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All Stars spotlight: Stonewall Climbing welcomes all genders
Local climbers find athletic challenge, camaraderie in queer league
Ari Dolmon (left) and CV Viverito are members of Stonewall Climbing. (Photos courtesy Dolmon and Viverito)
This week in the Washington Blade’s All Star series, we meet two athletes from Stonewall Climbing whose fourth season is starting this week. Registration is still open for limited spots in the season which runs through September. The Stonewall Climbing league offers recreational climbing in a team format.
After moving to D.C. in December of 2015, Ari Dolmon started looking for a rock-climbing option. Even though she had never climbed before, it was an item on her checklist. She gave D.C. Fray Frisbee a try first but didn’t click with any of the players. Now entering her third season with Stonewall Climbing, she has found the niche that she was looking for in D.C.
“I fell in love with rock climbing immediately and the people have been incredibly welcoming. I had been missing that feeling of being connected to something since moving here,” Dolmon says. “I didn’t think it was going to be my thing, but it really has been for the past year.”
Dolmon grew up in Woodstock, Ill., and didn’t play in organized sports except for one attempt at soccer. While attending the University of Illinois she played pick-up frisbee, rugby and soccer along with taking on several hiking trips in Colorado.
She is enjoying the challenges that rock climbing present and finds correlations with her ongoing transition as a transgender woman.
“When you start out in rock climbing, you go through a period of accomplishments and then reach a plateau. You have to develop skills to reach the next level,” Dolmon says. “Through that you are pushing yourself to be a better person and you have teammates that are there to push you along the way.”
After college, Dolmon worked in Israel as an English teacher. Now working as an associate for a law consulting firm, she came to D.C. because of its strong queer presence and a desire to stay connected to the international community. The welcoming space provided by Stonewall Climbing has been integral to her path.
“One of my challenges is that I want other people to see me the way I see myself,” Dolmon says. “Even over time there is always going to be a masculine and feminine dynamic since I identify as a butch woman. I want to be strong, but strong as a woman.”
Every day things such as the type of clothing Dolmon wears are made just a bit easier when she is heading to a session with Stonewall Climbing.
“I just throw on a sports bra and women’s cut clothing. It makes me happy that I can put myself out there and have the full backing of everyone I know,” Dolmon says. “My mental transition is long past; now I am working on the physical.”
CV Viverito enjoys a team environment and believes that sports lead to being more focused and organized in all aspects of life. While they were recovering and doing physical therapy from a soccer back injury, a friend suggested rock climbing as a possible outlet.
“I love having a sport and a team. Rock climbing is individual but not with the team format of Stonewall Climbing,” Viverito says. “The sport is both a physical and mental workout and it gives you a Zen feeling. When I am on a treadmill, I am thinking about my day. When I am on the wall, I don’t have the capacity to think about anything else.”
Growing up in South Brunswick, N.J., Viverito was a three-sport athlete in soccer, softball and basketball. They (a pronoun Viverito uses) switched over to soccer full-time playing on their high school team as well as on a state club team, the Jersey Knights. They played four years of varsity soccer at Muhlenberg College.
Viverito studied abroad in Spain during college and ended up moving there to teach English and work in ESL curriculum for two years. Their first job back in the States was at Human Rights Campaign before taking a career detour at the Art Institute of Washington.
Citing a desire to return to work in the LGBT community, they are now working as an international programs manager with the Victory Institute.
Soccer was still their sport of choice in D.C. and they played with the Washington Area Women’s Soccer League before discovering rock climbing. The environment at Stonewall Climbing has been a welcoming experience and this will be their third season with the league.
Viverito identifies as non-binary and/or genderqueer.
“The last time I played organized soccer was four years ago and I wasn’t out as genderqueer,” Viverito says. “It is no big deal at Stonewall Climbing because the teams aren’t divided by gender. I don’t really have to think about it.”
The leadership of Stonewall Climbing has been encouraging more diversity in the league in the hopes that it will increase the levels of understanding among the athletes and the staff at the rock climbing gyms. There is also outreach and social events with other climbing groups including Brown Girls Climb and Brothers of Climbing.
Recently, some of the gym management sat down for a conversation initiated by Stonewall leadership and facilitated by Viverito.
“We discussed topics such as respectful language, commonality of language, appropriate questions, locker rooms and facilities,” Viverito says. “It was great, and the gym staff learned a lot.”
Viverito started as a beginner and says they are at an intermediate level now and feeling more comfortable on the wall every week. The safe space offered at Stonewall Climbing has allowed them to thrive in their new sport.
“I am in spaces in life where I am not comfortable and that is not the case at Stonewall Climbing,” Viverito says. “It’s a great feeling just getting on the Metro knowing I am heading to climbing.”
CONTENT WARNING: The following story discusses suicide ideation.
Her first few weeks behind bars in a Russian prison took a terrible toll on Brittney Griner, the lesbian WNBA star who is breaking her silence on the 10 months she was held on drug-related charges.
“I wanted to take my life more than once in the first weeks,” Griner told ABC’s Robin Roberts in a primetime interview Wednesday. “I felt like leaving here so badly.”
The two-time Olympic gold medalist and nine-time WNBA All-Star, who plays for the Phoenix Mercury, said she ultimately decided against suicide, partly because she feared Russian authorities would not release her body to her wife, Cherelle Griner.
Griner, 33, was arrested on Feb. 17, 2022, at Sheremetyevo International Airport in Khimki, a suburb of Moscow. Authorities said they found vape cartridges in her luggage containing cannabis oil, which is illegal in the country.
Griner told Roberts that was the result of a “mental lapse” on her part — packing the cannabis oil cartridges in her luggage, Griner said that she had overslept on the morning she was leaving for Russia to play during the WNBA’s off-season, which is how many of the league’s vastly underpaid players earn a living, compared to NBA players.
So, she packed while she was “in panic mode,” Griner said.
“My packing at that moment was just throwing all my stuff in there and zipping it up and saying, ‘OK, I’m ready,’” she told Roberts.
After landing in Russia, Griner realized that she had those two cannabis oil cartridges in her luggage as Russian security officers inspected her bag at the airport. She recalled the moment as a sinking feeling.
“I’m just like, ‘Oh, my God.’ Like, ‘How did I — how did I make this mistake?’” Griner said. “I could just visualize everything I worked so hard for just crumbling and going away.”
Russian authorities immediately arrested Griner, but her trial would not take place for five months. She described the horrible conditions of her imprisonment during that delay, saying that she didn’t always have toilet paper and that the toothpaste they gave her had expired about 15 years ago.
“That toothpaste was expired,” she said. “We used to put it on the black mold to kill the mold on the walls.”
“The mattress had a huge blood stain on it, and they give you these thin two sheets,” she added. “So you’re basically laying on bars.”
On July 7, 2022, Griner pleaded guilty at her trial to drug charges, admitting that she had the vape cartridges containing cannabis oil but stating she put them in her luggage unintentionally. She testified that she had packed the cartridges by accident, and had “no intention” to break Russian law.
Roberts pressed Griner on this point: “You know there are those who say, ‘Come on. How did you not know that you had cartridges in your luggage?’”
“It’s just so easy to have a mental lapse,” Griner replied. “Granted, my mental lapse was on a more grand scale. But it doesn’t take away from how that can happen,” she explained.
Griner was sentenced to nine years in prison on Aug. 4, 2022, and in October 2022, a judge denied the appeal filed by Griner’s attorneys.
The sentence landed Griner in a penal colony in the Russian region of Mordovia.
“It’s a work camp. You go there to work,” said Griner. “There’s no rest.” Her job was cutting fabric for Russian military uniforms.
“What were the conditions like there?” Roberts asked.
“Really cold,” Griner said. So cold that her health was impacted and she decided to chop off her long dreadlocks.
“What was that like losing that part of you, too?” Roberts asked Griner.
“Honestly, it just had to happen. We had spiders above my bed — making nests,” she said. “My dreads started to freeze,” she added. “They would just stay wet and cold and I was getting sick. You’ve gotta do what you’ve gotta do to survive.”
Her arrest came around the same time as Russia’s invasion of Ukraine, further increasing tensions between Russia and the U.S. But as the Los Angeles Blade reported on Dec, 8, 2022, Russia agreed to release Griner in exchange for Russian arms dealer Viktor Bout.
However, before winning her freedom, Griner revealed authorities forced her to write a letter to Russian President Vladimir Putin.
“They made me write this letter. It was in Russian,” she said. “I had to ask for forgiveness and thanks from their so-called great leader. I didn’t want to do it, but at the same time I wanted to come home.”
Griner said her heart sank upon boarding the plane to freedom and finding that Paul Whelan, another American the White House said was “wrongfully detained,” wasn’t leaving Russia with her.
“I walked on and didn’t see him, maybe he’s next. Maybe they will bring him next,” she said. “They closed the door, and I was like, are you serious? You’re not going to let this man come home now.”
Griner recounts on the experience in “Coming Home,” a memoir set to be released on May 7.
988 is the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline and is available 24/7 via phone, text or chat to everyone of all ages, orientations and identities. If you are a transgender, nonbinary, or gender-nonconforming person considering suicide, Trans Lifeline can be reached at 877-565-8860. LGBTQ+ youth (ages 24 and younger) can reach the Trevor Project Lifeline at 1-866-488-7386. You can still also contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 24 hours a day, and it’s available to people of all ages and identities.
Additional resources:
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Bisexual former umpire sues Major League Baseball for sexual harassment
Brandon Cooper claims female colleague sexually harassed him
A fired former umpire is suing Major League Baseball, claiming he was sexually harassed by a female umpire and discriminated against because of his gender and his sexual orientation.
Brandon Cooper worked in the minor league Arizona Complex League last year, and according to the lawsuit he filed Wednesday in federal court in Manhattan, he identifies as bisexual.
“I wanted my umpiring and ability to speak for itself and not to be labeled as ‘Brandon Cooper the bisexual umpire,’” he told Outsports. “I didn’t want to be labeled as something. It has been a passion of mine to simply make it to the Major Leagues.”
But that didn’t happen. Instead of being promoted, he was fired. His suit names MLB and an affiliated entity, PDL Blue, Inc., and alleges he had endured a hostile work environment and wrongful termination and/or retaliation because of gender and sexual orientation under New York State and New York City law.
“Historically the MLB has had a homogenous roster of umpires working in both the minor and major leagues,” Cooper claims in his suit. “Specifically, to date there has never been a woman who has worked in a (regular) season game played in the majors, and most umpires are still Caucasian men. To try to fix its gender and racial diversity issue, defendants have implemented an illegal diversity quota requiring that women be promoted regardless of merit.”
Cooper claims former umpire Ed Rapuano, now an umpire evaluator, and Darren Spagnardi, an umpire development supervisor, told him in January 2023 that MLB had a hiring quota, requiring that at least two women be among 10 new hires.
According to the suit, Cooper was assigned to spring training last year and was notified by the senior manager of umpire administration, Dusty Dellinger, that even though he received a high rating in June from former big league umpire Jim Reynolds, now an umpire supervisor, that women and minority candidates had to be hired first.
Cooper claims that upon learning Cooper was bisexual, fellow umpire Gina Quartararo insulted him and fellow umpire Kevin Bruno by using homophobic slurs and crude remarks. At that time, Quartararo and Cooper worked on the same umpiring crew and being evaluated for possible promotion to the big leagues.
This season, Quartararo is working as an umpire in the Florida State League, one of nine women who are working as minor league umpires.
Cooper said he notified Dellinger, but instead of taking action against Quartararo, he said MLB ordered Cooper to undergo sensitivity training. According to his lawsuit, he was also accused of violating the minor league anti-discrimination and harassment policy.
Cooper’s suit says he met with MLB Senior Vice President of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Billy Bean — who the Los Angeles Blade reported in December is battling cancer.
The lawsuit says at that meeting, Bean told the umpire that Quartararo claimed she was the victim, as the only female umpire in the ACL. Cooper said he told Bean Quartararo regularly used homophobic slurs and at one point physically shoved him. He also claims that he has video evidence, texts and emails to prove his claim.
But he said his complaints to Major League Baseball officials were ignored. His lawsuit said MLB passed him over for the playoffs and fired him in October. He said of the 26 umpires hired with Cooper, he was the only one let go.
Through a spokesperson, MLB declined to comment on pending litigation. Quartararo has also not publicly commented on the lawsuit.
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Brittney Griner, wife expecting first child
WNBA star released from Russian gulag in December 2022
One year after returning to the WNBA after her release from a Russian gulag and declaring, “I’m never playing overseas again,” Phoenix Mercury star Brittney Griner and her wife announced they have something even bigger coming up this summer.
Cherelle, 31, and Brittney, 33, are expecting their first child in July. The couple shared the news with their 715,000 followers on Instagram.
“Can’t believe we’re less than three months away from meeting our favorite human being,” the caption read, with the hashtag, #BabyGrinerComingSoon and #July2024.
Griner returned to the U.S. in December 2022 in a prisoner swap, more than nine months after being arrested in Moscow for possession of vape cartridges containing prescription cannabis.
In April 2023, at her first news conference following her release, the two-time Olympic gold medalist made only one exception to her vow to never play overseas again: To return to the Summer Olympic Games, which will be played in Paris starting in July, the same month “Baby Griner” is due. “The only time I would want to would be to represent the USA,” she said last year.
Given that the unrestricted free agent is on the roster of both Team USA and her WNBA team, it’s not immediately clear where Griner will be when their first child arrives.
The Griners purchased their “forever home” in Phoenix just last year.
“Phoenix is home,” Griner said at the Mercury’s end-of-season media day, according to ESPN. “Me and my wife literally just got a place. This is it.”
As the Los Angeles Blade reported last December, Griner is working with Good Morning America anchor Robin Roberts — like Griner, a married lesbian — on an ESPN television documentary as well as a television series for ABC about her life story. Cherelle is executive producer of these projects.
Next month, Griner’s tell-all memoir of her Russian incarceration will be published by Penguin Random House. It’s titled “Coming Home” and the hardcover hits bookstores on May 7.
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