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MAL Weekend takes over D.C. Jan. 13-15
Leather Cocktails, Mr. MAL contest and more on schedule
Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend
Jan. 13-15
Hyatt Regency on Capitol Hill (400 New Jersey Ave., N.W.)
Glorious Health Club (2120 West Virginia Ave., N.E.)
D.C. Eagle (3701 Benning Rd., N.E.)
9:30 Club (815 V St., N.W.)
Full details on all events, cost, package deals and more available at leatherweekend.com.
EVENT HIGHLIGHTS
Friday, Jan. 13
Impact Deux by Highwaymen TNT, 10 p.m.
CODE party, 10 p.m.
Saturday, Jan. 14
Puppy Park 9, 11 a.m.
Onyx Cocktail Party & Gear Show, 2 p.m.
Leather Cocktails, 7 p.m.
MAUL Uniform Party, 10 p.m.
FxCK Muscle party, 10 p.m.
Sunday, Jan. 15
Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather contest, 1 p.m.
Women’s Tea Social, 5 p.m.
Dark & Twisted closing dance party, 10 p.m.
The inauguration is coming soon, but for this weekend, it’s a much different story in Washington with fun, education and inclusion all wrapped in chaps and jocks set to unfold at the annual Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend at the Hyatt Regency on Capitol Hill. About 3,500 are expected.
“This is an election year,” says Patrick Grady, chairman of Leather Weekend, “so there will be lots of people coming.”
MAL Weekend, the largest club-sponsored leather event in the country, is a kaleidoscope of parties and events. There is an exhibitors hall and several educational seminars and gear shows as well as the Dark & Twisted closing party hosted by DJ Ultra Nate’.
The origin of MAL reads like a Marvel comic, read after midnight, at a black-out party. According the MAL website, in 1976 Glenn Pitcher, a member of the Links Motorcycle Club, threw a party for his West Coast friends at the Waldorf-Astoria Hotel in New York. Somehow during “certain adult” events in the bathroom, a cock ring hit the tile floor which became the resounding tradition going forward, as the event was repeated year after year. When organizers threatened to shutter the event, members of the Centaur MC asked to continue the ritual in 1984. The event blossomed from there.
The key words that bubble out of the leather community are consent and communication. There are a lot of conversations about sexuality and interests and each person has to be willing to have a dialogue to explore what they want.
This may be why the leather community feels more inclusive than other parts of LGBT culture.
“I think the community strives for inclusion,” says Dominion ONYX, a blogger and parliamentarian of the ONYX brotherhood, a leather fraternity for men of color that will host a party and gear show Saturday.
The 45-year-old Washington resident, who declined to give his legal name, can trace his involvement with the leather community back to attending a MAL Weekend event.
“I just remember having a really good time and people welcoming me like family,” he says.
He says the leather community, and MAL and ONYX specifically, tend to have a more welcoming stance not only about race, gender and orientation, but of body sizes.
Dominion ONYX, who weighs about 290 pounds, felt his voice was just as important as leather men of smaller proportions and more defined body types.
“Every man does not fit that (muscular) role,” Dominion says. “It was important that these men had a place where they could see themselves.”
Though unintentional, the leather community has always been inclusive, Grady says.
“It’s a natural progression,” Grady, 55, says. “It’s like a family reunion.”
Grady, a member of the Centaur Motorcycle Club, found his interest piqued after attending a previous MAL.
“I just loved meeting everyone, hanging out with guys and girls in the leather community,” Grady says. “You can go anywhere in the country and be welcomed.”
One of the biggest events will be the Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather Contest on Sunday. Winners receive almost $7,000 in cash and prizes and get to travel the country to educate and preach the gospel that is leather.

The 2016 Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather competition (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
The current International Ms. Leather, Lascivious Jane, will be a judge and says women are also welcome at MAL events.
“I know dozens of women who are going,” says Lascivious Jane, 42. “Last year was my first time going and I remember looking down at a sea of men and being completely overwhelmed in the best way possible.”
For Jane, a Philadelphia resident who also declined to give her legal name, her journey in the leather community was eye opening.
“I considered myself a leather dyke for 20 years, but for a long time had a challenging time finding community,” Jane says. “It was only the last four or five years that I was able to access community.”
Jane journeyed from a small town outside of Montreal and ended up in Philly about 15 years ago. Along the way she often came up short searching for fellow kinksters, a mix of timing, location and fear of going into some leather spaces because she didn’t know if she’d be welcomed.
She has now found a women’s community. And though she says some parts of MAL Weekend and the leather community can be male-centric, the overarching message is that it’s for everyone.
“There are parts of the weekend that are more mens’ spaces,” she says, “like the sexy things that happen behind closed doors.”
She says that kink, though, is universal.
“Everybody has things in their life that turn them on and gets them off, and some things that the leather community would like, the vanilla world wouldn’t,” she says. “But we are all mothers and fathers or kids and that doesn’t change because we like certain things.”
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

