National
All in the ‘Family’
Family Equality Council looks to future with new executive director
Family Equality Council Executive Director Gabriel Blau’s faith background has always proven an integral part of his LGBT advocacy.
He founded the God and Sexuality National Academic Conference at Bard College in 1998 that brought together scholars and advocates to present lectures and workshops on gender, sexuality and religion because he “wasn’t finding the kind of leaders and resources” he said he needed as an LGBT person of faith. Blau later led the $18 million campaign to raise funds that would allow Congregation Beit Simchat Torah, an LGBT synagogue in New York City, to move into a new location in Manhattan.
Blau told the Washington Blade during an interview at his D.C. office that his faith background has proven an asset in his new position.
“As a family organization, we’re one of the few that is not either just a right-wing group or a faith-based group,” he said. “The concept of family values has been so really tarnished by other family values groups, and often in the name of faith and often in the name of what’s right and what God wants. I think understanding that is critical to being able to fight it and to fight for real family values for valuing families.”
Blau joined Family Equality Council in January as its deputy director of strategic advancement. The organization’s board of directors in August appointed him to succeed long-time Executive Director Jennifer Chrisler, who resigned earlier this year to accept a senior administrative position at Smith College in Massachusetts.
Alan Bernstein, board chair of the Council, said in a press release that Blau represents a new generation of LGBT leaders in the country.
“One whose personal experiences and passion for social change can inspire our families and policy makers,” Bernstein said. “He is uniquely qualified to lead Family Equality Council at this pivotal moment in our organization’s history and in the LGBT movement. We look forward to having him lead the organization’s efforts from our nation’s capital where we can continue the progress we’ve made in being recognized as the leading national voice on issues related to LGBT family equality.”
Blau commutes between D.C. and New York where he lives with his husband Dylan and their 5-year-old son, Elijah. He also spends one week a month working out of the Family Equality Council’s Boston office.
Family Equality Council’s mission evolves, remains the same
Blau told the Blade his organization is more “important than we’ve ever been” since a group of gay fathers founded it in 1979, but in “different ways.”
The Family Equality Council signed onto amicus briefs in two cases that prompted the U.S. Supreme Court to strike down California’s Proposition 8 and find a portion of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. It also wrote the brief the Voices of Children submitted in the two cases.
The organization also meets regularly with members of the Obama administration and lobbies members of Congress to support a number of LGBT-specific measures. These include the Every Child Deserves a Family Act that would prohibit discrimination in the adoption or foster care system based on sexual orientation, gender identity and expression or marital status.
Family Equality Council has also spoken out against a 2012 Virginia law that allows private adoption and foster care agencies to reject prospective parents based on their religious or moral beliefs. Blau last month criticized Michigan Attorney General Bill Schuette after his office described marriage as a way to “regulate sexual relationships between men and women” in a brief it filed in a lesbian couple’s federal lawsuit that challenges the state’s ban on gay nuptials and same-sex second parent adoptions.
“We’re now in a world where we can achieve legal equality in ways that the people who first got together in 1979 could not have even imagined,” Blau says. “Having an organization that has that kind of history and is every day — day in and day out — thinking about family issues is critical to that conversation.”
Blau also spoke to the Blade about the controversy that erupted before last month’s Dallas Pride parade after organizers and local authorities warned participants against nudity and sexual conduct during the annual display.
“To make the parade more ‘family friendly’ and to accommodate comfort for the increasing number of attending heterosexuals and corporate sponsorship, participants are being asked to cover up,” local LGBT advocate Daniel Scott Cates wrote on his Facebook page as the Associated Press reported on Sept. 17. “The ‘queer’ is effectively being erased from our Pride celebration.”
Blau said he and his husband bring their son to New York’s annual Pride parade each year. He added his organization has worked with 20 Pride organizations so far this year to help them create what he described as family-friendly spaces.
“It’s healthy for every community to have a conversation about what it means to have a Pride celebration, what is the LGBT community in any given area,” Blau says. “When that community includes children, that community needs to figure out what that means for them. We as an organization do not in any way dictate what the answer is.”
Russia LGBT rights crackdown ‘scary moment in history’
Family Equality Council last month sharply criticized a Russian proposal that seeks to allow authorities to deny parental custody based on their sexual orientation. Blau also spoke with the Blade days after a video that claims gays and lesbians adopt children so they can rape them emerged.
“We’re not an international organization, but many families in Russia are fleeing and seeking asylum in the U.S.,” he says. “When they are here, they are part of our community.”
Blau said Family Equality Council supporters have contacted him to see what they can do to challenge Russia over its LGBT rights record that includes a law that bans gay propaganda to minors. He added his organization continues to monitor the situation and work with international LGBT organizations to respond to the situation.
“We have had the opportunities to speak directly with people who are directly affected by what is happening in Russia,” Blau says, without naming specific groups. “For many of us it is a very scary moment in history.”
Group seeks to ‘better’ use its resources
Blau says his organization has begun a six month review of its strategic plan that will reconsider its priorities as the LGBT rights movement continues to gain ground across the country.
In the meantime, he says Family Equality Council remains focused on its core mission and constituency while launching new efforts. These include its Outspoken Generation initiative that seeks to encourage children of LGBT parents to talk about their experiences.
“The landscape is changing on a weekly basis, which is a great thing, but it’s challenging,” Blau says. “We’re always looking at better ways to use our resources, to secure the parent-child relationship, to create not just equality in law but in culture and in society using the tools we have.”
National
Advocacy groups issue US travel advisory ahead of World Cup
Renee Good’s death in Minneapolis among incidents cited
More than 100 organizations have issued a travel advisory for the U.S. ahead of the 2026 World Cup.
The World Cup will take place in the U.S., Canada, and Mexico from June 11-July 19.
“In light of the deteriorating human rights situation in the United States and in the absence of meaningful action and concrete guarantees from FIFA, host cities, or the U.S. government, the undersigned organizations are issuing this travel advisory for fans, players, journalists, and other visitors traveling to and within the United States for the June 2026 FIFA Men’s World Cup. World Cup games will be played in 11 different cities across the United States, which, like many localities, have already been the target of the Trump administration’s violent and abusive immigration crackdown,” reads the advisory that the Council for Global Equality and other groups that include the American Civil Liberties Union issued on April 23. “The impacts of these policies vary by locality.”
“While the Trump administration’s rising authoritarianism and increasing violence pose serious risks to all, those from immigrant communities, racial and ethnic minority groups, and LGBTQ+ individuals have been and continue to be disproportionately targeted and affected by the administration’s policies and, as such, are most vulnerable to serious harm when traveling to and/or within the United States,” it adds. “This travel advisory calls on fans, players, journalists, and other visitors to exercise caution.”
The advisory specifically mentions Renee Good.
A U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement agent on Jan. 7 shot and killed her in Minneapolis. Good, 37, left behind her wife and three children.
The full advisory can be read here.
State Department
Democracy Forward files FOIA request for State Department bathroom policy records
April 20 memo outlined anti-transgender rule
Democracy Forward on Tuesday filed a Freedom of Information Act request for records on the State Department’s new bathroom policy.
A memo titled “Updates Regarding Biological Sex and Intimate Spaces, Including Restrooms” that the State Department issued on April 20 notes employees can no longer use bathrooms that correspond with their gender identity.
“The administration affirms that there are two sexes — male and female — and that federal facilities should operate on this objective and longstanding basis to ensure consistency, privacy, and safety in shared spaces,” State Department spokesperson Tommy Piggot told the Daily Signal, a conservative news website that first reported on the memo. “In line with President Trump’s executive order this provides clear, uniform guidance to the department by grounding policy in biological sex as determined at birth.”
President Donald Trump shortly after he took office in January 2025 issued an executive order that directed the federal government to only recognize two genders: male and female. The sweeping directive also ordered federal government agencies to “effectuate this policy by taking appropriate action to ensure that intimate spaces designated for women, girls, or females (or for men, boys, or males) are designated by sex and not identity.”
Democracy Forward’s FOIA request that the Washington Blade exclusively obtained on Tuesday is specifically seeking a copy of the memo that details the State Department’s new bathroom policy. Democracy Forward has also requested “all” memo-specific communications between the State Department’s Bureau of Global Public Affairs and the Daily Signal from April 1-21.
Federal Government
House Republicans push nationwide ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill
Measures would restrict federal funding for LGBTQ-affirming schools
Republicans have been gaining ground in reshaping education policy to be less inclusive toward LGBTQ students at the state level, and now they are turning their focus to Capitol Hill.
Some GOP lawmakers are pushing for a nationwide “Don’t Say Gay” bill, doubling down on their commitment to being the party of “traditional family values” by excluding anyone who does not identify with their sex at birth.
The largest anti-LGBTQ education legislation to reach the House chamber is House Bill 2616 — the Parental Rights Over the Education and Care of Their Kids Act, or the PROTECT Kids Act. The PROTECT Kids Act, proposed by U.S. Rep. Tim Walberg (R-Mich.), and co-sponsored by U.S. Reps. Burgess Owens (R-Utah), Mary Miller (R-Ill.), Robert Onder (R-Mo.), and Kevin Kiley (R-Calif.), would require any public elementary and middle schools that receive federal funding to require parental consent to change a child’s gender expression in school.
The bill, which was discussed during Tuesday’s House Rules Committee hearing, would specifically require any schools that get federal money from the Elementary and Secondary Education Act of 1965 — which was created to minimize financial discrepancies in education for low-income students — to get parental approval before identifying any child’s gender identity as anything other than what was provided to the school initially. This includes getting approval before allowing children to use their preferred locker room or bathroom.
It reads that any school receiving this funding “shall obtain parental consent before changing a covered student’s (1) gender markers, pronouns, or preferred name on any school form; or (2) sex-based accommodations, including locker rooms or bathrooms.”
LGBTQ rights advocates have criticized both national and state efforts to require parental permission to use a child’s preferred gender identity, as it raises issues of at-home safety — especially if the home is not LGBTQ-affirming — and could lead to the outing of transgender or gender-curious students.
A follow-up bill, HB 2617, proposed by Owens, one of the bill’s co-sponsors, prevents the use of federal funding to “advance concepts related to gender ideology,” using the definition from President Donald Trump’s 2025 Executive Order 14168, making that an enshrined definition in law of sex rather than just by executive order. There is also a bill making its way through the senate with the same text— Senate Bill 2251.
Advocates have also criticized this follow-up legislation, as it would restrict school staff — including teachers and counselors — from acknowledging trans students’ identities or providing any support. They have said that this kind of isolation can worsen mental health outcomes for LGBTQ youth and allows for education to be politicized rather than being based in reality.
David Stacy, the Human Rights Campaign’s vice president of government affairs, called this legislation out for using LGBTQ children as political pawns in an ideology fight — one that could greatly harm the safety of these children if passed.
“Trans kids are not a political agenda — they are students who deserve safety and affirmation at school like anyone else,” Stacy said in a statement. “Despite the many pressing issues facing our nation, House Republicans continue their bizarre obsession with trans people. H.R. 2616 does not protect children. It targets them. This bill is cruel, and we’re prepared to fight it.”
This is similar to Florida House Bills 1557 and 1069, referred to as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill and “Don’t Say They” bill, respectively, restricting classroom discussions on sexual orientation and gender identity, prohibiting the use of pronouns consistent with one’s gender identity, expanding book banning procedures, and censoring health curriculum.
The American Civil Liberties Union is tracking 233 bills related to restricting student and educator rights in the U.S.
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