Arts & Entertainment
Chip Gaines responds to anti-gay church controversy
‘Fixer Upper’ star urges people to set aside differences
“Fixer Upper” star Chip Gaines has spoken out about the homophobic church controversy he and his wife, Joanna Gaines, faced last year.
In November a BuzzFeed article revealed the Gaines’ pastor Jimmy Seibert, at their church in Waco, Texas, is against same-sex marriage. The Gaines’ association with Seibert called into question the couple’s own views. While the Gaines’ never publicly addressed the issue, Chip’s end of year letter alludes to the backlash.
“This past year has been tough. In my lifetime, I can’t recall humanity being more divided. Plenty of folks are sad and scared and angry and there are sound bites being fed to us that seem fueled by judgment, fear and even hatred. Jo and I refuse to be baited into using our influence in a way that will further harm an already hurting world, this is our home. A house divided cannot stand,” Chip writes.
“If there is any hope for all of us to move forward, to heal and to grow ā we have got to learn to engage people who are different from us with dignity and with love,” Chip continues.
Chip’s blog post doesn’t specifically mention the BuzzFeed article but encourages everyone to work together in the new year.
āWe propose operating with a love so real and true that you are willing to roll up your sleeves and work alongside the very people that are most unlike you. This is how a house gets unifiedā¦ This could be one of the greatest restoration stories of all time. Whoās ready to get to work?ā Chip concludes.
Out & About
DC Center to host queer market
Clothes, shoes, accessories and other items will be available
The DC Center for the LGBT Community will host āMetro Queer Marketā on Saturday, Nov. 9 at 11 a.m. at its offices at 2000 14th St., N.W., Suite 105.
Guests will have the opportunity to check out the centerās closet. Clothes, shoes, accessories and other items will be available.
For more details, visit the DC Centerās website.
The DC Center for the LGBT Community will host āSeniors and Safety with the USDAā on Thursday, Nov. 7 at 5 p.m on Zoom.
This lecture will cover a variety of topics including food safety tips, leftover safety and more. To RSVP, visit the DC Centerās website.Ā
Movies
A writer finds his voice through sex work in āSebastianā
An engaging, sexy, and thought-provoking ride
When Finnish-British filmmaker Mikko MƤkelƤās film āSebastianā premiered at the 2024 Sundance Festival, he told Variety he wanted his movie to provide a āfrank and honest portrayal of queer sexuality.ā Thatās surely enough to lure queer audiences ā particularly gay male audiences, thanks to its gay male protagonist ā with the promise of steamy onscreen sex, and his movie, now available on VOD platforms after a limited theatrical release, certainly delivers on it.Ā
That, however, is only half (perhaps less) of what itās all about, because, like its title character, it lives in two worlds at once.
In fact, āSebastianā isnāt even his real name. Heās actually Max (Ruaridh Mollica), an aspiring writer who works a āsurvival jobā at a literary magazine while working on his first novel ā a āpseudo-memoirā chronicling a gay sex workerās encounters with various clients. Itās not exactly āpseudo,ā though; the experiences he writes about are real, gained by advertising himself on a website for gay escorts to obtain āresearchā for his book. The results are getting him noticed, and a publisher (Leanne Best) is interested in the completed manuscript ā but he finds his focus being pulled away from his ārealā life and deeper into the anonymous thrill of exploring his own sexuality in the safety of an assumed identity.
Itās not just his work thatās affected; among the other things that begin to suffer from his growing obsession are his relationships: with his co-worker and bestie, fellow aspiring writer Amna (Hiftu Quasem); with his conservative mother back in Edinburgh, who already disapproves of his lifestyle in faraway, hedonistic London; and to a much older client (Jonathan Hyde) with whom āSebastianā has developed an unexpected emotional attachment. Most of all, itās his own sense of identity that is caught in the conflict, as he tries to keep both sides of his double life together while preventing his whole world from falling apart.
Itās a story with a lot of irons on the fire ā a quality it seems to share with the novel its protagonist is writing, much to the irritation of his would-be publisher. What begins as the saga of a fledgling male escort ā we first meet Max during his first booking as āSebastian,ā after all, suggesting almost from the start that it is this persona that is our true protagonist ā soon shifts into that of an ambitious-but-frustrated young author attempting to fuel his creativity through lived experience, laced with the ongoing thread of his own sexual awakening and self-acceptance. It even makes overtures toward an unexpected (and unorthodox) love story, before venturing down a darker path to become something of a cautionary tale, a warning against the dangers of leading a compartmentalized existence and allowing the gratification of oneās personal appetites to overshadow all the other facets of our lives. Along the way, it throws in some commentary about the tense dynamic between creative expression and commercialism in the arts, not to mention the reinforcement of stigma and negative attitudes around sex workers ā and sex in general ā through the perceptions and representations created by social traditions and popular culture.
This latter perspective might be the key to what is really at the heart of āSebastianā all along, toward which MƤkelƤās screenplay hints with a description of Maxās work-in-progress as being about āthe shame of being ashamed.ā From the beginning, it is his own fear of being found out that becomes his greatest obstacle; far more than his reluctance to cross lines heās been raised to respect, itās the dread of having his reputation and his prospects shattered that causes him to waver in his path ā and that feeling is not unfounded, which is in itself a telling indicator that the power of social judgment is a very real force when it comes to living our authentic lives. Indeed, his personal taboos are quick to fall away as he pursues his undercover āresearchā, but the guilt he feels about being caught in a social position perceived as ābeneathā his own is something he cannot shrug off so easily. With so many generations of religious and societal dogma behind them, such imperatives are hard to ignore.
Yet, thereās yet another aspect of āSebastianā to discuss, that, while it is self-evident in the very premise of MƤkelƤās movie, might be easy to overlook in the midst of all these other themes. A story about someone pretending to be someone else is inherently about deception, and Max, regardless of his motives, is a deceiver. He deceives his clients to obtain the material for his writing, and he deceives his employers and his publisher about where he gets it; he deceives the people closest to him, he deceives potential romantic partners ā but more than anyone else, he deceives himself.
Itās only by becoming honest with oneself, of course, that one can truly find a way to reconcile the opposing sides of our own nature, and that is the challenge āSebastianā sets up for its protagonist, no matter which name he is going by in the moment. Whether or not he meets it is something we wonāt spoil, but weāll go as far as saying that a breakthrough comes only when Max is forced by circumstance to follow his instincts and āget honestā with someone ā though we wonāt tell you who.
In the end, āSebastianā satisfies as a character study, and as a journey of self-acceptance, largely thanks to a charismatic, layered, thoroughly authentic performance from Mollica, a Scots-Italian actor of tremendous range who convincingly captures both sides of Maxās persona and transcends them to create a character that incorporates each into a relatable ā if not always entirely likable ā whole. MƤkelƤās steady, clear-eyed direction helps, as does the equally dignified and vulnerable performance from veteran character actor Hyde, whose chemistry with Mollica is as surprising as the relationship they portray in the film.
Even so, āSebastianā suffers from the many balls it attempts to keep in the air. Though it aims for sex-positive messaging and an empathetic view of sex work, it often devolves into the kind of dramatic tropes that perpetuate an opposite view, sending mixed messages about whether itās trying to diffuse old stereotypes or simply reinvent them for a modern age of ādigital hustlers.ā Further, in its effort to offer an unfiltered presentation of queer sexuality, it spends perhaps a bit more screen time than necessary showing it to us as explicitly as possible while omitting all but a glimpse of full-frontal nudity, but just enough to conjure the word āgratuitous.ā
Donāt get us wrong, though; MƤkelƤās movie ā only his second feature film effort to date ā is an engaging, sexy, and ultimately thought-provoking ride, even if its tangled ambitions sometimes get the better of its narrative thrust, and it comes with our recommendation.
Itās just that, one of these days, weād really like to see a movie where sex work is honestly portrayed as a job, just like any other ā but I guess weāll have to wait until society is ready for it before we get that one.
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