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As ADA turns 20, some of us are still not part of the community

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This month, Disability Pride Month, people with disabilities, queer and straight, will celebrate a milestone. July 26 is the 20th anniversary of the passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA).

Twenty years ago, holding on to my white cane in my office in Cleveland where I worked then, I wept with joy when the Americans with Disabilities Act was passed. When the first President George Bush declared that it was time for the “walls of exclusion” to come tumbling down, I, along with millions of people with disabilities, LGBTQ and hetero, went over the moon.

The ADA protects people with disabilities ranging from blindness to diabetes from disability-based discrimination in employment, government services and public accommodations. When it became law, people like me had civil rights for the first time. Earlier in my life, a woman working at a public library told me that, “a blind person like you shouldn’t be out alone.” My experience was far from unique. Knowing that we had the ADA was like catnip to us. If we encountered discrimination, we could now seek legal redress.

One in five Americans (51.2 million) has a disability and from three to five million people are LGBTQ and have disabilities, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. I am one of many who are disabled in the queer community. We are of all races, classes, ages, genders and occupations. Reclaiming the pejorative terms “queer” and “cripple,” increasing numbers of us proudly call ourselves “queer crips.”

Yet our presence isn’t well known or always welcomed in the LGBTQ community. Many places (from bars to shops) and events (such as conferences) in the queer community aren’t accessible to folks with disabilities. My friend, Hugh Gallagher, used a wheelchair. Gallagher, the author of “FDR’s Splendid Deception,” worked on Capitol Hill. “I can only get into one gay bar [in Washington, D.C.],” he told me in 2004, the year he died.

In 2008, I was honored to be chosen to participate in a Lambda Literary Foundation retreat. I had a fabulous time attending poetry workshops and hanging out with other queer writers. But I couldn’t wholeheartedly benefit from the gathering, because some aspects of the event (such as getting to the dining area) weren’t accessible to people with disabilities.

Then there’s the perception that queer crips can’t have or don’t like sex. Wrong. We can and we do. Years ago, at a lesbian bar a woman turned to me and exclaimed, “I love Helen Keller! What are you doing in a place like this?” What she meant was that blind people are inspirational — but they never look for sex or romance.

Most LGBTQ people don’t know that disability and gay rights activists were among those who worked together to get the ADA passed. Often, able-bodied people think of people with disabilities as being disconnected from their lives, history or culture. But this is a false assumption. Though little known, there are parallels between being queer and crip.

The ADA covers many in the LGBTQ community, including, but not limited to, people with HIV/AIDS, cancer survivors and recovering alcoholics.

Disabled people, like LGBTQ people, are often misunderstood by their families. For years, laws and societal pressures prohibited people with disabilities from marrying and having children. If you’re queer and crip, you run up against people who will want to “heal” you.

Don Dew, a gay man who has epilepsy, is executive director of ReachOut USA, an organization that focuses on the intersection of disability and LGBT concerns. It is the first such program in the country.

“Often, when disabled people come out of the closet, they’re kept out of the community that they’ve come out to,” he said in a phone interview. It’s almost as if “people stay away out of fear of catching a disability from you,” Dew said, adding, “I’ve talked to LGBT organizations about disability issues.

They said it was something that needed to be studied. “Nothing happened after that.”

As we enter the next decade of life with the ADA, I invite you to get to know us queer crips and to celebrate our history. That’s what must happen if we are to become a full part of the LGBTQ community.

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  1. Stephen Gorman

    July 25, 2010 at 7:49 am

    As an open queer disabled crip, I am always glad to see the Blade highlight another part of our diverse LGBT community. That said, it would be helpful to make it clear that disabilities include a wider community than what many people think. There is a disabled community that actually took the bull by the horn and created change without waiting as victims for others to address their special needs. They are Persons With AIDS (PWAs) and their well known group was ACT UP. If it had not been for ACT UP, many of the very slow research protocals would still be in place. Further, my guess is that many readers of the Blade know someone with HIV. ACT UP stands a model not just to other people with disabilities but to any community desire of necessary change but its success was based on people cooperating with one another regardless of background.

    As former chair of the Mayor’s Committee on Persons with Disabilities, it was regretful to me that the biggest problem that occurred within the disability community was a general lack of interest in disabilities than other then their own. If the blind cared about the deaf and if the deaf cared about the spina bifidas, and if the spina bifidas cared about the PWAs, etc, the disability community would be more visible and more politically powerful than it actually is. Perhaps if the Blade published other crip voices – Washington has a relatively large queer deaf community for example, more readers may acknowledge disabilities more personally, then perhaps Kathi Wolfe will get her wish.

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