth Beach Pride.
The Blade sat down with David Mariner, the executive director of Sussex Pride, to discuss the weekend’s events and why celebrating Pride — as well as fighting for LGBTQ rights — is still needed in 2024.
“LGBTQ+ equality is very much a focus of Sussex Pride,” Mariner said. “We know here in the state of Delaware, LGBTQ folks are more likely to be living in poverty and less likely to have health insurance, for example, than non-LGBTQ folks. We know that we disproportionately are impacted by substance abuse, by HIV and AIDS, by a variety of health issues.”
Reports from the Williams Institute, an organization that tracks LGBTQ statistics, show that nationwide an estimated 40% of unhoused youth, and 30% of youth in foster care identify as LGBTQ+.
This gap of support for LGBTQ youth, Mariner explained, was one of the reasons that Rehoboth Beach’s Pride Festival will have a raffle to win prizes. All of the money donated through raffle tickets will go to Safeguards Housing Committee, a statewide initiative to support unhoused LGBTQ+ youth.
“All the money from the raffle is going to go to support homeless LGBTQ youth in Delaware,” Mariner told the Blade. “That’s a first for Rehoboth Beach Pride. I’m most looking forward to presenting that check to the Safeguards Housing Committee and supporting young people in Delaware who are kicked out of their house because they’re LGBTQ.”
The advocacy work of Sussex Pride doesn’t stop there. Workshops will be held to help provide resources to LGBTQ members of Sussex County and the state of Delaware as a whole. These workshops include one centering LGBTQ aging with The Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities, a workshop on intimate partner violence and domestic violence with What Is Your Voice, an organization that works to help those impacted by domestic abuse and a youth organizing workshop with Network Delaware.
“The advocacy that we’re doing is kind of more nuanced conversations about how we move forward together as a community,” he added. “We’re looking with a lot of our strategic partners to how we engage and move forward in Delaware. A lot of that work is kind of local, a lot of that work is at our state level.”
Mariner added that the support from the community initially shocked him.
“I was surprised there was as much enthusiasm as there was to be honest. We didn’t really know going into it, how people would react but we had 50 Venture slots, and we sold out relatively quickly,” he explained. “The interest has been really high.”
“I think it speaks to us as LGBTQ folks wanting to be everywhere in the state and wanting to be visible everywhere in the state. This is often thought of as a beach town where people come to vacation, but it’s also a place where more and more families live and raise their children and have queer youth and have families. There’s a lot of work to do in this area, not just in the summertime, but year round.”
The money raised and conversations held at the Pride festival, Mariner hopes, will help Rehoboth and Sussex County reach their full queer potential.
“D.C. people in particular have one idea about Rehoboth Beach, which is amazing drag shows and a great supportive community. And that all exists in Rehoboth Beach, and it’s an amazing place, but there are other parts of Sussex County, too.” Mariner said. “And we have to be willing to leave our comfort zone and to reach out to everyone. So I hope with all the events that we do, even with this weekend, that we see LGBTQ youth coming in, that we see diverse folks participating and benefiting from the event. And we see folks from all over the county participating.”
With this inclusive spirit in mind, the Pride celebrations will commence on Thursday night at Freddie’s Beach Bar (3 S 1st Street, Rehoboth Beach, Del.) at 9 p.m. for the Rehoboth Pride Kickoff Party.
On Friday, Aqua Bar & Grill (57 Baltimore Ave.) hosts a Pride social at 4 p.m. Later at 9 p.m., DJ Chord takes over the music for a Pride Dance Party. Just a few doors down, Blue Moon (35 Baltimore Ave.) hosts a Pride drag show and dancing at 9 p.m.
On Saturday, the Pride festivities start with the Rehoboth Pride Festival at the Rehoboth Convention Center (229 Rehoboth Ave.) from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. The festival will include local LGBTQ vendors, health screenings, activities, and resource guides. Local drag queen Regina Cox hosts Goolee’s Grille’s (11 S 1st St.) drag brunch at noon. Tickets are available at Gooleesgrille.com.
From 2-8 p.m., Freddie’s Beach Bar hosts Freddie’s Love Fest happy hour with drink specials and music. Also beginning at 2 p.m., Aqua will hold the post-Pride festival after-party until 5 p.m. with food, drinks, and music to keep the energy going. At 4 p.m. Rigby’s (404 Rehoboth Ave.) hosts Pride karaoke, where guests are encouraged to belt out their favorite Pride anthems from Madonna to Gaga.
At 6 p.m., the Funny Girlz Lisa Koch, Vickie Shaw & Roxanna Ward host this year’s Pride comedy show at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center, which will turn into a dance party after the comedy set. Tickets are available at sussexpride.org/rehobothbeach/. At 8:30 p.m. The Pines (56 Baltimore Ave.) has queen Candi Fuentes hosting local drag legend Mona Lotts’s 60th birthday. Tickets are $5 (18+) and can be purchased at thepinesrb.com. To end the night with dancing, Diego’s (37298 Rehoboth Ave Ext) hosts a Pride party from 10 a.m.-1 a.m.
On the last day of Rehoboth Pride, Sunday, The Lion’s Den Candle Company (217 Philadelphia St.) hosts the Mimosas & Yoga event at 11:30 a.m. to help unwind from any hangovers or stretched muscles after a weekend of dancing. Also at 11:30, Goolee’s hosts another drag brunch show, with tickets still available on its website. The Pines will also host a drag brunch at noon and was voted “Best Rehoboth Drag Show” by Washington Blade readers in 2023. $15 tickets are available on The Pines website. At noon, Aqua is holding a Pride Bear Beer Bust with beer specials. After the Beer Bust, Aqua’s Closing Tea Dance starts at 3 p.m. with DJ Biff spinning to end Pride with a dance party.
With a diverse lineup of events, this year’s Rehoboth Pride weekend has something for everyone and allows for the opportunity to help LGBTQ Delawareans.
“Advancing our community together is a big part of the organization, it’s a big part of Sussex Pride, and Rehoboth Beach Pride weekend,” Mariner said.
Rehoboth Beach
Rehoboth’s Blue Moon sold; new owners to preserve LGBTQ legacy
‘They don’t want to change a thing’
The iconic Blue Moon restaurant and bar in Rehoboth Beach, Del., has been sold to new owners who have pledged to keep it an LGBTQ-affirming space, according to longtime owner Tim Ragan.
Ragan and his partner Randy Haney sold the Blue Moon to Dale Lomas and Mike Subrick, owners of Atlantic Liquors on Route 1.
“They don’t want to change a thing,” Ragan said. “They’re local people, they live here. Dale worked his first job at Dolle’s.”
Ragan and Haney did not sell the business, only the real estate. The deal includes a 10-year lease with renewal options under which Ragan and Haney will continue to operate the Moon. He noted that the couple could opt to sell the business at any time.
“It’s going really well so I’m not in any hurry,” Ragan told the Blade. “It’s hard to run a business and manage a property that’s 120 years old — now someone else has to fix the air conditioning. Our responsibility will be to run the business.”
Ragan offered reassurances that the Moon will continue to be a gay-friendly destination.
“Dale’s comment was that Rehoboth has been good to us and we just want to give back. The Moon is part of Rehoboth’s history and we want to preserve that.”
He said there are no immediate changes planned for the structure, apart from a new roof in the atrium that was damaged in a hail storm. Ragan noted that the property comes with several apartment rental licenses that they have never exercised and the new owners may decide to rent those out.
The Blue Moon business, at 35 Baltimore Ave., dates to 1981 and is an integral part of Rehoboth’s LGBTQ community, hosting countless entertainment events, drag shows, and more over 45 years. Local residents have celebrated birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, and other special occasions in the acclaimed restaurant.
The two buildings associated with the sale were listed by Carrie Lingo at 35 Baltimore Ave., and include an apartment, the front restaurant (6,600 square feet with three floors and a basement), and a secondary building (roughly 1,800 square feet on two floors). They were listed for $4.5 million. The bar and restaurant business were being sold separately.
But then, earlier this year, the Blue Moon real estate listing turned up on the Sussex County Sheriff’s Office auction site. The auction was slated for Tuesday, April 21 but hours before the sale, the listing changed to “active under contract” indicating that a buyer had been found but the sale was not yet final.
Ragan said the issue was the parties couldn’t resolve how much was owed due to a disagreement with the bank. “We didn’t owe $3 million,” he said. “We said we’re not paying any more until we sell.”
The sale contract was written five months ago. It took three attorneys to get a payoff amount agreed to by the bank, he added.
“No one wanted to buy both things. We now have a longterm lease. We couldn’t be happier.”
Rehoboth Beach
Rehoboth Summer Kickoff Party set for May 15 with Ashley Biden
The Washington Blade’s 19th annual Summer Kickoff Party is scheduled for Friday, May 15 in Rehoboth Beach, Del.
Ashley Biden, daughter of President Joe Biden, has joined the list of speakers, the Blade announced. She will accept an award on behalf of her brother Beau Biden for his LGBTQ advocacy work as Delaware attorney general. (Her appearance was rescheduled from last year.)
The event, to be held this year at Diego’s (37298 Rehoboth Ave. Ext.) from 5-7 p.m., is a fundraiser for the Blade Foundation’s Steve Elkins Memorial Fellowship in Journalism, which funds a summer position reporting on LGBTQ news in Delaware. This year’s recipient will be introduced at the event.
The event will also feature remarks from state Rep. Claire Snyder-Hall. New CAMP Rehoboth Executive Director Dr. Robin Brennan and Blade editor Kevin Naff will also speak. The event is generously sponsored by Realtor Justin Noble, The Avenue Inn & Spa, and Diego’s.
A suggested donation of $25 is partially tax deductible and includes a drink ticket and light appetizers. Tickets are available in advance at bladefoundation.org/rehoboth or at the door.
Rehoboth Beach
Auction of Rehoboth’s Blue Moon canceled
Details on sale of iconic bar, restaurant not disclosed
The Blue Moon in Rehoboth Beach, Del., has been an iconic presence in the local LGBTQ community for four decades but its status remains murky after a sheriff’s auction of the property was abruptly called off on Tuesday.
The property was listed for sale in December. At that time, owner Tim Ragan told the Blade that he is committed to preserving its legacy as a gay-friendly space.
“We had no idea the interest this would create,” Ragan said in December. “I guess I was a little naive about that.”
Ragan explained that he and longtime partner Randy Haney were separating the real estate from the business. The two buildings associated with the sale were listed by Carrie Lingo at 35 Baltimore Ave., and include an apartment, the front restaurant (6,600 square feet with three floors and a basement), and a secondary building (roughly 1,800 square feet on two floors). They were listed for $4.5 million.
The bar and restaurant business is being sold separately; the price was not publicly disclosed.
But then, earlier this year, the Blue Moon real estate listing turned up on the Sussex County Sheriff’s Office auction site. The auction was slated for Tuesday, April 21 but hours before the sale, the listing changed to “active under contract” indicating that a buyer has been found but the sale is not yet final. As of Wednesday morning, the listing has been removed from the sheriff’s auction site.
Ragan didn’t respond to Blade inquiries about the auction. Back in December, he told the Blade, “It’s time to look for the next people who can continue the history of the Moon and cultivate the next chapter,” noting that he turns 70 this year. “We’re not panicked; we separated the building from the business. Some buyers can’t afford both.”
The identity of the buyer was not disclosed, nor was the sale price.
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