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Barry Manilow breaks silence on coming out and his secret marriage

the 73-year-old singer got candid about his relationship

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(Screenshot via Entertainment Tonight.)

Barry Manilow has finally opened up about his famously private life to the media.

In an interview with Entertainment Tonight, the 73-year-old singer told host Cameron Mathison that his fans’ reactions to his secret marriage in 2014 to his longtime partnerĀ Garry Kief have been welcoming.

“I have not read one negative response,” Manilow says. “These strangers out there, and I’ve always known it, they care about me. I don’t know, maybe they care about everybody, but for me, it is so moving, it is so deep that these strangers were so happy that I was happy. That I wasn’t alone, that I had somebody that was with me that I loved and that we’d been together for 37 years. We’re in great shape, and I was very grateful for that response.”

Manilow went on to say that he never considered going public with his relationship because he prefers privacy.

“This is my life, we’ve been together for all these years,” Manilow says. “Everybody knows that we’re a team. Everybody that I know knows. So, it never really dawned on me to say anything about it. I mean, I’m a very private guy. I don’t even like people knowing the names of my dogs, so for the public to get that close was really veryā€¦ it was strange that we were even talking about it. But I don’t mind at all. I’m proud of it, I am. I’m proud of it.”

Manilow told People magazine that early in his career he was busy making music and didn’t have time to struggle with his sexuality. He was married to his high school girlfriend Susan DexlerĀ from 1964-1965 but his music took first priority.

ā€œI was in love with Susan. I just was not ready for marriage. I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I was too young. I wasnā€™t ready to settle down,” Manilow says.

He would go on to release classic hit songs “Mandy,” “Looks Like We Made It,” “Copacabana (At the Copa) and “Can’t Smile Without You.” Manilow met Kief, a TV executive, in 1978 and the couple have been together ever since.

ā€œI knew that this was it,ā€ Manilow says. ā€œI was one of the lucky ones. I was pretty lonely before that.ā€

Manilow’s close friend Suzanne Somers dropped the bombshell that Manilow and Kief had gotten married while a guest on “Watch What Happens Live” in 2015.

“They’re married and really happy, and I was there when it was announced,” Somers said of the couple. “I think it’s freeing for him. He’s extremely private, extremely. He’s an awesome person, they’re both awesome people, they’re my dearest friends.”

 

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Nu Sass Productions to celebrate 15th anniversary

‘Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead’ performed at DC Arts Center

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Nu Sass Productions will mark its 15th anniversary with a resurrection of ā€œRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā€ beginning Friday, Sept. 20 at 8 p.m. at the DC Arts Center. 

ā€œRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā€ debuted at the Capital Fringe Festival in 2009 and will return this year with a new cast and crew.

Tickets cost $30 and can be purchased via the Nu Sass website.

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Explore new venues, productions during D.C. Theatre Week

30 shows, including musicals, comedies, dramas, premieres, and more

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Michael Ramirez serves as a Helen Hayes Awards judge and board member at Woolly Mammoth Theatre. (Photo by DJ Corey Photography)

2024 Theatre Week
Sept. 26-Oct. 13
Theatreweek.org

For Michael Ramirez, theater remains an ongoing source of inspiration and pleasure. As a little boy in El Paso, Texas, his mom took him to see lots of kidsā€™ shows. And later in high school, he played one of the Sharks in ā€œWest Side Story.ā€ All fond memories. 

At the University of Texas in Austin for social work (undergraduate) and social work/public administration (graduate school) and then as a successful human resources professional and policy wonk in Washington, Ramirez continued to enjoy theater from the audience or behind the scenes. Now retired, he serves as a Helen Hayes Awards judge and board member at Woolly Mammoth Theatre. 

Theatre Washington is the umbrella organization that not only produces the Helen Hayes Awards but also Theatre Week, an annual celebratory launch of the season with shows at low prices, a free kickoff fest, and other fun events. 

The 2024 Theatre Week, explains Ramirez, features about 30 varied productions in the DMV, including musicals, comedies, dramas, new works, premieres, and works geared to young audiences. And tickets are affordably discounted at $60, $40, and $20.

ā€œItā€™s a great opportunity to take a chance on a theater that you might not be familiar with,ā€ he says. ā€œWhen it comes to seeing shows, a lot of people think Kennedy Center or Fordā€™s. This can be an introduction to something entirely new. D.C. is a busy theater town with lots of companies and venues.ā€  

At the heart of Theatre Week are its plays and musicals. Ramirez has already made his list. 

His picks include GALA Hispanic Theatreā€™s ā€œThe 22+ Weddings of Hugoā€ featuring out actor Carlos Castillo as Hugo and staged by out director JosĆ© Zayas; busy out playwright Branden Jacobs-Jenkinsā€™ ā€œThe Comeuppanceā€ at Woolly Mammoth; and ā€œRosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Deadā€ at Nu Sass Productions.

He also plans to see Mosaic Theatreā€™s ā€œLady Day at Emersonā€™s Bar and Grill,ā€ a play with music about jazz legend/queer icon Billie Holiday starring Roz White; ExPats Theatreā€™s ā€œMarlene,ā€ featuring Karin Rosnizeck as legendary diva Marlene Dietrich; and Rorschach Theatreā€™s ā€œSleeping Giantā€ written by gay playwright Steve Yockey well known as the developer of the HBO Max comedy-drama television series ā€œThe Flight Attendant.ā€

Ramirez adds, ā€œAnd as a good gay, I canā€™t miss ā€˜Sondheim Tribute Revueā€™ at Creative Cauldron.ā€ 

There are also parties and outdoor events. He advises a few of his favorites. 

On Monday, Sept. 9, Woolly Mammoth hosts a Theatre Week Launch Party replete with drinks and season sneak peaks (invitation only). 

The Historic Theatre Walking Tour (Sept. 21) asks the public to check out downtown D.C. theaters with guides Farar Elliot and Chris Geidner (free). And with City on the River Concert (Sept. 22), Theatre Washington returns to the D.C. Wharf Transit Pier to present ā€œmusical theater showstoppersā€ from a dozen of the seasonā€™s upcoming shows (free).  

Next up itā€™s ā€œDC Theatre at the Natsā€ (Sept. 24), a night out at the ballgame that baseball lover Ramirez is sure to attend. And typically, he says, performers from a local show or company are booked to sing the anthem ($20). 

And big event Kickoff Fest 2024, an all-afternoon event for all ages, takes place on Sept. 28 at Arena Stage (also free).

Not surprisingly Ramirez fell for another theater aficionado. He and husband John Ralls got together in 1990 and married in 2014. Ralls is a board member at Rorschach.

As board members, they ā€œfunction as ambassadors and marketers for the theater. We reach into our pockets and write the checks. We buy the season tickets, and encourage our friends to do the same.ā€

Ramirez enthusiastically reiterates: ā€œTheatre Week is especially fun. Again, tickets are reasonable. Thereā€™s everything from puppet plays at Glen Echo Park to something more serious. Itā€™s the perfect chance to try something new.ā€ 

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