Living
Queery: Christopher Wingert
20 gay questions with the ‘Falsettos’ musical director
Christopher Wingert is a pretty decent sight reader. The pianist had a friend in the cast of Ganymede’s “Naked Boys Singing” a few months ago and heard the show needed an emergency fill in.
“I think I had about 24 hours,” Wingert says. And not only did he have to learn the entire score from scratch, he was the only one in the pit for this production. “It’s not the world’s toughest score and I was vaguely familiar with it since I’d seen it in New York. It was a lot of fun. I had time to run through some of the trickiest parts that day with the cast.”
Wingert must have done well. He’s music director/accompanist for Ganymede’s new show, a production of William Finn’s Tony Award-winning musical “Falsettos” which opens tonight at Go Mama Go! (1809 14th St., N.W.; go here for tickets and show times). Wingert says he’s excited to be involved with Ganymede and admires its artistic director Jeffrey Johnson.
“I had seen a number of Jeffrey’s productions and I always felt they were just the best of quality and he himself is so talented so I really do feel strongly about a local theater community. The touring shows that come through town are great but a sign of a vibrant local culture is its own theater community and D.C. has a ton. I just really enjoy that side of Washington and kind of forget about the politics and the law firms because for me D.C. is almost the opposite, it’s so rich with arts and performing groups.”
The 28-year-old Tuscon, Ariz., native came to Washington in the summer of 2005. He works by day doing executive recruiting for non-profit arts organizations but keeps a busy schedule outside of that teaching piano lessons, teaching musical theater classes at the College of Mary Washington and singing with the Washington Chorus. Wingert is single and likes singing, cooking and dancing in his spare time. Wingert lives in Logan Circle.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
Letās see, I guess Iāve been out for about 10 years. It was toughest to tell the family but even that went really well.
Who’s your gay hero?
Thatās not really a fair question since so many have done so much to further the LGBT rights movement. But I do think Fred from “Scooby-Doo” was an inspiration to gays in both law enforcement and the Navy.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
9:30 club, hands down.
What’s your dream gay wedding?
Have you seen the last 10 minutes of “Mamma Mia?”Ā Thatās a pretty gay wedding.
What non-gay issue are you most passionate about?
Education and the public school system. My background is in music education so I also feel strongly about the role of the arts in young peopleās development.
What historical outcome would you change?
Eve just had to go for that apple, didnāt she?
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
If itās pop and memorable, it must be Swedish. ABBA, Ace of Base, Robyn ā¦ I mean, the Swedes have got it all figured out.
On what do you insist?
Be decent and give a damn.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
I was tagged in a video of a slew of friends in my living room wailing āPart of Your Worldā from “The Little Mermaid” with me at the piano. This was not the first time (or last) that this has happened.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
Iām not sure, but I think Amy Sedaris should write it.
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Wonder why science wasnāt spending its time doing something important.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
There is so much beyond the physical world. Anyone who makes or enjoys music, for example, experiences this all the time.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Keep on keeping on!
What would you walk across hot coals for?
Anything with peanut butter.
What gay stereotype annoys you most?
That one about all gays loving musical theater. Just because Iām gay doesnāt mean that I know all these show tunes ā¦ Oh, wait. Shoot.
What’s your favorite gay movie?
Does “Hedwig” count? Amazing.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
If anything, I think weāve started to underrate social customs. Be polite. Hold doors. Say please and thank you. Introduce yourself. Stay off your dang phone if youāre talking with others. Iām a crotchety old man when it comes to manners.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
I wouldnāt sneeze at an Olympic gold.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
How to invent Google.
Why Washington?
A beautiful city in a beautiful part of the country. Amazing friends and a vibrant local arts and culture scene.
Real Estate
Snatching your dream home in D.C. this winter
A good time to get a deal during slower season
If you’re thinking about planting roots in the DC Metro, then the winter months are a time when you can get a good deal during a slower time in the market. D.C. isn’t just for politicians and monuments; itās a city brimming with diverse neighborhoods, chic eateries, and more rainbow flags than you can shake a stiletto at. But before you slip into those house-hunting boots, letās make sure youāre well equipped for the real estate game in our nationās capital.
1. Credit Check. Before you even start ogling those gorgeous row houses in Capitol Hill or swooning over condos in Logan Circle, make sure your credit score is ready. Lenders love to see a credit score thatās as high as my hair. If itās looking a little low, then pay down those cards and keep your balances low.
2. Budget Realness. We all love a little splurge now and then (those D.C. brunches aren’t cheap), but buying a home is no time for financial fantasy. Work out your budget and know what you can afford monthly. Factor in those hidden costs like HOA fees and property taxes. Stay within your budget so you can keep rocking those designer threads without a sweat.
3. Location, Location, Location! D.C. is all about neighborhoods with character. Are you more of a Dupont Circle fan or perhaps Petworth? Maybe you fancy the historic vibes of Georgetown or the up-and-coming cool of Navy Yard. Each neighborhood has its own vibe and price tag, so do your homework and figure out where you fit in. Pro tip: Visit at different times of day to really feel the neighborhoodās pulse.
4. Find a Real Estate Agent. Find yourself a real estate agent who not only knows the market but also gets you ā someone who can dish out honest advice and help you avoid any missteps. The right agent will be your guide, confidante, and maybe even your future brunch buddy. Remember, youāre in this together, so choose someone whoās as excited about finding your dream home as you are.
5. Mortgage Pre-Approval ā The Golden Ticket. Nothing says āIām seriousā like a pre-approval letter from your lender. It’s the ultimate accessory to your house-hunting outfit, giving sellers that warm, fuzzy feeling that you’re not just window shopping. Plus, it helps you know exactly how much home you can afford, so youāre not falling head over heels for something out of reach.
6. House Hunting: The Fun Part! Time to put on your walking shoes and start touring. Donāt be afraid to ask questions, take notes, and envision yourself hosting fabulous dinner parties in these spaces. But be prepared to act fast. D.C.ās real estate market moves quicker than a āRuPaulās Drag Raceā elimination round, so if you find āthe one,ā donāt hesitate to make an offer.
7. Inspection, Baby. Once youāve got an offer accepted, itās time for the home inspection. Think of it as the all-important makeover montage. You want to uncover any issues before they become your problems. Trust your inspector and get those deets ā everything from the roof to the basement needs a thorough once-over.
8. Closing Day ā Youāve made it. The grand finale! You’ve done the work, and now itās time to close the deal. Gather your paperwork, bring your ID, and maybe wear something that screams āIām a homeowner!ā After the signatures and happy tears, the keys are yours. Pop the Champagne and toast to your new fabulous life in D.C.
Final Thought: Love is Love, and Home is Home. Remember, your home should be a place where you feel comfortable, safe, and fabulous. Whether you’re single, partnered, or part of a chosen family, the D.C. Metro offers a vibrant, inclusive community that’s ready to welcome you with open arms. So go out there and claim your slice of this iconic city ā youāve got this.
Justin Noble is a Realtor with Sothebyās International Realty licensed in D.C., Maryland, and Delaware for your DMV and Delaware beach needs. Specializing in first-time homebuyers, development and new construction as well as estate sales, Justin provides white glove service at every price point. Reach him at 202-503-4243, BurnsandNoble.com or [email protected].
Real Estate
2024 D.C. residential real estate market in review
Insights and trends for the LGBTQ community
As 2024 ends, the residential real estate market reflects a year of notable shifts, with both progress and setbacks impacting LGBTQ homebuyers and sellers. While strides have been made in fostering inclusivity in some areas, the overall landscape has grown increasingly complex. The political climate, coupled with emerging challenges to diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) programs, has significantly influenced the housing market and the LGBTQ+ community’s experiences within it.
Impact of Political and Social Shifts
The incoming Trump administration has signaled a rollback of DEI initiatives across various industries, and housing is no exception. Efforts to reduce funding for fair housing programs and weaken protections against discrimination have raised concerns for LGBTQ individuals seeking equitable access to housing. Many previously inclusive initiatives in real estate development and local government policy may be scaled back or abandoned altogether, creating a climate of uncertainty.
Despite these challenges, organizations like GayRealEstate.com continue to advocate for LGBTQ buyers and sellers, providing a critical safety net in an increasingly polarized environment.
Trends for LGBTQ Buyers, Sellers in 2024
- Increased Caution in Relocation Decisions:
LGBTQ+ individuals and families have grown more deliberate in choosing relocation destinations. States with strong anti-discrimination protections, such as California, New York, and Massachusetts, remain top choices, while states perceived as less LGBTQ+ friendly have seen a decline in migration.
- Emergence of “Safe Zones”:
Many LGBTQ+ buyers are seeking out neighborhoods and cities that actively uphold inclusivity despite national trends. These “safe zones” often feature strong community support and resources, but their limited availability can lead to higher housing costs.
- Barriers to Homeownership Persist:
Discrimination in lending and housing remains a significant challenge. If you experience discrimination in lending or housing, itās essential to report it and seek support.
At the Local Level: Report incidents to your city or stateās Fair Housing Office or Human Rights Commission. To find your local office, check your city or state government website for contact details.
At the National Level: U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD):
- Phone: 1-800-669-9777 (Toll-Free)
- TTY: 1-800-877-8339
- Online Complaint Form: HUD Discrimination Complaint
Additionally, working with an LGBTQ professional through GayRealEstate.com provides an added layer of security and advocacy. These experts understand your unique needs and are committed to ensuring you experience a fair and inclusive home-buying or selling process.
- Focus on Financial Security:
With the economic uncertainty brought about by political shifts, LGBTQ buyers are prioritizing affordability and long-term financial stability. This has led to increased interest in shared housing arrangements, multi-generational living, and cooperative housing solutions.
- Advocacy for Fair Housing Protections:
Advocacy groups and legal organizations are ramping up efforts to defend and expand fair housing protections for LGBTQ individuals. These efforts remain a crucial counterbalance to the rollback of federal DEI programs.
Challenges and Opportunities in the Current Climate
The expected rollback of federal protections and reduced funding for fair housing programs will pose significant challenges, particularly in regions already struggling with inclusivity. However, the resilience of our LGBTQ+ community and our allies has created opportunities for grassroots movements to push for local-level inclusivity and support.
Looking Ahead to 2025
As the new administration takes office, the housing market’s inclusivity for LGBTQ individuals may face further obstacles. However, the strength of community-driven initiatives and the unwavering support of advocacy organizations like GayRealEstate.com (and the 21+ National LGBTQ non-profit organizations they support financially monthly) offer hope for continued progress at local and regional levels.
LGBTQ buyers and sellers are encouraged to stay informed, seek out trusted allies in the real estate industry, and leverage platforms like GayRealEstate.com to ensure their home-buying or selling experience remains as smooth and equitable as possible.
Despite the challenges of an evolving political and social climate, one thing remains certain: LGBTQ individuals have allies who stand by their side, fighting for equality and inclusivity in housing and beyond. For more than 30 years, GayRealEstate.com has been a steadfast advocate for LGBTQ rights, helping thousands of individuals and families navigate the home-buying and selling process safely and confidently.
Not only does GayRealEstate.com connect clients with LGBTQ-friendly agents, but the organization also actively supports LGBTQ non-profit initiatives, ensuring that the community continues to thrive. No matter the obstacles ahead, we want you to know: Weāre not going anywhere.
Whether youāre buying, selling, or relocating, GayRealEstate.com is here to provide the expertise, resources, and unwavering support you deserve. Together, weāll continue building a brighter, more inclusive futureāone home at a time.
Jeff Hammerberg is founding CEO of Hammerberg & Associates, Inc. Reach him at 303-378-5526 or [email protected].
Autos
SUV rundown: ātis the season for traveling
6 standouts whether trekking home for the holidays or taking daily commutes
Here are six standout SUVs from which to choose if youāre looking for a new ride this holiday season.
BMW X5
Price range: $67,000-$90,000
MPG: 23 city/27 highway
0 to 60 mph: 5.3 seconds
Cargo space: 72.3 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: With a base model nudging $70,000, the midsize BMW X5 costs a pretty penny. Yet this dream machine offers a choice of boffo engines, exciting handling and enticing features. Four trim levels, including a plug-in hybrid and gnarly M60i (a V8-powered ride that costsāyikes!ā$20,000 more but scoots from 0 to 60 mph in just 3.6 seconds). Spacious, too, with oodles of room. And if youāre jonesing for glitz, thereās a glass-trimmed shifter that looks like real crystal, massaging seats, panoramic roof with embedded LED lighting, rear window shades and more. Thereās also the latest tech: 12.3-inch digital display, 14.9-inch infotainment touchscreen, wireless charger and 20-speaker Bowers & Wilkins stereo. Pricey? Yes. Worth it? Drive one and see.
BUICK ENCORE
Price range: $27,000-$34,000
MPG: 29 city/31 highway
0 to 60 mph: 8.8 seconds
Cargo space: 50.2 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: Buick keeps hitting the high notes with its bravura designs, and the Encoreāa sassy subcompactāis no exception. Surprisingly spry, with comfy seats, concise handling and a classy cabin. Thereās beaucoup standard gear, including remote start, LED headlights, smartphone integration and the latest safety systems. Open your wallet a bit more to add larger wheels, 360-degree camera, hands-free liftgate, Bose audio and other niceties. A big plus: lotsa storage. Alas, not the peppiest engine, but capable enough to not feel sluggish. Compared to upscale divasāAudi Q3, BMW X1,Mercedes GLA 250āthe affordable Encore deserves, well, an encore.
GMC ACADIA
Price range: $44,000-$57,000
MPG: 20 city/27 highway
0 to 60 mph: 6.7 seconds
Cargo space: 97.5 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: The third-gen Acadia, redesigned for 2024, is the best yet. This full-sizer is now larger, more potent and full of gizmos, including hands-free driving assist, wireless charging, Wi-Fi and more. For off-roading, thereās a tighter suspension, all-terrain tires and even a steel skid plate. My only beef was with the automatic braking system, which scared me silly the first time I was backing into a garage. The driverās seat began vibrating and buzzing wildly, even though there was nothing nearby. Then the brakes slammed onāhard. Most vehicles only beep or apply the brakes when too close to an object. This, though, felt and sounded like a manic whoopee cushion. But yes, after driving the Acadia for a week, I missed having such a quirky alert on my next test vehicle.
JEEP GRAND CHEROKEE
Price range: $37,000-$69,000
MPG: 19 city/26 highway
0 to 60 mph: 7.4 seconds
Cargo space: 70.8 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: A glam ride on a gutsy chassis. Earlier this year I reviewed the mid-range Overland model. Now it was time for the top-of-the-line Summit Reserve. Mixing pizzazz, power and pampering, this gung-ho SUV spoiled me good. And at $69,000, it should. This is BMW X5 territory, yet the Jeep delivers virtually the same creature comforts and advanced safety monitors. The seats may not be as taut, but thatās a minor quibble. A trailer-tow package also canāt be beat: automatic headlight leveling, load-leveling rear suspension, and heavy-duty cooling and electrical systems.
LINCOLN NAUTILUS
Price range: $52,000-$75,000
MPG: 21 city/29 highway
0 to 60 mph: 7.2 seconds
Cargo space: 71.3 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: Lincoln previously appealed mainly to Gramps and G-ma, but now the target is a younger crowd. For the midsize Nautlius, this means mod styling, a finely crafted interior and eye-popping features like a four-foot digital display. The ginormous screen is part of a sweeping dashboard that stretches onto the door panels. Handling and cornering are smooth yet sporty, especially in the new hybrid model. When the Nautilus was parked, I could indulge in some guilty pleasures with a multisensory setup that integrated the panoramic screen, surround-sound stereo, massaging seats and a fragrance diffuser into a truly spa-like ambiance. Nirvana, indeed.
SUBARU FORESTER
Base model: $29,000-$38,000
MPG: 26 city/33 highway
0 to 60 mph: 9.3 seconds
Cargo space: 74.2 cu. ft.
WHATāS TO LIKE: Solid, steady, a sure thing. Thanks to all-wheel drive, the Foresterās handling is excellentāespecially in rain or snow. And even though this is no speedsterāthe powerplant is a tad pokeyāthe fuel economy outshines most rivals. My test drive was the midrange Sport model, which boasted 18-inch black-painted wheels, raised roof rails, foglights, tinted rear windows and an all-weather package with a windshield-wiper de-icer. Best of all: the cargo room was big enough for all my holiday shopping, including a very wicked outfit for my husbandāmy own Prince Fiyero.
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