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The Brave Soul Collective artist/activist answers 20 gay questions

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Monte J. Wolfe (Blade photo by Michael Key)

Monte J. Wolfe had an epiphany five years ago during a monthly spiritual service he attends called First Sunday.

Wolfe, an actor, felt he was getting pigeonholed and felt compelled to do something about it.

“I realized nobody can tell my story the way I can,” he says. “It was like God spoke to me and said, ‘It’s time for you to step up to the plate and speak your truth.'”

He and two friends, Tim’m West and Erik Chambers, started Brave Soul Collective in 2006 as an outfit that would conduct HIV and AIDS outreach through performing arts, workshops and monthly discussion groups. Wolfe, 36, had tested positive in late 2004 and felt a need for such a group. It’s been a success — events are planned for this weekend and next to celebrate the Collective’s five-year anniversary.

On Saturday at 8 p.m. at the Ossie Davis Stage at Warehouse Theater (645 New York Ave., N.W.), Wolfe’s self-penned work “Smoke Screens: the Lies We Tell Ourselves (& Everyone Else),” a series of vignettes and monologues exploring aspects of both gay and straight black life experiences, will be performed with several of Wolfe’s acting colleagues, including his partner of four years, Bobby Brooks.

Tickets are $15 and can be purchased at the door with cash. Or buy in advance at http://bit.ly/BuyTix_BSC.

Then on June 25 from 5 to 8 p.m., Brave Soul’s anniversary party will be held with a time of prayer, sharing, discussion and refreshments also at the Warehouse Theater. It’s free but RSVPs are requested in advance. Visit http://bit.ly/BSC_5YRS for information.

Wolfe, a Racine, Wis., native, went to college for two years in Grambling, La., then transferred to Howard in Washington in 1995 where he graduated with a degree in theater arts administration. He works full time for Us Helping Us as its social media coordinator and does the Collective work on the side.

Wolfe enjoys TV, writing, music and theater in his free time. He lives in D.C.’s Brookland neighborhood. (Blade photos by Michael Key)

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

Since 1997 and the hardest person to tell was my mother.

Who’s your LGBT hero?

I’d have to say my dear friend, mentor and ā€œgay papa,” playwright/director-Alan Sharpe. Not only is he an extremely talented artist in every aspect of the word, but he’s a kind, patient, humble, graceful human being whose friendship I consider to be a gift that I’m extremely grateful for.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?

I wouldn’t know currently. Can’t remember the last time I went out. I’d say past, Tracks from 1996-1997

Describe your dream wedding.

I’m not one big on weddings to be quite honest. My dream wedding would be one that would be complete with lots of soul and jazz music and lots of cake. And the people I love being there to share the moment.

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

The arts, specifically music, my first love. It affects, informs and influences everything I do.

What historical outcome would you change?

Slavery

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

Growing up in the late ’70s and particularly the ’80s during the height of Michael Jackson’s career. It’s still hard to listen to some of his music from that time because it just reminds me that he’s not with us (in the physical realm) anymore.

On what do you insist?

On being an artist, on being authentic and coming from my heart in everything that I do (professionally and personally), passion, food, music and I insist on avoiding all reality television because I hate it. (With the exception of “RuPaul’s Drag Race.”)

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

Both were posts plugging my upcoming production for the D.C. Black TheatreFestival, ā€œSmoke Screens: The Lies We Tell Ourselves (& Everyone Else)ā€ (Saturday at 8 p.m. at the Warehouse Theater, 645 New York Ave. N.W.)

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“Unapolagetically ME: The Life of a Protagonist.”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Not a damn thing as it pertains to me.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?

I have a very strong connection to and belief in the spiritual realm. The experiences I’ve had in life (including but not limited to): discovering my connection with the God of my understanding, coming to grips with my sexuality, accepting who I am and loving myself inside and out have all assisted me in understanding and embracing the power of spirit.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

The most important piece of advice I’d offer is something I have to continually remind myself: To take care of and advocate for yourself as much as you seek to advocate and take care of others.

What would you walk across hot coals for?

My parents, the people I love who love and support me, and for my right to artistic expression, however it shows up.

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

That we’re all shallow, that we’re all just about sex and the physical.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

“Jackie’s Back” starring Jenifer Lewis. It’s a [black] gay staple and it’s hilarious on so many different levels. It never gets old.

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Greeting someone with ā€œHow you doing?ā€ when you’re not really concerned with how I’m doing.

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

Each and every production, event and performance I’ve created through my arts organization Brave Soul Collective I consider to be a trophy (of sorts) because with each one I pour my heart, soul, body, mind and money into making them happen. And to have other people show up and participate is a gift to and for me.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

How to articulate myself the way I do now through my work as an artist. At that point, I was still figuring a lot of stuff out, so I wasn’t yet able to readily access and express my feelings the way I’m able to now.

Why Washington?

Because after living here for nearly 16 years, it’s home to me now. This is where I came of age, came out, where I blossomed as a black gay man and artist and where I continue to flourish (for the time being) so I’m goin’ with it.

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Lizzo makes $50K donation to Marsha P. Johnson Institute

Singer is vocal LGBTQ ally

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Lizzo at the 65th Grammy Awards (Screenshot from the Grammy Awards)

When Lizzo sings “If I’m shinin,’ everybody gonna shine,ā€ in her hit song, “Juice,” she means it. Proof of that came this week on Instagram when the LGBTQ ally announced the first winner of her annual Juneteenth Giveback Campaign is the Marsha P. Johnson Institute, a national nonprofit based in Richmond, Calif., dedicated to the protection and defense of Black transgender people. 

And she did so in song: ā€œOn the first day of Juneteenth, Lizzo gave to me,ā€ she sang in her video, posted Tuesday, as she revealed her $50,000 gift to MPJI.

ā€œThat’s right, we know who Marsha P. Johnson is. We know what Marsha P. Johnson has done for the LGBTQ, emphasis on that ā€˜T,’ Q community,ā€ said Lizzo to her 13.5 million followers. ā€œThank you so much to the people at the Marsha P. Johnson Institute. You deserve this, and I hope this helps you so much as you help protect our Black trans family.ā€ 

ā€œWhat the Marsha P. Johnson Institute does is protects and defends the rights of Black transgender people. They do this by organizing community, advocating for the people, and creating an intentional healing community, developing transformative leadership and promoting collective power,ā€ she said. 

ā€œWe are overjoyed for the shoutout from Lizzo today, the generosity of her sharing her platform and the recognition of MPJI and its work,ā€ said Elle Moxley, MPJI’s executive director. ā€œThe resources from this campaign will ensure the protection and defense of Black transgender people continue at a time where it is so vitally needed. We are so grateful for the support of Lizzo and her fans.ā€

As one of Time Magazine’s Persons of the Year for 2019 and a 2023 Grammy winner, Lizzo is more than a pop star but an inspiration to millions of fans for her body-positive attitude, her self-confidence on stage and in her videos, her empowering music and her activism. She’s also the founder of her own clothing line, Yitty. In 2021, she made headlines when she publicly corrected a paparazzo for using ā€œshe/herā€ pronouns and misgendering Demi Levato.

As part of her campaign, now in its 4th year, Lizzo recognizes Black-led grassroots organizations and businesses and encourages her fans to join her in supporting each of the five organizations she highlights this week. Fans who take action by donating are  entered into a drawing for an all-expenses paid trip to see her perform at Fuji Rock in Japan later this year. 

This week’s other nonprofits receiving gifts are: Black Girls Smile, Sphinx Music, the University of Houston and Save Our Sisters United.

Find out more about Lizzo’s 4th annual Juneteenth Giveback Campaign by clicking here.

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Anne Heche dies after removal from life support

Actress dated Ellen DeGeneres in late 1990s

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Actress Anne Heche died after she was removed from life support on Sunday, nearly two weeks after her Mini-Cooper crashed through a two-story house in Los Angeles’ Mar Vista neighborhood. Investigators with the Los Angeles Police Department believe she was intoxicated at the time.

She sustained a severe anoxic brain injury along with severe burns and was being treated at the Grossman Burn Center at West Hills Hospital, near Chatsworth in the San Fernando Valley.

The 53-year-old actress who was a star of films likeĀ “Donnie Brasco,” the political satireĀ “Wag the Dog”Ā and the 1998 remake ofĀ “Psycho,” had been declared legally dead under California law on Friday, however, her family kept her alive long enough to be an organ donor.

In a statement Friday, the LAPD announced that: ā€œAs of today, there will be no further investigative efforts made in this case. Any information or records that have been requested prior to this turn of events will still be collected as they arrive as a matter of formalities and included in the overall case. When a person suspected of a crime expires, we do not present for filing consideration.ā€ LAPD detectives had previously made public that investigators into the crash found narcotics in a blood sample taken from Heche.

The actress’s family released a statement on Friday:

“Today we lost a bright light, a kind and most joyful soul, a loving mother, and a loyal friend. Anne will be deeply missed but she lives on through her beautiful sons, her iconic body of work, and her passionate advocacy. Her bravery for always standing in her truth, spreading her message of love and acceptance, will continue to have a lasting impact,” the statement added.

Heche was married to camera operator Coleman Laffoon from 2001 to 2009. The two had a son, Homer, together. She had another son, named Atlas, during a relationship with actor James Tupper, her co-star on the TV series ā€œMen In Trees.ā€

Laffoon left a moving tribute on an Instagram reel in which he also gave an update on how their 20-year-old son Homer Laffoon is coping with the loss of his mother.

“I loved her and I miss her, and I’m always going to,” he said adding: “Homer is okay. He’s grieving, of course, and it’s rough. It’s really rough, as probably anybody can imagine. But he’s surrounded by family and he’s strong, and he’s gonna be okay.”

“Rest In Peace, Mom, I love you, Homer,ā€ the actor’s 20-year-old son, Homer, said in a statement after Heche was declared legally dead on Friday.ā€œ My brother Atlas and I lost our Mom,ā€ read the statement. ā€œAfter six days of almost unbelievable emotional swings, I am left with a deep, wordless sadness. Hopefully, my mom is free from pain and beginning to explore what I like to imagine as her eternal freedom. Over those six days, thousands of friends, family, and fans made their hearts known to me. I am grateful for their love, as I am for the support of my Dad, Coley, and my stepmom Alexi who continue to be my rock during this time. Rest In Peace Mom, I love you, Homer.ā€

Tupper, a Canadian actor who starred alongside Heche in “Men in Trees,” had a 13-year-old son,Ā Atlas, withĀ her. “Love you forever,” Tupper, 57, wrote on his Instagram post’s caption with a broken heart emoji, which shared an image of the actress from Men in Trees.

Between 1997 and 2000, Heche was also in a relationship with talk show host Ellen DeGeneres.

“This is a sad day,” DeGeneres posted on Twitter. “I’m sending Anne’s children, family and friends all of my love.” The year after her break-up with the comedian, in September 2001, Heche recounted in her memoir “Call Me Crazy,ā€ about her lifelong struggles with mental health and a childhood of abuse.

KTLA’s entertainment reporter Sam Rubin noted that over the past two decades, Heche’s career pivoted several times. In 2017, she hosted a weekly radio show on SiriusXM with Jason Ellis called ā€œLove and Heche.ā€

In 2020, Heche made her way into the podcast world. She launched ā€œBetter Togetherā€ which she cohosted alongside Heather Duffy Boylston. The show was described as a way to celebrate friendship. 

She also worked in smaller films, on Broadway, and on TV shows. She recently had recurring roles on the network series ā€œChicago P.D.,ā€ and ā€œAll Riseā€ and was a contestant on ā€œDancing with the Stars.ā€

People magazine reported that several of Heche’s acting projects are expected to be released posthumously.

These includeĀ “Girl in Room 13,” expected to be released on Lifetime in September,Ā “What Remains,” scheduled to be released in 2023, and HBO Max TV seriesĀ “The Idol,” created by Abel Tesfaye (The Weeknd) and Euphoria creator Sam Levinson.

In her Instagram post from earlier this year Heche stands between her sons Atlas, 13 and Homer, 20.

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‘Star Trek’ actress Nichelle Nichols dies at 89

George Takei tweets ‘we lived long and prospered together’

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She was a groundbreaking cultural icon who broke barriers in a time of societal upheaval and battling for the civil rights of Black Americans. An actress, a mother and thoroughly devoted to the legions of fans of “Star Trek,” Nichelle Nichols, Star Trek’s Lt. Nyota Uhura, has died at 89.

The announcement on her Facebook page by her son read:

Sunday, July 31, 2022

Friends, Fans, Colleagues, World

I regret to inform you that a great light in the firmament no longer shines for us as it has for so many years.

Last night, my mother, Nichelle Nichols, succumbed to natural causes and passed away. Her light however, like the ancient galaxies now being seen for the first time, will remain for us and future generations to enjoy, learn from, and draw inspiration.

Hers was a life well lived and as such a model for us all.

I, and the rest of our family, would appreciate your patience and forbearance as we grieve her loss until we can recover sufficiently to speak further. Her services will be for family members and the closest of her friends and we request that her and our privacy be respected.

Live Long and Prosper,

Kyle Johnson

Nichols was born in Robbins, Ill., in 1932, according to her IMDb page. Legendary composer Duke Ellington ā€œdiscoveredā€ Nichols and helped her become a singer and dancer. She later turned to acting, and joined Gene Roddenberry’s ā€œStar Trek,ā€ where she played Uhura from 1966 to 1969.

Out actor George Takei who played ‘Sulu’ on Star Trek the original series with Nichelle Nichols who played Lt. Nyota Uhura, at a Star Trek convention in this undated photo. (George Takei/Twitter)

It was in that role of Uhura that Nichols not only broke barriers between races, most famously her onscreen kiss, the first between a Black person and a white person, with castmate William Shatner, who played Capt. James T. Kirk, but she also became a role model for young Black women and men inspiring them to seek out their own places in science, technology, and other human endeavors.

In numerous interviews over the years Nichols often recalled how the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., was a fan of the show and praised her role and personally encouraged her to stay with the series.

When the first series ended Nichols went on to become a spokesperson for NASA, where she ā€œhelped recruit and inspire a new generation of fearless astronauts.ā€Ā She later reprised her role in several successful “Star Trek” films and continued to advocate for the advancement of Black Americans especially in the areas of science and technology.

Formerly a NASA deputy administrator, Frederick Gregory, now 81,Ā told the Associated PressĀ he once saw an advertisement in which Nichols said ā€œI want you to apply for the NASA program.ā€

ā€œShe was talking to me,ā€ he recounted. The U.S. Air Force pilot would apply and later become the first African American shuttle pilot.

President Joe Biden weighed in Sunday afternoon on her passing in a statement issued by the White House:

In Nichelle Nichols, our nation has lost a trailblazer of stage and screen who redefined what is possible for Black Americans and women.
 
A daughter of a working-class family from Illinois, she first honed her craft as an actor and singer in Chicago before touring the country and the world performing with the likes of Duke Ellington and giving life to the words of James Baldwin.
 
During the height of the Civil Rights Movement, she shattered stereotypes to become the first Black woman to act in a major role on a primetime television show with her groundbreaking portrayal of Lt. Uhura in the original Star Trek. With a defining dignity and authority, she helped tell a central story that reimagined scientific pursuits and discoveries. And she continued this legacy by going on to work with NASA to empower generations of Americans from every background to reach for the stars and beyond.
 
Our nation is forever indebted to inspiring artists like Nichelle Nichols, who show us a future where unity, dignity, and respect are cornerstones of every society.

Nichols son said that services will be private for family members and her closest friends.

In 2008 the actress at a news conference, coordinated by the filmmakers of the motion picture “TRU LOVED,” in honor of the more than 900 students at Los Angeles’ Miguel Contreras Learning Complex’s School of Social Justice who participated in the GLSEN Day of Silence.

Nichelle Nichols speaks on LGBTQ rights:

Her fellow castmate and life long friend, openly Out actor George Takei shared his sadness on hearing of Nichols’ passing on Twitter:

From the September 2016 edition of the Smithsonian Channel: “Star Trek’s decision to cast Nichelle Nichols, an African American woman, as major character on the show was an almost unheard-of move in 1966. But for black women all over the country, it redefined the notions of what was possible.”

Star Trek’s Nichelle Nichols on Uhura’s Radical Impact:

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