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Sam inspires college athletes to come out

Despite progress, homophobia persists in locker rooms

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Hudson Taylor, founder of Athlete Ally, said Michael Sam has inspired many collegiate athletes to come out. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

A number of collegiate athletes have come out as gay in the months since former University of Missouri defensive end Michael Sam publicly declared his sexual orientation.

Parker Camp, a member of the University of Virginia swim team, began coming out to his family and friends earlier this year as he told Outsports.com, an LGBT sports website. He and four other teammates held a handwritten sign that read ā€œ2 of us gay. The other 3 donā€™t careā€ as part of an ad campaign promoting diversity.

Derrick Gordon of the University of Massachusetts in April became the first member of a NCAA Division 1 basketball team to come out as gay. Connor Mertens, a kicker for the Willamette University football team in Oregon, in June publicly acknowledged his bisexuality.

Edward ā€œChipā€ Sarafin, a backup senior offensive lineman for Arizona State University, earlier this month told Compete, a Phoenix-based sports magazine, that he began coming out to his teammates last year.

ā€œIt was really personal to me, and it benefited my peace of mind greatly,ā€ he told Compete.

Hudson Taylor, founder of Athlete Ally, a group that advocates for LGBT athletes, told the Washington Blade during a recent telephone interview he feels Sam has inspired many collegiate athletes.

ā€œ[He] has walked in the shoes of every closeted athlete and every closeted athlete is walking in Michael Samā€™s shoes,ā€ he said. ā€œAs Michael has a successful career and has come out without incident, I think it shows that next generation of athletes that sport is a welcoming environment for them to be themselves.ā€

Helen Carroll, director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights Sports Project, agreed.

ā€œThey can see positive things happening with those people,ā€ said Carroll. ā€œThat can even be just a college student coming out, their coming out story and their teammates accept them and their coach is accepting.ā€

Challenges remain for collegiate athletes who are considering coming out.

Carroll said homophobic comments in the locker room persist and may deter collegiate athletes from publicly disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity and expression. She also referred to what she described as ā€œold-school coachesā€ who discourage their players from coming out until they graduate.

ā€œThereā€™s still that out there in a lot of places,ā€ Carroll told the Blade.

The case of former Penn State womenā€™s basketball coach Rene Portland remains among the most high-profile examples of anti-LGBT discrimination in collegiate sports.

A former player, Jennifer Harris, accused Portland in a 2005 lawsuit of having a ā€œno-lesbianā€ policy and trying to force her to quit the team, even though she is not gay.

Harris also sued then-Penn State Athletics Director Tim Curley, who is among the former university administrators facing charges for allegedly covering up sex-abuse allegations against former assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky.

She reached a confidential settlement with Portland and Curley in 2007.

Penn State later fined Portland $10,000 and ordered her to take a diversity-sensitivity class after the university settled with Harris.

Portland resigned in 2007 after 27 seasons.

ā€œWeā€™re not as likely to see a case like that, but I am sure somewhere across the nation there are more Rene Portlandā€™s out there,ā€ said Carroll.

Other cases have generated headlines over the past year.

Anthony Villarreal, a former track runner at William Jessup University, a Christian university outside of Sacramento, Calif., said school administrators expelled him last year because he is gay. Leah Johnson last month told Outsports.com an assistant coach at the University of Richmond in Virginia told her to break up with her girlfriend, Miah Register, ā€œbefore she steps foot on this campusā€ to play for the team.

In spite of these cases and others like them, Carroll and Taylor maintain more collegiate athletes will come out. And they both look to the way the University of Missouri handled Samā€™s decision to publicly disclose his sexual orientation as an example of how they feel administrators and coaches should handle it.

ā€œMichael Sam was out for a good period of time before the world knew about it,ā€ Taylor told the Blade. ā€œIt seemed like it didnā€™t matter one bit to his teammates, to his coaches or to the Missouri family. Missouri did a great job and really showed that they are a welcoming environment for LGBT athletes.ā€

 

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PHOTOS: Taste of Point

Annual fundraiser held for LGBTQ youth scholarship, mentorship organization

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Taste of Point DC (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The Point Foundation held its annual Taste of Point fundraiser at Room & Board on May 2.

(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)

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Miss Kitty tackles classical mythology in ā€˜Metamorphosesā€™

Folger production seen through the lens of the African diaspora

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Miss Kitty (Photo by Sarah Laughland Photography)

ā€˜Metamorphosesā€™
May 7-June 16
Folger Theatre
201 East Capitol St., S.E.
$20-$84
Folger.edu

Miss Kittyā€™s words are thoughtful and measured, occasionally punctuated by flamboyant flourishes and uplifting proclamations. Her tried and tested tagline is ā€œlive in fierce not fear.ā€Ā 

She describes herself as ā€œAMAB (assigned male at birth), nonbinary, genderqueer, transfemmeā€ as well as ā€œchanteuse, noble blacktress, and dancer.ā€ 

Currently, Miss Kitty is testing her talents in Mary Zimmermanā€™s ā€œMetamorphosesā€ at Folger Theatre on Capitol Hill. 

At 90 minutes, ā€œMetamorphoses,ā€ is made up of interwoven vignettes from classical mythology including the tales of Midas and his daughter, Alcyone and Ceyx, and Eros and Psyche. 

ā€œItā€™s all stories that relate to the human condition: the follies, the happiness, the love, the loss,ā€ Miss Kitty explains. ā€œAnd a thorough knowledge of mythology isnā€™t a requirement for enjoyment.ā€ 

The language is contemporary and with its 11-person ensemble cast ā€“ comprised exclusively of Black or indigenous people of color ā€“ theyā€™re adding their own spin to its present-day feel, she adds. 

In Zimmermanā€™s famously staged premiere production, the actors performed in and around a pool of water. At Folger, director Psalmayene 24 has ditched actual aquatics; instead, he suggests the element by introducing Water Nymph, a new character constructed around Miss Kitty. 

Water Nymph doesnā€™t speak, but sheā€™s very visible from the opening number and throughout the play on stage and popping up in unexpected places around the venue. 

ā€œItā€™s a lot of dancing; I havenā€™t danced the way Tony Thomas is choreographing me in a very long time. At 40, can she still make theater with just my body as her instrument?

The name ā€œMiss Kittyā€ was born over a decade ago. 

Miss Kitty recalls, ā€œShe was still presenting as male and going by her dead name. Someone commented that with the wig she was wearing for a part, she looked like Eartha Kitt whom she deeply admires.ā€

Her penchant for illeism (referring to oneself in third person) isnā€™t without good reason. She explains, ā€œItā€™s to reiterate that however she might look, sheā€™s always there; and if you misgender, she will let you know.ā€

Initially, the moniker was a drag persona at Capital Pride or the occasional fabulous cabaret performance at a nightclub.

But as time passed, she realized that Miss Kitty was something she couldnā€™t take off. She had always been a part of her. 

ā€œSheā€™s helped me to grow and flourish; sheā€™s given me the strength that I never would have had before. Iā€™m so proud of myself for realizing that before it was too late.ā€ 

Bringing Miss Kitty into her theatrical career presented some concerns. Would theater folks be open to the new her, especially those sheā€™d worked with before? 

Not always, but sheā€™s found new companies whoā€™ve welcomed Miss Kitty with open arms including Avant Bard, Spooky Action Theater, and now Folger. 

Last fall, Miss Kitty appeared in Spooky Actionā€™s Agreste (Drylands), a stunning queer story penned by gay Brazilian playwright Newton Moreno. 

After being invited to audition and reading the script, Miss Kitty was determined to be a part of the production. 

A work dealing with love and being trans, and transphobia, and how people can turn on a dime once they learn the truth about someone, resonated deeply with the actor. 

ā€œThe play speaks to the idea that if people just let people be who they are and love who they want to love weā€™d all be a lot happier,ā€ she says. 

For her sublime efforts, Miss Kitty nabbed a Helen Hayes Award nomination in the Outstanding Lead Performer category (winner to be determined on Monday, May 20 during a ceremony at The Anthem). 

Itā€™s her first time nominated and first time attending. Sheā€™s thrilled. 

Miss Kitty grew up in Oxen Hill, Md., and now lives near Washington Harbor. Her entry into performance was through music followed by high school plays. She graduated from Catholic University with a degree in music/concentration in musical theater, and from there dove directly into showbiz. 

Looking back, Miss Kitty says, ā€œbeing a person of color AND queer can be a double whammy of difficulty. You have to live in light and do the things youā€™re afraid to do. Thatā€™s the game changer.ā€ 

Presenting ā€œMetamorphosesā€ through the lens of the African diaspora (the cast also includes Jon Hudson Odom and Billie Krishawn, among others) helps us to realize that every story can be universal, especially for marginalized people ā€” South Asian, Native American, or fully queer perspectives, she says.  

ā€œHaving an all-Black ensemble opens all new worlds for everyone.ā€

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Pride journey: Las Vegas

Start planning now for the October celebrations

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Las Vegas (Photo courtesy of Joey Amato)

Las Vegas, known for its vibrant and inclusive atmosphere, embraces LGBTQ culture with open arms, making it a thriving hub for the community. Iconic events like the annual Las Vegas Pride Parade and Festival bring together people from all walks of life to celebrate diversity and unity. The 2024 Las Vegas Pride festival is scheduled for Oct. 12, so start planning now.

The city’s commitment to inclusivity is reflected in the diverse range of LGBTQ-friendly accommodations, ensuring that visitors feel welcome and respected. Beyond the nightlife, Las Vegas hosts a variety of LGBTQ-focused community organizations, support groups, and cultural events that contribute to the rich tapestry of the city’s inclusive ethos. Whether exploring the famous entertainment offerings or participating in community-driven initiatives, LGBTQ individuals and allies alike find a warm and accepting home in the vibrant tapestry of LGBTQ culture in Las Vegas.

Ever since I was young, I have always wanted to stay at Bellagio. Its iconic foundations have fascinated me for decades. The hotel stands as an epitome of luxury and sophistication, offering an unparalleled experience that seamlessly blends opulence, entertainment, and fine dining. From the moment you step into the grand lobby, it’s evident that Bellagio is committed to providing a world-class stay, especially when you glance at the ceiling adorned with Chihuly glass sculptures.

I stayed in a recently renovated room in the Spa Tower with an unobstructed view of the Vegas Strip and the fountains. The attention to detail is evident in the tasteful decor, plush furnishings, and modern amenities. Beginning at 3 p.m. on weekdays and noon on weekends, the choreographed water show set against the backdrop of the Las Vegas Strip is a mesmerizing display of artistry, combining music, light, and water in perfect harmony. It sets the tone for the exquisite experiences that await within Bellagio.

Bellagio is also home to the famous Conservatory and Botanical Gardens, a lush oasis that undergoes seasonal transformations, displaying stunning floral displays and thematic installations. This botanical escape provides a serene contrast to the lively atmosphere of the casino and the bustling Strip. During our stay, the staff were completing the new springtime exhibition, which gave us Alice in Wonderland vibes. 

For those seeking entertainment, Bellagio offers the spectacular “O” by Cirque du Soleil, a water-themed extravaganza that complements the hotel’s overall theme. Bellagio Gallery of Fine Art is another cultural gem within the hotel, featuring rotating exhibitions that display masterpieces from around the world.

Although it is possible to never leave the hotel, we wanted to experience other MGM Resorts properties, so we headed to LPM at the Cosmopolitan of Las Vegas for dinner. LPM offers an exquisite dining experience that effortlessly marries Mediterranean charm with the vibrant energy of the Strip. From the moment you step through the entrance, you are greeted by an ambiance that strikes a perfect balance between sophistication and conviviality.

LPM’s interior is a visual feast, adorned with chic decor, warm lighting, and an intimate atmosphere. The combination of contemporary design elements and classic French accents creates a welcoming space that feels both elegant and comfortable. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion or seeking a romantic dinner, LPM’s ambiance sets the stage for an unforgettable dining experience.

LPM’s menu is a culinary triumph, highlighting the rich and diverse flavors of the French Riviera. The emphasis on fresh, high-quality ingredients is evident in every dish. We began our meal with a variety of appetizers, including the Yellowtail Carpaccio, Escargots, and their signature Burrata prepared with heritage tomatoes and basil and topped with white truffles. For our main courses, we decided to focus on seafood entrees, so we tried the Lobster Risotto and grilled Chilean Bass. Both were prepared to perfection and paired very well together if you are looking to share entrees.

Of course, one of the biggest attractions of Las Vegas is the Strip itself. Spend a few hours meandering through each hotel and taking in the Vegas vibe. There is no other place in the world quite like it.

If you are in the mood for a little adventure, head to Area15, located about 10 minutes from the strip. Area15 is an immersive entertainment complex that blends art, technology, and entertainment in a unique and captivating way. Boasting an otherworldly exterior and a dynamic interior, Area15 is home to a variety of innovative experiences, including interactive art installations and virtual reality adventures. Its anchor tenant, the Meow Wolf’s Omega Mart, is a surreal supermarket-like environment filled with mind-bending art and hidden mysteries. The venue also hosts concerts and live events including Beyond Brunch, a variety show hosted by drag queen extraordinaire Andrew Ryan. The two-hour spectacle includes a wonderful buffet and performances by talented acts ranging from hoop dancers to Cirque-style entertainers. The show is well worth the price of admission; it is not your typical drag brunch.

Spend the afternoon touring Area15 or head to The Sphere, Las Vegasā€™s newest concert venue. Rock icons U2 opened the venue with a 40-night run, but guests can purchase tickets to Darren Aronofsky’s multi-sensory film ā€œPostcard from Earth.ā€

For a trip down memory lane, especially if you are in you were born in the ā€˜70s or ā€˜80s, check out Retro by Voltaggio at Mandalay Bay. The restaurant owned by Top Chef stars, Bryan and Michael Voltaggio, takes diners on a nostalgic journey through time, blending modern culinary techniques with comforting flavors reminiscent of classic American dishes set in a retro-chic environment. The space is adorned with quirky memorabilia, neon accents, and a colorful palette that captures a sense of nostalgia without feeling overly kitschy, creating a welcoming environment for diners to unwind and enjoy the culinary adventure.

Retro by Voltaggio’s menu is a playful exploration of classic American favorites. We started our dinner with the deviled eggs with smoked trout roe along with the beet steak tartare, which was incredible. Next came the bluefin tuna ceviche served over coconut crushed ice. For our entrees we tried the trout meuniere, which was served in a lemon and caper sauce, as well as the lobster thermidor with lobster waffles ā€” yes, you read that correctly. It was as delicious as it sounds.

Save room for the dessert cart, which contains innovative creations that satisfy the sweet tooth. Whether you’re a fan of nostalgic flavors or simply seeking a unique and enjoyable meal, Retro by Voltaggio is worth the visit.

After dinner, catch a performance of Michael Jackson ā€œONEā€ by Cirque du Soleil also at Mandalay Bay. The show is a captivating tribute to the King of Pop that seamlessly blends the magic of Cirque du Soleil with the timeless music and iconic choreography of Michael Jackson. From the moment the lights dim to the final bow, the show is a high-energy, emotionally charged celebration of the legendary entertainer’s life and legacy. This isnā€™t your typical Cirque du Soleil show and is more like a concert featuring all of Michaelā€™s greatest hits, memorable dance moves, and state-of-the-art production. I felt like ā€œONEā€ is the type of concert Michael would have wanted to perform if he were still with us.

The thing I like most about Vegas is it is always evolving. Every time you visit, there is something new to see or do. Viva Las Vegas!

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