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10 great D.C. spots to pop the question
Region teeming with gorgeous, thrilling places to get engaged

As the District finally starts to shake the winter doldrums away and welcome the blooms of spring, love is also in the air. If you’re thinking about taking the next big step in your relationship, the pressure of finding the perfect venue can be stressful. Whether you and your partner are suckers for a classic romantic proposal or want something a little out of the ordinary, here is a list of some local places to consider popping the question.
Blagden Alley ‘Love’ Mural
Looking for an LGBTQ touch to include in your proposal? Consider taking your significant other to the “Love” mural in Blagden Alley (926 N St., N.W.). Artist Lisa Marie Thalhammer, who identifies as an activist and member of the LGBTQ community, painted the word “Love” in rainbow colors on four garage doors in 2017. The mural is also available to purchase in a set of four prints so you and your partner can always have a piece of the proposal moment with you. lisamariestudio.com.
Fiola
For a classic dinner proposal, consider Italian hotspot Fiola (601 Pennsylvania Ave., N.W.). The upscale restaurant is known for its contemporary Italian cuisine and creative cocktails which will add that extra flavor to the special evening. When making your reservation, be sure to let Fiola know you’re planning to propose. The restaurant will try to make special food and table accommodations to suit the occasion. fioladc.com.
iFly Indoor Skydiving
The thrill-seeking couple can get pumped with a double dose of adrenaline at iFly Indoor Skydiving. Experience the heart-pumping jump out of an aircraft without ever taking flight. iFly Indoor Skydiving is the equivalent to 1.5 skydives. You can pop the question to your significant other after you both have taken flight and are buzzing with adrenaline or celebrate the engagement by taking a flight right after the proposal. A venue is only a short drive away with locations in Baltimore and Montgomery County. Flight prices range from $79.95-127.95. iflyworld.com.
Roof Terrace Restaurant at the Kennedy Center
Performing arts lovers should consider taking in a show at the Kennedy Center (2700 F St., N.W.) before whisking away their loved one to the Roof Terrace Restaurant. The two of you can enjoy a show of a lifetime from any of the Kennedy Center’s programming which includes dance, theater, comedy, opera and more. After the show, take in the view of the city from the open-air rooftop terrace where you can pop the question. Later, you can commemorate the engagement with a celebratory toast at the Roof Terrace Restaurant. kennedy-center.org.
Martin’s Tavern
If you want to make your proposal one for the history books, ask for booth number three at Martin’s Tavern (1264 Wisconsin Ave., N.W.) located on the bustling main street of Georgetown. The oldest family-owned restaurant in D.C. is said to have been the place where John F. Kennedy proposed to his girlfriend, the one and only Jacqueline Bouvier, in booth number three. The two of you can relish in knowing you share a proposal spot with former President Kennedy and Jackie O. martinstavern.com.
National Cherry Blossom Festival
An Instagram-worthy proposal wouldn’t be complete without beautiful scenery. Take your significant other to see the cherry blossoms during their peak bloom dates in April for engagement photos that will display both your love for each other and D.C. The soft pink trees are the ideal backdrop to showcase that love and spring were in the air when you got down on one knee. nationalcherryblossomfestival.org.
National Harbor Capital Wheel
Soar to new heights with your love by proposing on the Capital Wheel at National Harbor (116 Waterfront St., Oxon Hill, Md.). Spring for the VIP experience which offers a luxurious ride with leather bucket seats and a glass floor. The package can accommodate up to four riders so you can bring along two family members or friends to witness the moment and snap some photos. The package allows your group to skip the line and includes a photo package. Tickets are $50 per person. You also have the option to light the wheel up with your partner’s favorite color for a more personalized experience. Email [email protected] for availability and rates. thecapitalwheel.com.
Nationals Park
A proposal at Nationals Park (1500 S Capitol St., S.E.) could be the best option if you and your sweetheart are sports enthusiasts. If you want to pull out all the stops, you can pay $1,500 for the proposal to be broadcast on the scoreboard between innings. Plan ahead because the park only allows two video proposals per season. For a more discounted option, you can have the question shown on the scoreboard for $500. For an even cheaper, but still memorable, option, opt to get down on one knee outside the Nationals Park gates or in the stands. mlb.com/nationals/ballpark.
The Observation Deck at CEB Tower
For stunning, unobstructed views of the city to be the backdrop for your proposal look no further than the Observation Deck at CEB Tower (1201 Wilson Blvd., Arlington, Va.). If unexpected weather conditions encroach on your proposal plans, don’t worry. The deck is open rain or shine. Tickets range from $12-22. theviewofdc.com.
The Wharf
Another picturesque proposal spot is at the Wharf (1100 Maine Ave., S.W.). Stroll along the waterfront enjoying the various shops and restaurants before taking your significant other to the pier. You can propose on a clear, sunny day or during a romantic sunset over the water. If you’re feeling adventurous, take your partner out on a boat, kayak or water taxi for an on-the-waterfront proposal. wharfdc.com.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).
