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The other gay beach towns
There’s queer life beyond Rehoboth and Provincetown

The beach at Asbury Park, N.J., a town known for its gay population. (Photo by L.H. Collins; courtesy Wikimedia)
We all love Rehoboth Beach, Del. Fire Island remains a popular and iconic destination for gay beachgoers, especially from the New York area. And Provincetown continues to draw LGBT crowds for its laid-back vibe and welcoming atmosphere.
But if you’re looking for something new, there are gay-friendly beach towns off the beaten path. Here are a few within driving distance of Washington.
Colonial Beach, Va.

Ted Tait (left) and Chris Adcock at their home in Colonial Beach. Va. (Photo courtesy the couple)
Chris Adcock and Ted Tait were drawn to Colonial Beach in 2011 for its reputation as a great boating town. Once docked, they discovered its gay life.
For those wanting to skip the fast-paced partying and slow-moving traffic of Rehoboth Beach, Del., Tait and Adcock recommend Virginia’s second-largest beach for its quaint, small-town feel and warm acceptance.
“They’re drastic opposite ends of the spectrum in a good way,” Adcock says. “Rehoboth is the new, modern, clubby younger scene where as Colonial Beach is much more sleepy and neighborhoody. Everybody knows everybody.”
Tait and Adcock chose their Craftsman-style bungalow in Colonial Beach for its wraparound porch, perfect for entertaining. The couple was able to put their porch to good use much sooner than expected thanks to welcoming neighbors.
“The day after we closed on the house we had just gotten the keys and invited friends over for drinks,” Tait says. “Our neighbors started coming over to introduce themselves and next thing we knew we had a cocktail party for at least 30 people. I know more of my neighbors in Colonial Beach after living here on weekends for four-and-a-half years than after living in Springfield 18 years.”
Adcock remembers wanting to put up his rainbow flag, but hesitantly asking neighbors if he should. Everyone encouraged him to do it and the flag has flown for five years without a hint of negativity from anyone.
While the LGBT population in Colonial Beach isn’t quite as booming as Rehoboth, Tait and Adcock say the town is on the cusp of becoming more popular with more gay and lesbian couples moving in. They’ve welcomed friends into the town many times over the last five years for the same reason they chose Colonial Beach: affordability and community.
According to Adcock, their bungalow would be a half-million dollar home in Rehoboth, but was easily a quarter of that in Colonial Beach, which is less than a two-hour drive (65 miles) from Washington.
“I wouldn’t have been able to afford a down payment in Rehoboth,” Adcock says. “You get more land and for your money here, and it’s not as commercial yet.”
Colonial Beach-goers shouldn’t expect nights of partying, but the town still knows how to come together. Summers are full of festivals like Potomac River Festival, High Tides Blues Festival, Sirens of the Beach Music Festival, Waterfest and Rod Run to the Beach. October is the time for Bikefest and the Father’s Day Car Festival, where motorcycles, old cars and golf carts can be driven in a loop around the point.
Tait’s favorite event is the art walk held on the second Friday of each month, where guests can enjoy nibbles and wine while walking from gallery to gallery. He also recommends the Lighthouse, a Thai and French restaurant, and Denson’s Grocery (a highly regarded restaurant despite the low-key name) with fresh, locally sourced seafood.

Ted Tait and Chris Adcock say their Colonial Beach house is perfect for entertaining. (Photo courtesy the couple)
Ocean Grove & Asbury Park, N.J.
Shannon Mery moved to Asbury Park, N.J., almost nine years ago from Tampa, Fla. In the midst of the housing boom, his former company was building spec homes in the region and he needed to be closer to the projects.
After the bust, he started his own interior design firm. Denizen Design, his company, caters to high-end residential clients, many in New York. He’s close enough he can get there as often as he needs.
He was drawn to Asbury Park, which he calls a “transitioning” community in the state’s Monmouth County with about 16,000 residents, because it had the only gay life he knew of on the Jersey shore outside of Atlantic City. He says the change in the years he’s lived there have been remarkable. It’s about a three-and-a-half-hour drive (206 miles) from Washington.
“It’s still very gay, but it’s a little broader now,” Mery, 46, says. “There are a lot of straight people moving in, buying beach houses. There are also a lot of gay couples who come down from New York. … It’s exciting. It’s got a nice little pulse.”
Although Ocean Grove and Asbury Park are less than a mile-and-a-half apart in New Jersey’s Neptune Township, Mery says they have a different feel.
“Ocean Grove is a very historic kind of town with lots of gingerbread railings. Kind of like a Key West vibe, but in New Jersey. It’s very Victorian. I’d say Asbury Park is a little more urban and I would say more commercial. It’s just a totally different vibe.”
Mery volunteers at QSpot, an LGBT community center in Ocean Grove, an unincorporated community of about 3,300 just south of Asbury Park. He says there are clusters of gay people who socialize, have dinner and drinks and hang out together on the beach.
Tensions have periodically flared between Ocean Grove’s gay residents and the town, founded in 1869 during the “camp meeting” religious movement. Long known as a draw for Methodist groups, the community’s land is still leased to homeowners and businesses by the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association. Tensions flared a few years ago when a retired lesbian schoolteacher wanted to use a public pavilion to marry her partner.
Real estate prices are comparable in both towns and not especially reasonable. Be prepared to spend anywhere from $300,000 to $1 million for a beach house. Condos rent for $1,500-2,500 a month, Mery says.
So how did Asbury Park end up being the gayer of the two? Mery says it’s the same scenario that’s played out in many parts of the country — gays move into the dicier parts of town and over time, they gentrify.
“Back in the day, Asbury Park was not the best part of town. It was a place to go to dance, drink and party back in the day,” he says. “So the gays who came here then and made it through the bad period, they’re enjoying the renaissance now. It’s like any other town. We come in and convert it.”
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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2
Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’
The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m.
Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com.
An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all.
Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.
In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”
“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.
“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”
“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”
“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day.
Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.
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Queery: Meet artist, performer John Levengood
Modern creative talks nightlife, coming out, and his personal queer heroes
John Levengood (he/him) describes himself as a modern creative with a wide‑ranging toolkit. He blends music, technology, civic duty, and a sharp sense of wit into a cohesive artistic identity. Known primarily as a recording artist and performer, he’s also a self‑taught music producer and software engineer who embodies a generation of creators who build their own lanes rather than wait for one to appear.
Levengood, 32, who is single and identifies as gay and queer, is best known as a recording artist who has performed at Pride festivals across the country, including the main stages of World Pride DC, Central Arkansas Pride, and Charlotte Pride.
“Locally in the DMV, I’m known for turning heads at nightlife venues with my eye-catching sense of style. When I go out, I don’t try to blend in. I hope I inspire people to be themselves and have the courage to stand out,” he says.
He’s also known for hosting karaoke at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va., on Thursday nights. “I like to create a space where people feel comfortable expressing themselves, building community, and showcasing their talents.”
He also creates social media content from my performances and do interviews at LGBTQ+ bars and theatres in the DMV. Follow the Arlington resident @johnlevengood.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I have been fully out of the closet since 2019. My parents were the hardest people to tell because my family has always been my rock and at the time I couldn’t imagine a world without them. Their reactions were extremely positive and supportive so I had nothing to fear all along.
I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, dad, and sister in our hotel room in New Orleans during our winter vacation and being so nervous to tell them. After I finally mustered up the nerve and made the proclamation, I realized my dad had already fallen asleep on the couch. My mom promised to tell him when he woke up.
Who’s your LGBTQ hero?
My LGBTQ heroes are Harvey Milk for paving the way for gays in politics and Elton John for being a pioneer for the fabulous and authentic. My local heroes in the DMV are Howard Hicks, manager of Green Lantern, and Tony Rivenbark, manager of Freddie’s Beach Bar. Both of them are essential to creating spaces where I’ve felt welcome and safe since moving to the DMV.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Trade tops the list for me because of the dance floor and outdoor space. It’s so nice to get a break from the music every once and a while to be able to have a conversation.
We live in challenging times. How do you cope?
I’m still figuring this out. What is working right now is writing music and spending time with family and friends. I’ve also been spending less time on social media going to the gym at least three times a week.
What streaming show are you binging?
After “Traitors” Season 4 ended, I was in a bit of a show hole, but “Stumble” has me in a laughing loop right now. The writing is so witty.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
At 18, I wish I would have known how liberating it is to come out of the closet. It would have been nice to know some winning lottery numbers as well.
What are your friends messaging about in your most recent group chat?
We are planning our next trip to New York City. If you can believe it, I visited NYC for the first time in 2025 for Pride and I’ve been back every quarter since. Growing up in the country, I was subconsciously primed to be scared of the city. But my mind has been blown. I can’t wait to go back.
Why Washington?
It’s the closest metropolitan area to my family, but not too close. I love the museums, the diversity, the history, and the proximity to the beach and mountains. It’s also nice to live in a city with public transportation.
Aging RFK Stadium has come down, but the RFK grounds are still getting lit up. Welcome back to the stage Project GLOW, D.C.’s homegrown electronic festival, on May 30-31. Back for its fifth year on these musically inclined acres, Project GLOW returns with an even more diverse lineup, and one that continues to celebrate LGBTQ antecedents, attendees, and acts.
Project GLOW 2026 headliners include house and techno star Mau P, progressive house legend Eric Prydz, hard-techno favorite Sara Landry, and bass acts Excision b2b Sullivan King, among the lineup of trance, bass, house, techno, dubstep, and others for the fifth anniversary year.
President & CEO Pete Kalamoutsos — born and raised in D.C. — founded Club GLOW in 1999. In 2020, GLOW entered into a partnership with global entertainment company Insomniac Events to produce live events like Project GLOW, which kicked off in 2022.
As in past years, Project GLOW not only makes space, but is intentionally inclusive of the LGBTQ community, one of its most dedicated fan bases. The festival’s LGBTQ-focused Secret Garden stage blooms again — a more intimate dance area that stands on the strength of DJs and musicians who draw from the LGBTQ community. D.C.’s LGBTQ nightlife mastermind Ed Bailey is the creative mind behind Secret Garden again. He joined Project GLOW in 2023.
“Kalamoustos says that “he’s proud of his partnership with Ed Bailey, along with Capital Pride and [nightlife producer] Jake Resnikow. It’s amazing to collaborate with Bailey at the Secret Garden stage, especially after the curated lineup we worked on at Pride last year.”
The Secret Garden will be a bit different from other stages: Eternal (“At the Eternal stage, time stands still. Lose yourself in the dance of past, present, and future, surrendering to the eternal rhythm of the universe”) and Pulse (“Feel the rhythm of the beat pulse through your veins as the heartbeat of the crowd synchronizes into one. Here, every moment vibrates with life as it guides you through a new dimension of euphoria”). The Secret Garden stage is in the round, surrounded by 16 shipping containers. The containers play canvas to muralists from around the world, who are coming in to paint them in a vibrant garden-style vibe. “We gave this stage some extra love with this layout,” K says, “ we finally cracked the code.”
K says that this will be the biggest lineup yet for the Secret Garden, featuring Nicole Moudaber b2b Chasewest, Riordan b2b Bullet Tooth, Ranger Trucco, Cassian, Eli & Fur, Cosmic Gate and Hayla. The stage is also the largest yet, featuring an expanded dance floor and 360-degree viewing.
Across all stages, K says that his goal for the fifth anniversary is “More art and fan interactive experience, more like a festival, strive to be like a Tomorrowland, as budget grows to add more experience.” Last year’s Project GLOW alone drew 40,000 attendees over two days.
K, however, was not satisfied with one festival this spring. GLOW recently announced a “pop-up” one-day event. Teaming up with Black Book Records, GLOW is set to throw a first-of-its-kind dance-music takeover of Pennsylvania Avenue, N.W., headlined by electronic music star Chris Lake. Set for April 18, this euphoric block party will feature bass and vibes blocks from the White House. Organizers expect as many as 10,000 fans to attend. Beyond music, there will be food, activations, and plenty of other activities taking place around 6th St and Pennsylvania Ave NW – a location familiar to many in the LGBTQ community, as this sits squarely inside the blocks of the Capital Pride party that takes place in DC every June.
Over the past two decades, Club GLOW has produced thousands of events, from club nights to large-scale festivals including Project GLOW, Moonrise Festival, and more. Club GLOW also operates Echostage.
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