National
Inside the lonely world of MAGA gay men
Pushback against community members who support Trump is not unusual
Uncloseted Media published this article on April 18.
This story was written in partnership with Gay Times Magazine.
By EMMA PAIDRA | When Evan decided it was time to tell his boyfriend that he voted for Trump, he couldnโt get the words out. โI was stuttering for 20 minutes straight on the phone,โ he told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES.
Once he finally worked up the courage, he was met with pushback: โHe made fun of me. โฆ He called me a racist and a white supremacist,โ says Evan, a 21-year-old math major who lives in Long Island, N.Y.
That pushback isnโt unusual: According to a 2023 Pew Research Center survey, 83 percent of queer men typically vote Democrat. One key reason gay men swing left in 2026 is because of the Trump administration and MAGA-aligned politiciansโ track record on LGBTQ issues. Since the start of Trumpโs second term, his administration has terminated more than $1 billion worth of grants to HIV-related research, removed the Pride flag from the Stonewall National Monument and shut down the LGBTQ-specific option on the 988 youth suicide hotline.
Because of this, many of the fewer than one in five LGBTQ men who cast their ballot for Trump in 2024 face judgment for their political affiliation.
โPeople think that I hate myself for being gay, and that Iโm a gay traitor. โฆ I wish there were more gay conservatives or moderates,โ says Evan, who requested to use a pseudonym due to fears over retaliation for his political views.
Navigating dating and relationships as a gay Trumper
Nick Duncan, 43, can relate to Evanโs fears about being an open Trump supporter: โI mostly get hatred. Iโve never lost a conservative friend because Iโm gay, but Iโve lost all of my gay friends because Iโm conservative,โ says Duncan, a hospitality executive who lives in Miami. โIโve divorced myself from what I refer to as the Alphabet Mafia.โ
Duncan says he feels so unwelcome by the LGBTQ community that heโs hesitant to attend certain queer events. โNowadays, I would never go to a Pride event,โ Duncan told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES. โI donโt feel that I would be safe.โ
Despite these concerns, Duncan doesnโt hide his political views when looking for love. โIโm in a long-term relationship now, and when I have been on the dating market, Iโm very open and upfront about [my political views]. So I think it just weeds out most people who would have an issue.โ
For Evan, political differences have been a source of tension in his relationship even before he told his boyfriend who he voted for. โWhen I first met him, he asked me if I liked Trump. โฆ He was kind of scaring me. So I said, โI donโt know,โโ Evan recalls. โHe said, โGood answer, because if you said yes, I couldnโt even talk to you.โโ
Since revealing his conservative identity, Evan has had multiple arguments with his boyfriend about politics. โThis guy, who Iโve been dating for almost a year, heโs way too far left. โฆ The first proof is he thinks thereโs more than two genders,โ says Evan. โI tried telling him there were only two genders, and he got mad at me.โ
Though Evan believes there are only two genders, research suggests that gender is a spectrum allowing for multiple gender identities.
Proud gay Trump supporters
According to a 2025 report from Pew Research Center, 71 percent of LGBTQ adults view the Republican Party as unfriendly towards LGBTQ Americans. Duncan thinks these critiques are unreasonable: โThe Republican Party is not nearly as anti-gay as [leftists] believe,โ he says. โThe Trump administration has plenty of openly gay people in the administration, and Trump actually supported gay marriage before it was cool.โ
Gay members of the Trump administration include Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent, as well as Tony Fabrizio, a pollster and strategist. Additionally, Trump did tell the Advocate in a 2000 interview that though โthe institution of marriage should be between a man and a woman,โ he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is โonly fair.โ
But since then, Trump has appointed Supreme Court Justices who have denounced marriage equality and Cabinet members with anti-LGBTQ track records,ย includingย Pete Hegseth, Marco Rubio, and Pam Bondi.
Duncan says part of the reason he isnโt worried about Trumpโs anti-LGBTQ track record is because he doesnโt view being gay as the most important part of his identity: โThe most important part of who I am is as a father.โ
Duncan is not alone: A 2020 report from the UCLA Williams Institute School of Law found that Republican lesbian, gay, and bisexual people areย more likelyย to feel connected to other parts of their identities than their sexual orientations.
Evan doesnโt identify with the community at large and does not like to be referred to as โLGBTQโ or โqueer.โ
โI realized Iโm normal. Iโm not LGBTQ,โ he says. โIโm just gay.โ
Evanโs desire to be seen as โnormalโ rings of Vice President JD Vanceโs 2024 comments on Joe Roganโs podcast, where he said Trump could win the โnormal gayโ vote. During this same interview, Vance suggested that parents of genderqueer children use their childrenโs identities as a rejection of having white privilege. Vance received significant backlash for these comments, with the Human Rights Campaign responding to the vice presidentโs remarks over X.
Some gay Republicans see the GOP as more friendly
For Chris Doane, 56, voting Republican is the only choice that makes sense, as he believes voting for a Democrat goes directly against his interests as a queer man. โConservatives donโt want to murder gays. They want them saved,โ he says. โMuslims vote Democrat, because if the Democrats win, they get to stay [in the U.S.], they get to take power, and they will murder gays brutally with a smile on their face,โ says Doane.
Doaneโs comments are unfounded and display racist stereotypes peddled by far-right American media: One study from the Brennan Center for Justice compiled data from 1984 to 2020 and found that racial resentment is more prevalent on the right than on the left.
Doane was raised in a conservative family in Bryan, Texas, and isnโt out to his family because he fears that they wonโt accept him. For him, voting Republican is part of his heritage. โI was told, โDonโt ever let Democrats in control. Theyโll ruin our country,โโ he says. โThatโs pretty much what they did, and thatโs why President Trump is working overtime to straighten it all back out.โ
Trans rights and gay Republican men
Though Doane and other gay Republicans hold a range of views, a common thread is a hesitancy around trans rights. So, they align more with the Trump administration, which has railed against the trans community with Trumpโs policies and rhetoric.
For example, Doane sees being able to transition as a matter of personal freedom but thinks gender-affirming care for trans kids is a step too far.
โWhen it comes to transgender, I have nothing against that. I just believe that when you make that transition, it should be at a point where your brain is fully developed โฆ and youโre actually going to enjoy that transition,โ he says.
He also holds the view that for a trans person to be accepted as their correct gender, they must fully physically transition. โIf youโre gonna transgender, transgender all the way. If youโve still got male parts on you, you donโt belong in the womenโs dress room.โ However, research suggests otherwise, with a 2025 study indicating that policing bathroom access can lead to mental distress in trans youth.
Duncan has his own doubts.
โI disagree with the integration of gender ideology and radical wokeism into the LGBT community. You are free to live under any delusion you so desire. Youโre not free to require me to live under your delusion as well,โ he says. โBut if somebody wants to live as a man or a woman, however it is, I firmly believe they have the right to do that. I would never get in the way of it.โ
Duncan also believes that education about LGBTQ people should be limited in schools. He sees adolescence as a fundamentally confusing time, and believes an education about LGBTQ communities would โadd on layers of confusion.โ This belief seems to be in line with Gov. Ron DeSantisโ 2022 โDonโt Say Gayโ bill, which has banned education on gender identity and sexual orientation in Floridaโs classrooms from pre-kindergarten until the end of eighth grade, though there are exceptions for health lessons.
โItโs okay to tell kids that some boys like boys, some girls like girls, some people like both. But it just needs to be kept vague and general,โ Duncan says. โHowever you are is okay. We donโt need to expose children to gay media because if youโre gay, youโre going to know.โ
Duncan does not believe heteronormative bias in mainstream media is a problem, though a study published in Equity & Excellence in Education found heteronormative biases in schools may harm queer students. โThe vast majority of people are heterosexual, and a functioning society is built on a heteronormative bias,โ he says. โIt is important to understand that we are the extreme minority and society is not responsible for conforming to us.โ
They approve of Trump and donโt see him as a threat
While LGBTQ Americans see the Republican party as unfriendly towards queer people, Duncan and Doane arenโt worried about being stripped of their rights. Duncan says the 2015 passage of gay marriage solidified his equal rights. โWe have marriage as gay men. I have every right that a straight man does,โ he says.
Doane also feels that his rights are secure under Trump 2.0 and approves of the president so far. โI voted for that great, big, beautiful wall because we were being overrun by illegals,โ he says. Doane also approves of U.S. interventions in Iran and Venezuela, though he criticizes Trump for โleaving [Venezuela] way too soon.โ
Similarly, Duncan is generally approving of Trumpโs handling of immigration. โI donโt love what weโre doing as far as deportations, but we had to get some control over the illegal population,โ says Duncan. โI wish there was another way, but I canโt think of it.โ
Duncan and Doane are certainly in the minority as queer men who approve of Trump, but as far as theyโre concerned, Trump is delivering on his promises. โOverall, Iโm happy,โ says Duncan. โIโm getting pretty much exactly what I voted for.โ
Editorโs note: An earlier version of this article stated that Trump told the Advocate in 2000 that legalizing gay marriage was โonly fair.” That was incorrect. He told the publication that he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is โonly fair.โ
Federal Government
Senate Democrats press DOJ over anti-trans prison directives
Markey joins other lawmakers in demanding reversal of policies
U.S. Sen. Edward Markey (D-Mass.) is urging acting Attorney General Todd Blanche and William Marshall III, director of the Federal Bureau of Prisons, to reverse a policy affecting transgender inmates that lawmakers say is โendangeringโ their โhealth and safety.โ
Markey, along with U.S. Sens. Jeffrey A. Merkley (D-Ore.) and Mazie K. Hirono (D-Hawaii), sent the letter that the Washington Blade verified on Monday.
The letter is a direct response to a change in prison policy that went into effect in February 2025, rolling back Biden-era protections for trans inmates. The senators described how President Trumpโs Executive Order 14168, titled โDefending Women from Gender Ideology Extremism and Restoring Biological Truth to the Federal Government,โ forced a policy shift they argue is rooted more in political rhetoric than in medical research or evidence-based correctional practices.
In the letter, the lawmakers wrote โOn Feb. 21, 2025, the BOP issued a memo to implement President Trumpโs EO, requiring BOP staff to โrefer to individuals by their legal name or pronouns corresponding to their biological sex,โ banning the use of funds for any โitems that align with transgender ideology,โ and suspending clothing accommodations, pat search accommodations, and support programs offered to transgender individuals.โ
โIn a second memo, issued one week later, the BOP banned the use of federal funds for โany medical procedure, treatment, or drug for the purpose of conforming an inmateโs appearance to that of the opposite sex.โ These changes have resulted in the denial โ or threatened denial โ of hormone treatment and gender-affirming accommodations for transgender individuals in BOP custody.โ
โOn Feb. 19, 2026, the BOP escalated its attacks, issuing a program statement titled, โManagement of Inmates with Gender Dysphoria.โ It prohibits incarcerated people from receiving gender-affirming care, even if paid for with private funds. This practice forces incarcerated people to discontinue care, regardless of medical recommendations.โ
The senators continued, โThe agency has repeatedly enacted policies that strip transgender individuals of their gender identity and dignity. This includes requiring staff to refer to transgender individuals by pronouns that โalign with their biological sexโ rather than gender identity and to confiscate gender-affirming items, such as undergarments, clothing, cosmetics, and wigs.โ
โThese policies risk triggering mental health crises, including increased suicidality, among incarcerated people with gender dysphoria. The BOPโs repeated guidance to roll back gender-affirming protections โ despite a federal court order finding that the BOPโs actions to discontinue gender-affirming care are likely unlawful โ generate confusion about the current state of regulations and convey the BOPโs indifference to court orders and the rule of law.โ
โBy stripping away appropriate medical and psychiatric care, safety protections, and measures to provide dignity, the BOP is exposing transgender individuals to significant harm.โ
The Marshall Project, a nonprofit newsroom focused on the U.S. criminal justice system and immigration enforcement through data-driven reporting, also reported on the policy change. The outlet spoke with Shana Knizhnik, an attorney with the American Civil Liberties Union, about the impact of the changes.
โIt’s clear that this new policy is a ban on gender affirming healthcare,โ Knizhnik, who works for the nationwide chapter of the ACLU said. โThis is a policy that disregards the medical needs of our plaintiffs.โ
The letter also asked the BOP and the DOJ specific questions regarding why the policy went into effect, as lawmakers suggested the changes appear politically motivated rather than based on new medical evidence regarding treatment for trans inmates.
The senators requested answers to these trans policy-specific questions by May 21, including:
โDoes the BOP plan to monitor and assess the impacts of recent policies that eliminate gender-affirming medical and psychiatric care?โ
โSince January 20, 2025, how many transgender, nonbinary, intersex, and gender-diverse individuals have been transferred to a different facility to meet the EOโs goal of housing individuals โaccording to their biological sex?โโ
โGiven that the BOP has stopped enforcing Prison Rape Elimination Act regulations related to gender identity and collecting data on gender identity, how will the BOP protect the physical and emotional health and safety of incarcerated transgender individuals?โ
โHow does the BOP plan to monitor and assess the impact of eliminating protections against sexual violence for this population?โ
โDoes the BOP plan to institute a specific process by which transgender individuals may seek assistance or lodge complaints regarding harms they experience from the recent BOP policies and actions implementing President Trumpโs EO?โ
โDescribe the specific criteria the BOP intends to use to determine whether it will allow a โsocial accommodationโ for gender dysphoria.โ
Markey also included a personal statement to the Blade explaining why he is using his position on Capitol Hill to push for more information and advocate for reversing the policy.
โThis administration continuously shows their contempt for trans people and a total disregard for their rights and humanity. As part of this cruel campaign, the Bureau of Prisons has systematically stripped health care access and basic protections from trans people, abandoning its duty to the people in its custody. I wonโt stop fighting until this administrationโs hateful anti-trans policies are reversed and trans peopleโs rights are secured.โ
The Blade reached out to the DOJ and the BOP for comment but had not received a response at press time.
National
Barney Frank on trans rights, 2028, and the need to โreform the leftโ
Gay former congressman starts home hospice care while completing new book
Former U.S. Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.), who served in the House from 1981 until his retirement in 2013 and who became the first member of Congress to voluntarily come out as gay in 1987, has resurfaced in the news over the past two weeks after announcing he has entered home hospice care and plans to publish a new book on, among other things, how Democrats can and should regain control of Congress.
According to media reports and an interview Frank conducted this week with the Washington Blade, his book, entitled โThe Hard Path to Unity: Why We Must Reform the Left to Rescue Democracy,โ calls on the Democratic Partyโs progressive left leaning members to be more strategic in pushing for laws and policies initially considered โpolitically unacceptable” to most U.S. voters and the American people.
Frank told the Blade he believes the LGBTQ rights movement has succeeded in advancing most of its agenda seeking protections against discrimination by initially pushing less controversial advances such as the end to the ban on gays in the military and non-discrimination in employment before taking on the more controversial issue of same-sex marriage.
While acknowledging that Congress has yet to pass a national law banning discrimination against LGBTQ people in employment, housing, and public accommodations as 22 states and D.C. have already done, he points to the two landmark U.S. Supreme Court decisions, one legalizing same-sex marriage nationwide in Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, and the other declaring sexual orientation and gender identity are protected categories for which employment discrimination is prohibited under existing federal law in Bostock v. Clayton County in 2020.
Frank notes that while some in the LGBTQ community are fearful that LGBTQ rights are under attack and may be pulled back under the Trump administration, he believes Republicans in Congress at this time will not attempt to repeal any existing LGBTQ protections, especially those regarding marriage rights and employment protections secured by the Supreme Court rulings.
He says transgender rights are the remaining LGBTQ issue that have yet to be adopted rationally, and he fully supports ongoing efforts to advance trans rights. But like his criticism of the progressive left among Democrats, Frank says the efforts to advance trans rights could be jeopardized by the highly controversial issue of โmale to female transgender people playing in womenโs sports.โ
He added, โThatโs the most controversial, the most difficult. It affects the fewest number of people.โ While he says trans rights supporters should continue to advocate for that, โthey should not make it a litmus test and say well if youโre not for that youโre not a supporter of the rights of transgender people. There are places where people are supportive, and we want to encourage that.โ

Frank, 86, told Politico he has entered home hospice care as he deals with ongoing congestive heart failure. He said he is remaining in his home in Ogunquit, Maine, where he has lived with his husband, Jim Ready, since retiring from Congress in 2013.
โIโve been doing some writing. I wrote this book,โ Frank told the Blade. โIโve relaxed. Meanwhile, my health has been failing. Jim has been a saint in taking care of me,โ he said. โAnd so, I take it easy.โ
Frank spoke to the Washington Blade in a phone interview from his home on May 4.
Washington Blade: Weโre hearing some interesting reports about the book youโve been writing. Can you say when it will be published?
Barney Frank: Sept. 15 is the publication date.
Blade: Some of the reports about the book in the media have said you want the far left within the Democratic Party to be more cautious.

Frank: No, Iโll give you this. The job is to defeat populism to keep democracy. Clearly you have to know what caused it. I believe that the essential cause in the surge of populism was economic inequality and the failure of mainstream liberals to address inequality. And beginning in the โ80s economic growth became less and less fair in its institutions. And that led to all this anger.
So, the mainstream left finally figured that out after [Bernie] Sanders and Trump in โ16. So, we then โ because I was working to make that change โ got the Democrats to pay attention to economic inequality. And Joe Bidenโs program did. The problem is at that point, people on the left who had correctly been critical of the failure to address equality said, OK, thatโs not the only problem you guys are missing. There are all these other problems.
And they jumped from being right on the question of inequality and equality to believing in a lot more social changes, some of which were just unacceptable to the public. And the mistake they make is they donโt distinguish โ there are a lot of issues Iโve been for in my life, but I had to assert that they were not currently politically survivable.
So, you do two things. Those that are politically survivable work to get them done. Others, you become an advocate. But you donโt make the most controversial part of your agenda litmus tests and drive away your allies. You will remember that on marriage that was an issue and in 2000 they insisted you will be for marriage.
So, my thesis is that while the mainstream understood its mistake on inequality, the most militant and ideological of our left misunderstand public opinion and they are pushing the public to โ and they are insisting on acceptance of things that are not politically acceptable.
Blade: Having said what you said, how do you see that impacting gay rights or LGBTQ rights?
Frank: Well in the first place, gay rights โ one of the things I want to address โ is this fear that gay rights are going to be taken away โ rights for LGB people. Nonsense. Weโre not going to lose any of those rights. If they tried to undo marriage, for instance, the political reaction they would get would be abortion type sentiment. They are just not going to do that because it causes them too many political problems.
The problem is advances we hope to make in the area of transgender people. But there is no chance of losing โ I canโt think of a single right that is in jeopardy. They are not going to reintroduce the ban in the military. Theyโre not going to tell people their marriages are cancelled. Again, the Republicans are not even trying to do that because they know there would be a terrible backlash.
With regard to LGBT there is one analogy. And that is the most controversial issue we faced over the years on what was the gay-bisexual agenda was same-sex marriage. And we left that until the end. And you remember we did the military. We did ENDA. We moved on to everything else, and it wasnโt until the very end that we went into marriage. [NOTE: ENDA did not ultimately pass.]
I think the analogy to that is male to female transgender people playing in womenโs sports. Thatโs the most controversial, the most difficult. It affects the fewest number of people. And I believe had we deferred on marriage โ people who believe thatโs important should advocate for it. But they should not make it a litmus test and say well if youโre not for that youโre not a supporter of the rights of transgender people. There are places where people are supportive, and we want to encourage that.
Blade: You said you donโt think we will lose any rights, most of the laws related to nondiscrimination are from the states or municipal laws that were passed.
Frank: Tell me what you think will be lost. You and I always have this problem. Iโve always felt you were cynical and skeptical. Tell me what right we now have thatโs in jeopardy.
Blade: One would be if the Supreme Court reverses its decision on same-sex marriage.
Frank: If they do, Congress would now step in on that, which would be the passage of Tammy Baldwinโs bill.
Blade: But what I was going to ask you next is in all the years youโve been in office and as of now a federal LGBTQ rights bill has not been passed by Congress yet. Is there a chance of that happening?
Frank: I do not think it will happen because the members of Congress do not want to be in the position of voting to cancel peopleโs marriages. There are valid marriages throughout the country. And the notion that Congress will pass a bill invalidating those, no they wonโt. They wonโt do anything thatโs as disruptive and that will cause a strong reaction. Have you seen a federal bill to do that? I havenโt.
Blade: No, and I am sorry if Iโm not putting the question across correctly. Iโm talking about the bill that bans discrimination based on employment, public accommodations and other areas for LGBTQ people that Congress has not yet passed. You co-sponsored that for many years.
Frank: I know that, and the Supreme Court did that one. No, I donโt think that โ oh, all right, thatโs a different question than marriage. If the Supreme Court reverses itself on that โ I donโt see any sign that theyโre going to, then I think you would see the federal bill passed.
[He is referring to the 2020 U.S. Supreme Court decision that employment discrimination against gay, bi, and trans people was equivalent to sex discrimination, which is prohibited under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.]
Blade: Are you talking about marriage?
Frank: For both for marriage and for non-[discrimination] โ I donโt think a marriage bill would pass nationally. To distinguish, I donโt think a bill striking down marriages would pass. Too much violent reaction. As to employment discrimination, where they havenโt acted yet, if the Supreme Court changes that โ I think thatโs extremely unlikely โ then I think Congress would step in.
Blade: Are you saying we may not need an LGBTQ non-discrimination act by Congress for the states that havenโt passed that?
Frank: I would be in favor of that, yes. But again, I think you and I โ you have always been pessimistic. There is a political time now that works in our favor. And as I said, on abortion, they burned themselves very badly on abortion. And yes, Iโm still for a national anti-discrimination bill. But I do not think the right wing wants to be caught taking rights away that already exist. Because thatโs a lot harder than denying them in the first place. And I donโt see any movement for that. You tell me what you are worried about. What bills are you worried about?ย
Blade: I was simply saying they havenโt yet passed a federal non-discrimination bill.
Frank: No, whatโs going to change on the Supreme Court? I donโt see a pretty quick reversal on the Supreme Court. So, I think people are just โ they have to have a cause. And they are inflating the likelihood that we are going to lose some rights when I see no evidence of it. And in fact, I see a lot of political reasons why those in Congress donโt want to do that.
Iโll tell you there are a lot of Republicans who would vote for same-sex marriage. For example, the leadership would say for Christโs sake, donโt bring that up.ย They donโt want to take a position on it. And they got burned on abortion, badly.ย
Blade: To the extent that you are observing this, do you think the LGBTQ rights organizations are doing what they should be doing?
Frank: Well, I think some are stressing the negative too much. Because when people believe nothing good ever happens, they may get discouraged. I think they should be concentrating on the transgender issue. And I know the most controversial parts are protecting peopleโs rights to medical care, their rights selecting their own gender. And thatโs what I would be working on.
And yeah, it would be nice to pass the national bill. I donโt think thatโs going to happen. Well, if the Democrats get the House, the Senate, and the presidency, maybe it will happen. But I donโt see the urgency of that because I donโt see any movement to reverse the Supreme Courtโs decision.
Blade: What message would you have for the LGBTQ community?
Frank: My message is one, weโre in good shape. And two, that what remains in the transgender issue โ who is first? Which are those of your issues that are the most politically acceptable. And you work your way through and as you win on some of those the resistance on the tougher ones will diminish. And the other issue is we are โ the problem is the stand to protect the rights of transgender people. But the rights for lesbian, gay, and bisexual people, I do not think they are in jeopardy and I do not think a lot of resources should be spent on being what I think is a very small threat.
Blade: For those states and municipalities that do not have laws protecting LGBTQ people from discrimination, do you think attitudes are changing so there would be little or no discrimination?
Frank: Oh, no question. First of all, I think itโs very unlikely that any of the rights they have will be taken away. And secondly, if they had to take some positive steps to take away protections they would not do it. And I think that ship has sailed in our direction and isnโt going back. In the end, you cannot underestimate thereโs a big political difference between denying people their rights in the first place and taking it away from them after theyโve enjoyed it.
Anything is theoretically possible, but I donโt see any evidence thatโs likely to happen.
Blade: Weโre coming up to the midterm elections this year, but is there anyone coming up in the next presidential election who you might be supporting?
Frank: Oh, I think at this point weโre going to have a fairly open Democratic process. And itโs very clear at this point the way American politics is going it will be a basically supportive Democrat against a basically opposed Republican. And Iโll be supporting the Democrat. And so, this Democrat would be the best one, the most electable. And which one, I havenโt decided that. I want to see how people will fare when they start running.
But I think it is inconceivable that the Democrats would nominate someone who is not fully supportive.
Blade: Some people might be asking what you have been doing since you retired from Congress.
Frank: Iโve been doing some writing. I wrote this book. Iโve relaxed. Meanwhile, my health has been failing. Jim [husband Jim Ready] has been a saint in taking care of me. And so, I take it easy. In terms of what I do, I have two rules, two pieces of advice for people who retire. One is that you shouldย make up two lists. One is you should have a bucket list, a list of things you want to do before youโre through. But more important than the bucket list is a list that rhymes with bucket. Thatโs a very important list. And thatโs one that I increasingly defer to.
Blade: And what is the one other than bucket?
Frank: It rhymes with bucket. What rhymes with bucket?
Blade: Oh, OK.
Frank: Thatโs the list I follow.
Florida
Key West Pride’s state funding pulled
Republican Fla. Gov. Ron DeSantis signed anti-DEI bill
Following the passage of anti-DEI legislation in Florida, Key West will no longer receive any state funding for its future Pride events.
In a letter provided to the Key West Business Guild, the LGBTQ visitor and tourism center for the string of islands, a senior assistant county attorney for Monroe County officially said that the organization would no longer receive funding for its ongoing projects as a result of Senate Bill 1134 and House Bill 1001, starting in 2027.
The popular Key West Pride, gay menโleaning Tropical Heat weekend, and Womenfest will no longer receive any state money. This is something that Gay Key West Visitor Center Executive Director Rob Dougherty highlighted will shift how all the largest LGBTQ events in the Keys will be held after this year.
He said that the explanation is solely a result of SB 1134 and HB 1001, which limits the official actions of local governments by โprohibiting counties and municipalities, respectively, from funding or promoting or taking official action as it relates to diversity, equity, and inclusion …โ
The legislation is being used to impose restrictions on funding events that exclude โ whereas the eventsโ true purpose is to uplift already marginalized groups.
โWomenfest lost it [funding] because itโs a womenโs-only event. Tropical Heat lost it because itโs a menโs-only event … thatโs how this is being applied.โ
This will not impact anything this year, Dougherty assured the Washington Blade; however, the future is not as certain.
โThe law that (Republican Florida) Gov. DeSantis signed does not go into effect until Jan. 1, so for 2026 weโre okay,โ Dougherty told the Blade. โBut it impacts Key West Pride 2027, it impacts Tropical Heat 2027 and Womenfest โ so we have lost all funding for those three events.โ
He said that this will amount to a large chunk of the expected funding for the LGBTQ celebrations, which the Key West tourism board says is โinternationally known as a gay mecca.โ
โWeโre due to lose about $200,000. Not all of that is direct, but the way that the Tourist Development Council (TDC) distributes their money, about $75,000 of it is for Key West Pride, and that helps to pay for things like marketing, swag, and other things that promote the event.โ
He went on to explain that marketing to many major metropolitan areas with large LGBTQ populations may not see the same Key West advertisements and push as in years past โ and that is the point.
โOur digital marketing, our print marketing, our SEO marketing โ all of that is paid for through there, and it targets places with direct flights like Washington, D.C., New York, Philly, Atlanta, Dallas. So itโs definitely going to impact that.โ
The money that will stop coming is not just to run events and celebrations, he explained. Money that goes back directly into the community is going to be hardest hit.
โAn estimated 250,000 LGBTQ+ travelers make it to Key West on an annual basis, and on a very conservative basis, for every LGBTQ+ person there are two to four allies traveling with the same values.โ
โThe TDC also estimates that $1,500+ is spent per person per visit … so if you take those figures and multiply those all together, it comes up to about $1.2 billion … that is potentially going to be lost.โ
He says that this will intrinsically change how Key Westโs tourism โ especially the large LGBTQ side of it โ will run, especially since gay vacations need a foundation and expectation of safety and support to blossom.
โWe travel based upon where we feel most welcome,โ Dougherty said. โKey West has always been its own little place … the LGBTQ+ history of Key West and everything about Key West has always been a little bit weird for people, and thatโs why they come here.โ
The Guild was formed in 1978 to encourage summer tourism and support Key Westโs gay communityย โ becoming the nationโs first LGBTQ destination marketing organization. It has grown tremendously from its original membership to now include more than 475 enterprises representing virtually every facet of the islandโs business community.
He also went on to say that this should be eye-opening for anywhere considered an LGBTQ destination, regardless of whether it is in a blue state or a red one.
โI think it can be a wake-up call across the country, because if it can happen here, it can happen anywhere.โ
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