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Rehoboth warms up
After frigid winter, bars and restaurants prepare for summer madness


The ocean froze this winter, creating an eerie site along deserted Rehoboth beaches. Now that summer is nearly here, the crowds are back. (Washington Blade photos)
Despite one of the coldest Rehoboth Beach winters in recent memory, during which even the ocean froze, LGBT businesses flourished and are now heating up in preparation for the onslaught of summer visitors from D.C. and elsewhere.
Gone from the scene are Big Sissies (37385 Rehoboth Ave. Extended), replaced by The Swell Tiki Bar and Grill, which may be open by mid-May, and, on Wilmington Avenue, Planet X and Cypress (former home of CafƩ Zeus and Yum Yum, known for its Sunday teas), which will be replaced by an extended Avenue Hotel.
Most of the stalwarts remain in place. Blue Moon (35 Baltimore Ave.), now in its 34th year, will continue with summer entertainment, award-winning dining and its popular Sunday brunch. You can hear Pamala Stanley perform in her tenth fabulous season from Sunday to Thursday, āRehoboth Idolā will continue and you will be able to see the original Chantels and other performers during the summer, as well as popular female impersonators.
Rigbyās (404 Rehoboth Ave.) will focus on live entertainment on most evenings and a fine menu, bar food and happy hour.
Aqua (54 Baltimore Ave.) reopens on May 15 and will continue to sponsor special events and provide entertainment with music by Kathy Gorman, John Flynn and others. According to owner Bill Shields, Aqua also plans to ādo something to celebrate CAMP Rehobothās 25th anniversary of serving the community.ā
The Purple Parrotās (134 Rehoboth Ave.) popular outdoor Biergarten is open for the season and features a familiar face behind the bar ā Christopher Chandler, who moved from Blue Moon to the Parrot during the off season.
The Double L Bar (37300 Rehoboth Ave. Extended) is scheduled to reopen on May 16 after a short-lived stint as Dive Bar. The owner, John Meng, promises to bring back the popular ManDance on Saturdays.
After about 25 years at the corner of First Street and Baltimore Avenue, Adriaticoās has been replaced by another Italian Restaurant, DiFeboās, which was established in 1989 in Bethany Beach.
Loriās, open for breakfast and lunch is located in the CAMP courtyard and is beginning its 19th season. There will be several new items on the menu, including a 4 B salad (Bleu, Blueberry, Bacon and Balsamic on greens). Breakfast sandwiches have been added to the menu.
Although under new ownership, Rehoboth Ale House (15 Wilmington Ave.), a popular bar with the lesbian crowd, but still under the management of the two previous owners, Betsy and Jodi, promises to continue its successful formula by providing live entertainment by Viki Dee.
A popular lesbian-owned bar, Seafood Shack (42 1/2 Baltimore Ave.) returns for its 9th season and will continue to offer live music. Dos Locos (208 Rehoboth Ave.) continues to offer some of the best margaritas in town. The Pondās (3 S. First St.) speed bingo on Tuesdays is popular with locals and the gay-owned bar/restaurant also hosts live music throughout the season.
Leo Cabreraās Modern Mixture (62 Rehoboth Ave.) continues to grow, adding an outdoor cafĆ© and a bar area. Many remember Leo as a waiter at Crystalās, Blue Moon and Cloud 9.
One of the areaās few remaining independent bookstores, Proud Bookstore (149 Rehoboth Ave.), provides a venue for local artists to display their works and writers to hold readings and signings. On May 16, Jonathan Harper, author of āDaydreamersā will hold a book signing, and later in the summer, John Simpson and Roberts Cummings will read from their gay anthology. Owner Jocques LeClair says to expect more readings this summer.

Proud Bookstore (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
Gidgetās Gadgets (123 Rehoboth Ave.) has a new look and now offers an extensive array of vinyl records as well as continuing to provide retro toys, games and even candies.
Snyderās Candies (60 Rehoboth Ave.) celebrates its 75th anniversary. It has been owned for the past nine years by Jeff Balk, a gay man who formerly owned Rehoboth Gayzette. Balk has changed the storeās logo to include the rainbow colors and among other things sells plush toys, collectibles and retro candies, as well as chocolate delicacies. As part of the anniversary year, it will have specials featuring the number 75.
Now in its 23rd year as a gay-owned coffee shop, and a favorite stop for āTodayā show host Hoda Kotb, The Coffee Mill at Rehoboth Commons (127 Rehoboth Ave.) has several special events scheduled this year, including a fundraiser for Breast Cancer Delaware featuring Kotb, who is a regular customer.
The owner of the Coffee Mill will also celebrate the first year of BRASHhh (1 N. First St.), a shop featuring menās fashions and swimwear.
Yes, there are a few businesses in Rehoboth that arenāt gay owned. A few highlights of the new season: the former Stoney Lonen is gone and replaced by 208 Social (208 2nd St.), featuring Eastern Shore-inspired cuisine and comfort food. The always-packed Bramble & Brine (315 Rehoboth Ave.), which closed abruptly last year, is slated to reopen May 15. And perhaps the most buzzed about addition to the local food scene isnāt in Rehoboth but just down Route 1 in Dewey, where Dewey Beer Co. (Route 1 and Saulsbury Street), a brewery and restaurant, is scheduled to open for Memorial Day Weekend.
There will be an art walk held the second Saturday of each month when most of the numerous galleries in Rehoboth invite you to visit. Most will also have special shows throughout the summer.
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Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’
Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

LOS ANGELES ā It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated āAmerican Mythā album. Sheās back to the music scene with her new album, āLucky Gift,ā an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.
The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In āLucky Gift,ā sheās getting her point across while having fun and getting glam.
We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.
Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.
“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho.
“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”
Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayās political climate.
“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community. I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”
As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.
“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants āha ā at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”
Margaretās long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā the owners of a gay bookstore ā and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.
“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”
Margaretās āLucky Giftā comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.
“It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaās] āAbracadabraā because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ābrat summer,ā that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love āLucky Giftā because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”
In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her āLive and LIVID! Tour,ā celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.
āWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatās why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā
And her message to her fans?
āWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. āAbracadabra,ā learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā
āLucky Giftāis now available on all major streaming platforms.
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Meet the people giving a voice to LGBTQ truck drivers
āLike therapy,ā finding solace in each other and the road

Before embarking on his weekly 2,000-mile trip as a truck driver, Derric Schmid sets up his smart TV and preps meals in bulk like ham and potatoes.
To some, long hours on the road away from family and friends sounds grueling. But for Schmid, itās his way of life.
āI love the freedom,ā Schmid said. āI get paid to go see the country. I’ve spent New Year’s Eve in New Orleans, I’ve spent it in St. Louis and this year I spent Christmas out in California exploring.ā
Schmid is the vice president and senior diversity officer of LGBTQ+ Truck Driver Network (TDN), a nonprofit he runs with founder Bobby Coffey-Loy. TDN aims to foster inclusivity and safety in the truck driving industry by building a supportive network of allies and queer truckers.
The organization vets companies (Schmid says he calls 50-100 per week) to understand which are committed to creating safe spaces for drivers of all backgrounds. Schmid and Coffey-Loy also host the Big Gay Trucker Podcast, where they interview people who need advice or want to discuss taboo topics.
Coffey-Loy said meeting people from different walks of life, including trans people recovering from surgeries while on the road, inspired him to create TDN.
āIt just opened me up to a whole group of people that just needed representation,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThere are groups out there on [social media] pages, but nobody actually took it as far as a nonprofit organization.ā
Coffey-Loy drives with his partner of 17 years, Ricky, for a company called Luna Lines. Together they drive about 6,000 miles a week, taking turns sleeping or keeping one another company. On Monday, they typically start a load in Jacksonville and then drive to New Mexico, Chicago, Baltimore, Tennessee and end up back home in Palm Coast, Fla., by Friday. They even pay for all their gas and food while on the road.
Doing a weekly cross-country road trip in tight quarters with your partner can be trying, and Coffey-Loy will be the first to admit that: āYour partner is someone that knows how to push your buttons faster than anybody else,ā he laughed.
But he also said starting truck driving together eight years ago is what made him and his husband closer. Before driving, he said it felt like life and jobs sometimes got in the way of their relationship. Going to trucking school together and being able to support each other on the road over the years has sparked a different kind of connection in their lives.
āWe didn’t want to be apart from each other, so that’s what made trucking work for us,ā he said.
For both Schmid and Coffey-Loy, truck driving runs in the family. Schmid, whoās been driving trucks for almost 24 years and with TDN for more than two, calls Jonestown, Pa., home āā a borough with a 2023 population of 1,645. He had three uncles and a grandfather who were truck drivers.
Coffey-Loy, born and raised in West Virginia, said his father and grandfather were truck drivers.
Continuing family tradition is respectable enough, but Coffey-Loyās mission of creating a safe and supportive space for those in the industry was unique; it was difficult for his parents to accept his identity when he first came out.
Coffey-Loyās parents passed away 11 months apart last year. He said they learned to grow to love him for who he was. When TDN started up, they became āmom and dad to everyone,ā and even invited people with no familial structure to move in with them.
At get-togethers, his dad called everyone āsweetieā or āhoneyā to be respectful since he didnāt know how everyone identified.
āWhat they’ve taught me is, if they can change their mind and they can accept everybody, anybody can,ā Coffey-Loy said. āI will cherish it forever. I miss them every day.ā
And the impact of this lesson has been tried and true. TDN attended the Mid-America Trucking Show despite receiving death threats and facing extra security measures āā yet they ran through dozens of handouts before their station even opened. Another year, they handed out condoms to promote safe sex on the road and were met with backlash āā yet they went through a whole box on the first day.
The team behind TDN may be small āā about eight people āā but Schmid said their reach is wide. Thousands of people visit their social media pages from around the world and connect with each other, including a vocal German bus driver and a man from Africa trying to create more queer visibility in his area.
Coffey-Loy said many people contact him directly for support. There was a straight man who called who had trouble balancing his home life and truck driving hours and expressed suicidal thoughts. The man said he saw Coffey-Loyās number and needed someone to talk to.
Moments like those are why Coffey-Loy emphasizes that the organization is there to support everyone, not solely the LGBTQ community. He recalled a bonfire gathering where people of different backgrounds and identities laughed and talked as friends.
āIt’s why you do what you do,ā Coffey-Loy said.
Although TDN has given many people a family away from home, it doesnāt make losing time with family and friends any easier. Coffey-Loy missed a family memberās funeral in West Virginia because he was in New Mexico and couldnāt abandon his load.
āHe had already been buried before I could get back,ā he said.
Itās a different way of life, but itās not an impossible one. Schmid calls his mom and stepfather every morning and his mom again in the evenings. He gets on group calls with friends and TDN members. On weekends, Schmid sees some friends in person for dinners, and is able to visit with his family.
Truck driving may mean frequently saying goodbye to close people in his life, but it also opens the door to new connections around the country: āI got friends in every state,ā Schmid said.
Although heās constantly traveling, Coffey-Loy always feels at home. Itās those nights driving, with nothing but the roaring hum of the road filling the silence while his husband sleeps behind him, that fulfill him.
āEven though you miss so much of your everyday life, there’s something about trucking that is so freeing,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThe road can be so loud in your life, and it has a way to really sort out things. It’s like therapy for me.ā
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SaldaƱa triumphs amid āEmilia PĆ©rezā collapse at Oscars
Karla SofĆa GascĆ³nĀ loses top award to Mikey Madison after scandal

Itās no wonder the camera caught actress Michele Yeoh crying after watching queer singer Cynthia Erivo (nominated for best actress) and Ariana Grande (nominated for best supporting actress) perform one of the much-loved songs from āWicked,ā as they were simply magnificent.
Grande opened with Judy Garlandās āSomewhere Over the Rainbow,ā and Erivo sang āHomeā from āThe Wiz.ā That was one of the many bright spots in the 97th annual Academy Awards, which took place Sunday night at the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood.
While the duo sadly didnāt take away any awards, the magical film did ā gay costume designer Paul Tazewell won the Oscar for Best Costume Design.
āThis is absolutely astounding,ā Tazewell enthused onstage, in his acceptance speech. āThank you Academy for this very significant honor. I’m the first Black man to receive a costume design award for my work on āWicked.ā I’m so proud of this.ā
In the pressroom, Tazewell elaborated on his well deserved win.
āThis is the pinnacle of my career. I’ve been designing costumes for over 35 years,ā he said. āMuch has been on Broadway and now into film, and the whole way through there was never a Black male designer that I saw that I could follow, that I could see as inspiration. And to realize that that’s actually me, it becomes a āWizard of Ozā moment, you know, it’s like no place like home. So to come back to the inspiration being inside of me was ā is really remarkable.ā
Tazewell said he achieved the award with the help of a lot of really amazing and talented costume artisans of all types and an amazing staff and assistants and crew.
āBecause, you know, there’s no way for me to do it alone! And that also is my greatest joy ā to be collaborating with other very talented artists, so I respect what that artistry is, and I share this with them because I value what their input is.ā
The veteran costume designer knew the movie was going to be pretty spectacular, but he was āabsolutely blown away,ā because of their approach.
āWe were working on two films at the same time. It wasn’t until I actually saw a pretty complete cut that I actually experienced the journey that we have created for audiences. And so, to experience that āI was beside myself. And it defined why I do costume design, why I am a costume designer.ā
āWickedā also won the Oscar for Best Production Design.
āEmilia PĆ©rez,ā Netflixās mesmerizing Spanish language, trans crime musical, had a whopping 13 nominations, with first-time nominee Karla Sofia GascĆ³n making history as the first trans woman to be nominated for best actress. This would have been the most nominated foreign film in the history of the Academy Awards.
Unfortunately, after the controversy surrounding her past tweets, the film only won two awards: for best supporting actress (Zoe Saldana) and best original song (āEl Malā).
While the U.S. is in an era of anti-trans political maneuvering, Sunday nightās broadcast included no mention of trans people.
In the pressroom, during an interview with āEmiliaā composers ClĆ©ment Ducol, Camille, and director Jacques Audiard, a journalist asked if anyone wanted to address what was happening.
Speaking in French via a translator, Audiard said, āSince I didn’t win Best Film or Best Director, I didn’t have the opportunity to speak, but had I had that opportunity, I would have spoken up.ā
SaldaƱa, who starred as Rita, a lawyer who gets enmeshed with the trans cartel leader’s transition, was thrilled to win.
āI am floored by this honor. Thank you to the Academy for recognizing the quiet heroism and the power in a woman like Rita. And talking about powerful women, my fellow nominees, the love and community that you have offered me is a true gift, and I will pay it forward. Thank you so much Jacques Audiard, you are forever a beloved character in my life. Thank you for taking the interest, thank you for being so curious about these women to tell this story to my cast and my crew of āEmilia PĆ©rez.āā
SaldaƱaās nephew is trans; a few weeks ago, while winning the best supporting actress at the BAFTAs, she told journalists that she was dedicating the award to him.
āIām dedicating all of these awards and the film āEmilia PĆ©rezā to my nephew, Eli. He is the reason ā they are the reason ā I signed up to do this film in the first place,ā she said. āSo as the proud aunt of a trans life, I will always stand with my community of trans people.ā
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