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Inside the lonely world of MAGA gay men

Pushback against community members who support Trump is not unusual

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Uncloseted Media published this article on April 18.

This story was written in partnership with Gay Times Magazine.

By EMMA PAIDRA | When Evan decided it was time to tell his boyfriend that he voted for Trump, he couldnโ€™t get the words out. โ€œI was stuttering for 20 minutes straight on the phone,โ€ he told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES.

Once he finally worked up the courage, he was met with pushback: โ€œHe made fun of me. โ€ฆ He called me a racist and a white supremacist,โ€ says Evan, a 21-year-old math major who lives in Long Island, N.Y.

That pushback isnโ€™t unusual: According to a 2023 Pew Research Center survey, 83 percent of queer men typically vote Democrat. One key reason gay men swing left in 2026 is because of the Trump administration and MAGA-aligned politiciansโ€™ track record on LGBTQ issues. Since the start of Trumpโ€™s second term, his administration has terminated more than $1 billion worth of grants to HIV-related research, removed the Pride flag from the Stonewall National Monument and shut down the LGBTQ-specific option on the 988 youth suicide hotline.

Because of this, many of the fewer than one in five LGBTQ men who cast their ballot for Trump in 2024 face judgment for their political affiliation.

โ€œPeople think that I hate myself for being gay, and that Iโ€™m a gay traitor. โ€ฆ I wish there were more gay conservatives or moderates,โ€ says Evan, who requested to use a pseudonym due to fears over retaliation for his political views.

Navigating dating and relationships as a gay Trumper

Nick Duncan, 43, can relate to Evanโ€™s fears about being an open Trump supporter: โ€œI mostly get hatred. Iโ€™ve never lost a conservative friend because Iโ€™m gay, but Iโ€™ve lost all of my gay friends because Iโ€™m conservative,โ€ says Duncan, a hospitality executive who lives in Miami. โ€œIโ€™ve divorced myself from what I refer to as the Alphabet Mafia.โ€

Duncan says he feels so unwelcome by the LGBTQ community that heโ€™s hesitant to attend certain queer events. โ€œNowadays, I would never go to a Pride event,โ€ Duncan told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES. โ€œI donโ€™t feel that I would be safe.โ€

Despite these concerns, Duncan doesnโ€™t hide his political views when looking for love. โ€œIโ€™m in a long-term relationship now, and when I have been on the dating market, Iโ€™m very open and upfront about [my political views]. So I think it just weeds out most people who would have an issue.โ€

For Evan, political differences have been a source of tension in his relationship even before he told his boyfriend who he voted for. โ€œWhen I first met him, he asked me if I liked Trump. โ€ฆ He was kind of scaring me. So I said, โ€˜I donโ€™t know,โ€™โ€ Evan recalls. โ€œHe said, โ€˜Good answer, because if you said yes, I couldnโ€™t even talk to you.โ€™โ€

Since revealing his conservative identity, Evan has had multiple arguments with his boyfriend about politics. โ€œThis guy, who Iโ€™ve been dating for almost a year, heโ€™s way too far left. โ€ฆ The first proof is he thinks thereโ€™s more than two genders,โ€ says Evan. โ€œI tried telling him there were only two genders, and he got mad at me.โ€

Though Evan believes there are only two genders, research suggests that gender is a spectrum allowing for multiple gender identities.

Proud gay Trump supporters

According to a 2025 report from Pew Research Center, 71 percent of LGBTQ adults view the Republican Party as unfriendly towards LGBTQ Americans. Duncan thinks these critiques are unreasonable: โ€œThe Republican Party is not nearly as anti-gay as [leftists] believe,โ€ he says. โ€œThe Trump administration has plenty of openly gay people in the administration, and Trump actually supported gay marriage before it was cool.โ€

Gay members of the Trump administration include Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent, as well as Tony Fabrizio, a pollster and strategist. Additionally, Trump did tell the Advocate in a 2000 interview that though โ€œthe institution of marriage should be between a man and a woman,โ€ he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is โ€œonly fair.โ€

But since then, Trump has appointed Supreme Court Justices who have denounced marriage equality and Cabinet members with anti-LGBTQ track records,ย includingย Pete Hegseth, Marco Rubio, and Pam Bondi.

Duncan says part of the reason he isnโ€™t worried about Trumpโ€™s anti-LGBTQ track record is because he doesnโ€™t view being gay as the most important part of his identity: โ€œThe most important part of who I am is as a father.โ€

Duncan is not alone: A 2020 report from the UCLA Williams Institute School of Law found that Republican lesbian, gay, and bisexual people areย more likelyย to feel connected to other parts of their identities than their sexual orientations.

Evan doesnโ€™t identify with the community at large and does not like to be referred to as โ€œLGBTQโ€ or โ€œqueer.โ€

โ€œI realized Iโ€™m normal. Iโ€™m not LGBTQ,โ€ he says. โ€œIโ€™m just gay.โ€

Evanโ€™s desire to be seen as โ€œnormalโ€ rings of Vice President JD Vanceโ€™s 2024 comments on Joe Roganโ€™s podcast, where he said Trump could win the โ€œnormal gayโ€ vote. During this same interview, Vance suggested that parents of genderqueer children use their childrenโ€™s identities as a rejection of having white privilege. Vance received significant backlash for these comments, with the Human Rights Campaign responding to the vice presidentโ€™s remarks over X.

Some gay Republicans see the GOP as more friendly

For Chris Doane, 56, voting Republican is the only choice that makes sense, as he believes voting for a Democrat goes directly against his interests as a queer man. โ€œConservatives donโ€™t want to murder gays. They want them saved,โ€ he says. โ€œMuslims vote Democrat, because if the Democrats win, they get to stay [in the U.S.], they get to take power, and they will murder gays brutally with a smile on their face,โ€ says Doane.

Doaneโ€™s comments are unfounded and display racist stereotypes peddled by far-right American media: One study from the Brennan Center for Justice compiled data from 1984 to 2020 and found that racial resentment is more prevalent on the right than on the left.

Doane was raised in a conservative family in Bryan, Texas, and isnโ€™t out to his family because he fears that they wonโ€™t accept him. For him, voting Republican is part of his heritage. โ€œI was told, โ€˜Donโ€™t ever let Democrats in control. Theyโ€™ll ruin our country,โ€™โ€ he says. โ€œThatโ€™s pretty much what they did, and thatโ€™s why President Trump is working overtime to straighten it all back out.โ€

Trans rights and gay Republican men

Though Doane and other gay Republicans hold a range of views, a common thread is a hesitancy around trans rights. So, they align more with the Trump administration, which has railed against the trans community with Trumpโ€™s policies and rhetoric.

For example, Doane sees being able to transition as a matter of personal freedom but thinks gender-affirming care for trans kids is a step too far.

โ€œWhen it comes to transgender, I have nothing against that. I just believe that when you make that transition, it should be at a point where your brain is fully developed โ€ฆ and youโ€™re actually going to enjoy that transition,โ€ he says.

He also holds the view that for a trans person to be accepted as their correct gender, they must fully physically transition. โ€œIf youโ€™re gonna transgender, transgender all the way. If youโ€™ve still got male parts on you, you donโ€™t belong in the womenโ€™s dress room.โ€ However, research suggests otherwise, with a 2025 study indicating that policing bathroom access can lead to mental distress in trans youth.

Duncan has his own doubts.

โ€œI disagree with the integration of gender ideology and radical wokeism into the LGBT community. You are free to live under any delusion you so desire. Youโ€™re not free to require me to live under your delusion as well,โ€ he says. โ€œBut if somebody wants to live as a man or a woman, however it is, I firmly believe they have the right to do that. I would never get in the way of it.โ€

Duncan also believes that education about LGBTQ people should be limited in schools. He sees adolescence as a fundamentally confusing time, and believes an education about LGBTQ communities would โ€œadd on layers of confusion.โ€ This belief seems to be in line with Gov. Ron DeSantisโ€™ 2022 โ€œDonโ€™t Say Gayโ€ bill, which has banned education on gender identity and sexual orientation in Floridaโ€™s classrooms from pre-kindergarten until the end of eighth grade, though there are exceptions for health lessons.

โ€œItโ€™s okay to tell kids that some boys like boys, some girls like girls, some people like both. But it just needs to be kept vague and general,โ€ Duncan says. โ€œHowever you are is okay. We donโ€™t need to expose children to gay media because if youโ€™re gay, youโ€™re going to know.โ€

Duncan does not believe heteronormative bias in mainstream media is a problem, though a study published in Equity & Excellence in Education found heteronormative biases in schools may harm queer students. โ€œThe vast majority of people are heterosexual, and a functioning society is built on a heteronormative bias,โ€ he says. โ€œIt is important to understand that we are the extreme minority and society is not responsible for conforming to us.โ€

They approve of Trump and donโ€™t see him as a threat

While LGBTQ Americans see the Republican party as unfriendly towards queer people, Duncan and Doane arenโ€™t worried about being stripped of their rights. Duncan says the 2015 passage of gay marriage solidified his equal rights. โ€œWe have marriage as gay men. I have every right that a straight man does,โ€ he says.

Doane also feels that his rights are secure under Trump 2.0 and approves of the president so far. โ€œI voted for that great, big, beautiful wall because we were being overrun by illegals,โ€ he says. Doane also approves of U.S. interventions in Iran and Venezuela, though he criticizes Trump for โ€œleaving [Venezuela] way too soon.โ€

Similarly, Duncan is generally approving of Trumpโ€™s handling of immigration. โ€œI donโ€™t love what weโ€™re doing as far as deportations, but we had to get some control over the illegal population,โ€ says Duncan. โ€œI wish there was another way, but I canโ€™t think of it.โ€

Duncan and Doane are certainly in the minority as queer men who approve of Trump, but as far as theyโ€™re concerned, Trump is delivering on his promises. โ€œOverall, Iโ€™m happy,โ€ says Duncan. โ€œIโ€™m getting pretty much exactly what I voted for.โ€


Editorโ€™s note: An earlier version of this article stated that Trump told the Advocate in 2000 that legalizing gay marriage was โ€œonly fair.” That was incorrect. He told the publication that he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is โ€œonly fair.โ€

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HRC condemns DoE removal of LGBTQ bullying data from federal survey

Organization cites rise in homophobic, transphobic policies, worse mental health outcomes

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The Human Rights Campaign is slamming the White House โ€” and the Department of Education โ€” following their removal of some LGBTQ bullying data from federal data collection.

The Civil Rights Data Collection is a mandated survey of all public school districts that collects figures on a wide variety of statistics about students โ€” including demographics that include race, ethnicity, sex, disability status, and English learner status; course-level enrollment data, such as how many students are enrolled in advanced placement or honors classes; and school climate information, such as rates of bullying, harassment, suspensions, and expulsions.

That data collection has been ongoing since 1968 โ€” nearly six decades โ€” but now has a major change in what questions are being asked, or not asked, that advocates are largely attributing to the Trump-Vance administration’s culture war fight on LGBTQ children in the country.

Changes to the 2025-2026 survey questions โ€” approved by the Office of Budget and Management in July โ€” eliminated a space for schools to report how many students identify as nonbinary, how often those students are victims of harassment and bullying, and whether school districts have policies prohibiting gender identity-based incidents.

K-12 Dive, a publication that focuses its reporting on news related to K-12 education, first published a list of these data collection changes from 2024-2025 to 2025-2026.

These questions, as well as others that included LGBTQ student topics on treatment in schools, were added to the CRDC under the Biden-Harris administration. By including these questions, policymakers hoped this would lead to increased investigations into discrimination complaints, initiate compliance reviews, and provide policy guidance to districts, according to Education Department documents.

The CRDC also eliminated the mention of โ€œgender identityโ€ from the definition of rape and sexual assault. The prior collection of data (before the Trump-Vance administration changed it) defined rape as something that could be done to โ€œall students, regardless of sex, or sexual orientation, or gender identity.โ€ Now, the new data collection questions say, โ€œAll students, regardless of sex, or sexual orientation can be victims of rape,โ€ removing โ€œgender identityโ€ from the new definition.

By removing and changing definitions, this could have a real-world impact on some of the schoolโ€™s most vulnerable students. According to CRDC data from 2021-2022, more than 1,800 school districts reported enrolling one or more nonbinary students.

Additional data also shows that the changes to data collection is harming public school students. U.S. Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.), the ranking member of the Senate Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions Committee released a report in April finding that the Trump-Vance administrationโ€™s efforts to all but close the Department of Education Office for Civil Rights has left students facing discrimination and harassment throughout the country without the federal recourse they are entitled to under federal law.

The Williams Institute, a think tank that collects data and conducts research on issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity, has data indicating the true number of nonbinary and transgender children is much higher โ€” they estimate that for children ages 13 to 17, nearly 724,000 identify as nonbinary or trans.

This is in line with a slew of policies pushed by the Trump-Vance administration since their federal takeover. Within his first day in office, President Donald Trump signed Executive Order 14168, titled โ€œDefending Women from Gender Ideology Extremism and Restoring Biological Truth to the Federal Government.โ€ This directive attempts to make the federal definition of gender unchangeable, determined by sex assigned at birth alone.

Within his first month of his second term, Trump issued Executive Order 14187, titled โ€œProtecting Children from Chemical and Surgical Mutilation.โ€ The order directs federal agencies to restrict gender-affirming medical care โ€” including puberty blockers, hormone therapy, and surgeries โ€” for individuals under the age of 19.

He also pushed multiple anti-trans executive orders, including Executive Order 14201, โ€œKeeping Men Out of Womenโ€™s Sports,โ€ and Executive Order 14183, โ€œPrioritizing Military Excellence and Readiness,โ€ targeting trans athletes and military members, respectively.

These policies have a real-world impact on trans people.

The Trevor Project, a nonprofit dedicated to crisis and suicide prevention for LGBTQ people under 25, reported that, for the seventh year in a row, LGBTQ youth are at higher risk for suicide as a result of mistreatment and stigmatization.

Trevor Project data showed that nearly 60 percent of LGBTQ young people ages 13-17 said they were bullied in the past year, and that 36 percent of LGBTQ youth seriously considered suicide in the last year. The data shows a bigger discrepancy for trans youth, with that number hovering around 40 percent considering suicide.

HRC President Kelley Robinson issued a statement following the approval of the new data collection questions that leaves LGBTQ students’ bullying statistics under โ€” if not completely unreported.

โ€œIf there was even a shadow of a doubt, this latest move by the Trump administration makes it abundantly clear they do not care about the safety of LGBTQ+ students, and trans students in particular,โ€ Robinson said. โ€œThese are adults who should be protecting our kids. And instead, they are making sure bullying and harassment are not tracked. If they are not tracked, bullying and harassment cannot be prevented or stopped โ€” which is exactly what the Trump administration wants. Parents deserve to know their kids are safe at school, and every single young person deserves dignity and safety at school. Anything less is plain evil.โ€

HRC has a โ€œWelcoming Schoolsโ€ initiative that they say is the โ€œmost comprehensiveโ€ bias-based bullying prevention program in the nation. The program includes LGBTQ and gender-inclusive resources for schools, help navigating special education and disability resources for LGBTQ-identifying students, and other tools to help schools become more inclusive.

This program has been in effect for nearly two decades and, according to HRC, reaches nearly 750,000 students.

The Washington Blade reached out to both the Department of Education and Office of Management and Budget for comment but did not receive a response by publication time.

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Progressives score victory as El-Sayed wins Mich. Senate primary

Democratic newcomer will face Rogers in November

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Michigan held its primary on Tuesday, allowing the two major political parties to select their nominees to go head-to-head for the state’s U.S. Senate seat.

NBC News called the Democratic race early, giving the victory to physician Abdul El-Sayed over incumbent U.S. Rep. Haley Stevens (D-Mich.) in an extremely close primary. El-Sayed won 48.5 percent of the primary vote, with Stevens trailing by just one percentage point at 47.5 percent.

Both candidates have campagined on supporting the LGBTQ community through different avenuesโ€” for El-Sayed he focused on his past promoting HIV and PrEP funding and research. Stevens focused on her legislative history working to support transgender rights in the state.

This is a major win for progressive Democrats, who have been bearing the brunt of political attacks from President Donald Trump, the Republican Party, and centrist Democrats.

El-Sayed, a former health director in Detroit, ran his campaign largely on making life in the Great Lakes State more affordable amid rising costs. His policies include promoting “Medicare for All,” pushing health policy that targets the regressive efforts of the Trump-Vance administration that rolls back funding for both Women and LGBTQ people, minimizing the growing amount of money in politics, and he was very vocal in his criticism of Stevens for supporting aid to Israel. He was endorsed by two major progressives โ€” U.S. Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) and U.S. Rep. Alexandria Ocasio Cortez (D-N.Y.).

Stevens, the four-term congresswoman, is much closer to establishment Democrats on policy than El-Sayed.

During her time in the federal government, she has consistently supported the Equality Act, which would add sexual orientation and gender identity as protected classes under the Civil Rights Act of 1964. She has also emphasized supporting local manufacturing and lowering housing costs in the state.

She was named to Advocates for Trans Equality’s 118th Congressional Champions list for her pro-trans policies and was endorsed by establishment heavy hitters Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer and Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.).

The contentious race boiled down not only to Michigan affairs but also extended to international conflicts โ€” namely Palestine. (South Africa has filed a case in the International Court of Justice in The Hague that accuses Israel of committing genocide in the Gaza Strip after Oct. 7.) This primary also acted as one of the first major races that pushed back against AIPAC, a lobbying group that works to promote pro-Israel candidates in U.S. elections. The group has been involved in domestic politics since 1954.

AIPAC devoted a massive amount of money to this race.

The Associated Press reported that the pro-Israel lobbying group spent more than $30 million on ads against El-Sayed because of his vocal denunciation of Israel and his continued criticism of its policies towards Palestine.

Michigan has a large Muslim and Arab American population, which could, in part, explain how El-Sayed was able to win.

The Republican side was far less competitive. Former U.S. Rep. Mike Rogers (R-Mich.) ran unopposed and clinched the GOP nomination. He has consistently held anti-LGBTQ positions, going as far as voting multiple times for a federal constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage, voting against repealing the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, and supporting efforts to directly target the attempted expansion of Title IX protections to include trans people.

El-Sayed will face off against Rogers in November for Michigan’s Senate seat โ€” one that could have lasting impacts not only on the state’s politics but also on the Republicans’ narrow Senate majority and Trump’s political agenda.

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White House orders warning signs at Smithsonian over gender identity exhibits

Administration criticizes National Museum of American History

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Secretary of the Interior Doug Burgum is expected to install warning signs outside the National Museum of American History warning visitors of supposedly anti-American content. (Photo courtesy of the Office of the Governor of North Dakota)

The Trump administration will install temporary warning signs outside the Smithsonian’s National Museum of American History after releasing a report accusing the museum of promoting what it calls “radical” gender ideology and other politically biased content.

According to the Executive Order, โ€œFor purposes of policy formulation under EO 14253, this review of the National Museum of American History concludes that NMAH, by the intention and at the direction of current Museum and Smithsonian leadership, has become subject to institutional capture by a radical, activist ideology that is fundamentally opposed to telling the noble, honest story of the great country we know and love.โ€

Executive Order 14253 refers to what the White House has deemed the โ€œRestoring Truth and Sanity to American Historyโ€ order. Therefore, the Trump administration has said it will take all available steps to ensure that the issues in the report are addressed and rectified.

Without specifying, the White House has stated that warnings will be posted along NMAH to alert visitors to sections of the museum it has deemed are in violation according to the report.

โ€œThe Secretary of the Interior, acting through the Director of the National Park Service (NPS) and in coordination with the Assistant to the President for Domestic Policy, shall install temporary signage along the NPS-maintained sidewalks and walkways used by the public to access the Museum, informing visitors of the findings of the Report and of the policy set forth in section 1 of this order,โ€ the Executive Order states.

The warnings were raised in a 162-page report issued by the Domestic Policy Council. The report detailed ways in which the National Museum of American History (NMAH) has โ€œpoorlyโ€ portrayed American history and insufficiently highlighted the founding story during America 250th celebrations.

The report outlined key findings of the NMAH. One of these findings was the Center for Restorative History within the museum, which has stated its purpose is to โ€œencourage systemic changeโ€ by highlighting diverse groups. However, the report states that it highlights every group of Americans except for straight and white Americans.

The Domestic Policy Council accused the museum of engaging in “transgender activism.” According to the report, examples include referring to “biological men” as women or girls, displaying what it describes as sexually suggestive content, and incorporating discussions of gender fluidity, gender identity, and gender nonconformity into the museum’s educational curriculum, โ€œBecoming US.โ€

The report also criticizes the curriculum for using the term “transgender” when discussing gender-nonconforming people and encouraging individuals to ask a person’s pronouns when meeting them. It further objects to exhibits stating that “transgender, nonbinary, and cisgender female athletes” continue to struggle for and demand equality.

It also condemns what it refers to as explicit content in an exhibition, โ€œGirlhood (Itโ€™s Complicated)โ€, such as chest binders, questioning gender testing in womenโ€™s sports, and referring to biological females as โ€œpeople inhabiting female bodies.โ€

Additionally, the report accuses the museum of no longer participating in flag-celebrating ceremonies because it was “too busy” preparing for June Pride and WorldPride events. It states, “As Director Hartig explained in a June 2024 presentation, all her attention was focused on flying the Smithsonian Pride Alliance’s ‘intersexual pride flag during June’ in 2023 and 2024.”

On July 9, the American Historical Association issued a statement rejecting the report’s findings.

In regard to the report, it states, โ€œIts anonymous authors overlook a central lesson of the nationโ€™s founding: the United States was forged by finding common purpose amid intense divisions, conflicts, and disagreements.โ€ They argue that only โ€œhonest historyโ€ can tell the true history of the nation.

House Republicans led a subcommittee hearing that questioned Smithsonian Director Hartig extensively. A main focus of the questions was on the exhibits related to gender identity and whether they were appropriate. In the hearing, Rep. Nancy Mace asked: โ€œWhen was your gender revealed to you, Dr. Hartig?โ€

In response to questioning, Hartig stated that the institution is nonpartisan and does not push a specific agenda.

Hartig published a two-page statement ahead of her hearing outlining her thoughts on the situation. In the report, she states that the institution is always open to criticism and will continue to look for ways to improve, but she sees the report as misleading.

โ€œI can attest that the report does not fairly characterize the full body of work at this museum. I am familiar with the depth and breadth of our collections, exhibits, and programming. And while I recognize there is always room for improvement, I also know the beauty, inspiration, and expertise that exists in our museum,โ€ Hartig wrote.

Democrats created their own 16-page report as a rebuttal to the Domestic Policy Councilโ€™s report. It argued that the attacks by the current Trump administration are another example of its attempt to rewrite history. Additionally, the report states that no policy changes were included in the Executive Order, as that is beyond the President’s role. โ€œThe Report recommends nothing. That is no accident. To recommend an action, the Report would need to identify who is legally empowered to take it, and its own opening chapter concedes the Presidentโ€™s only power is to โ€˜urgeโ€™,โ€ House Democrats wrote.

It is still unclear when the temporary warnings will be installed or what form they will take beyond the requirements outlined in the executive order.

An exhibit at the Smithsonian. (Washington Blade photo by Landon Shackelford)

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