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Donald Despertt, 30

Senior advertising coordinator at the Washington Post was involved in LGBT and AIDS fundraising events

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Donald Despertt. (Screen shot via LinkedIn.com)
Donald Despertt. (Screen shot via LinkedIn.com)

Donald Despertt. (Screen shot via LinkedIn.com)

Donald Allen Despertt, a senior advertising coordinator at the Washington Post who was involved with a separate business that produces entertainment events, including LGBT and AIDS fundraising events, died in Washington on June 17. He was 30.

In recent years, Donald Despertt served as a volunteer event organizer for D.C. Black Pride, one of the cityā€™s largest LGBT events, in his role as chief operating officer at Omega Entertainment, an event planning company, according to his friend Michael Stratton.

Desperttā€™s interest in business and entrepreneurship surfaced in a May 1999 article in the Washington Times when he was a junior at D.C.ā€™s Theodore Roosevelt High School. The article noted that he began training for a career as an entrepreneur in the sixth grade and started his own baking business when he was 15.

Biographical information posted on his LinkedIn page says he won the National Young Entrepreneur of the Year Award from the National Foundation for Teaching Entrepreneurship in 1999. One year earlier, the same organization named Donald Despertt first place winner in its Business Plan Competition contest.

He graduated from Roosevelt High as class valedictorian in 2000 before beginning his undergraduate studies at Georgetown University in marketing, operations and information management. He later served as advertising manager for The Hoya, the Georgetown University student newspaper.

In 2010 and 2011 Despertt served as director of men’s promotion for the White Attire Affair fundraising event for Al Sura, a D.C. charitable foundation that gives money to AIDS service organizations.

ā€œHe was a wonderful person who did all he could to help community organizations that helped people,ā€ said Abur-Rahim Briggs, president of Al Sura.

A viewing and funeral service were scheduled for 10 a.m. Wednesday, July 3, at Peace Baptist Church at 712 18th St., N.E. Interment was scheduled to follow the service at D.C.ā€™s Glenwood Cemetery.

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Washington lawyer Carolee Byrley dies at age 60

An active member of the local Gay Recovery Community

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Carolee Byrley

Carolee Byrley passed away unexpectedly on Oct. 30, 2024, in her home in Washington, D.C.Ā She was 60.

She died from complications of Type One diabetes. 

She was born on Sept. 2, 1964, in Ft. Walton Beach, Fla., to Paul L. Byrley and Judith I. Byrley.Ā 

She graduated in 1982 from Winter Park High School in Winter Park, Fla., and from college at Florida State University in Tallahassee, Fla. She later earned a law degree from Georgetown University Law School in Washington, D.C.

Byrley practiced law in Washington specializing in contracts and mergers.Ā 

Byrley was predeceased by her father as well as by Eileen Garner, her loving life partner of 38 years. She is survived by her mother, Judith Ireland, stepfather, Jerrold Nussbaum, brother, John Byrley, sister-in-law, Lena Byrley, brother, Jason Byrley, brother-in-law, Ben Byrley, and nephews, Jack and Alex Byrley.

Byrley was an active member of the Gay Recovery Community in Washington where she sponsored many people over the years. She recently received recognition for 40 years of sobriety and was living proof of the slogan, ā€œKeep what you have by giving it away.ā€ Her generosity and authenticity shown through in all she did. There was not a bone in her body that was fake. And, as one of her friends described her, she was ā€œthe kindest person I have ever met.ā€Ā 

Byrley was deeply committed to her dogs through the years and to the care and protection of rescue dogs everywhere.Ā 

A celebration of Byrley’s life will be held on Dec. 7 at 3 p.m. at Friends of Washington, 2111 Decatur Place, Washington, D.C., where friends encourage those who knew her to share memories of her life. There will be a reception at Friends following the memorial.Ā 

In lieu of flowers, please give a donation to your local dog rescue organization, in her name.Ā 

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Longtime media professional Michael Flocker dies at 61

A “Celebration of Life” will be held in Washington, D.C. by his many friends on November 16th.

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Michael E. Flocker

Michael E. Flocker of Washington, D.C. passed away on Oct. 11, 2024, at the age of 61. He will be remembered with much love and missed by his mother, brother, niece and nephew and many of his U.K. relatives. He was predeceased by his father, Dale Price Flocker.

He was born in North Plainfield, N.J., and moved to Berlin, Germany, with his family for more than seven years, where his father was a pilot with Pan Am. On returning to the U.S. he lived in Wilton, Conn., for high school and New York City for college. He also lived in Los Angeles for many years where he pursued acting and singing. He later was hired by America Online and offered a higher position at AOL in New York City. From there he began writing books, with his first book, “The Metrosexual Guide to Style,” making the New York Times bestseller list. All of his books are available on Amazon.

Following his AOL career, Michael started working at NBCā€™s online division. This led to an on-camera role as an entertainment reporter in New York City on a local station. Eventually, Michael made his way to D.C. where he worked remotely for an online media company called Stacker.

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Ted Olson, unlikely marriage equality champion, dies at 84

Conservative attorney led charge to overturn Prop 8 in Calif.

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Ted Olson (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Ted Olson, a Republican lawyer who championed gay rights by leading multiple marriage equality lawsuits, died on Wednesday in Fairfax, Va., after suffering a stroke. He was 84.

As a lifelong conservative, Olson served as assistant attorney general in the Justice Department under President Ronald Reagan and represented President George W. Bush in the 2000 presidential election recount case that went before the U.S. Supreme Court. He later served as solicitor general in the Bush administration. 

Despite his conservative roots, Olson became a steadfast advocate of marriage equality, leading the legal fight to overturn Californiaā€™s ban on same-sex marriage, which voters had approved through Proposition 8 in 2008.

Together with Democratic lawyer David Boies, his former legal adversary in Bush v. Gore, Olson successfully argued before a California district court that Prop 8 was unconstitutional. After a series of legal challenges, the Supreme Court in 2013 upheld the district court ruling, allowing same-sex marriages to resume in California and invalidating part of a federal law that defined marriage as between a man and a woman.

Olson and Boies in 2013 also challenged the constitutionality of Virginia’s ban on same-sex marriage. That same year, Olson broke with his party by publicly supporting the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, which would prohibit employers from discriminating against LGBTQ workers.

ā€œI feel very, very strongly that this country ought to stop discriminating against our citizens on the basis of their sexual orientation,ā€ he told the Washington Blade in 2013. ā€œIt is unfair, itā€™s unreasonable, itā€™s unacceptable. It serves no purpose and it does a great deal of harm.ā€

In a career that spans almost sixty years, Olson argued 65 cases in front of the SupremeĀ Court, according to his law firm, Gibson Dunn. He was often seen as a potential candidate for Supreme Court justice.

He represented Citizens United in a landmark 2010 Supreme Court case that removed limits on political contributions by corporations and labor unions. In 2020 he successfully argued against then-President Donald Trumpā€™s attempt to deport ā€œDreamersā€ ā€” undocumented minors whose parents brought them into the U.S.

Olson is survived by his wife, Lady Booth Olson, and two children. 

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