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Queery: Mikey Torres

The Glitterlust lead singer answers 20 gay questions

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Mikey Torres (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Mikey Torres (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Mikey Torres and his boyfriend of five years Dan Sherwood are both into music, albeit of wildly different varieties — Torres is the front man of local band Glitterlust, a queer outfit he says is a cross between Marilyn Manson and Scissor Sisters. Sherwood is an opera singer.

“We don’t perform together or collaborate musically,” Torres says with a laugh. “He tries to educate me on things whereas I taught myself every instrument I know. He’s much more a musician. I see myself as an entertainer where it’s all about music, sets and costumes. In the band, we don’t take ourselves too seriously.”

Glitterlust, which formed last April and debuted at last year’s Phase Fest, is Torres, lesbian guitarist Liz Wooley and bi bassist Chris Roudiez. They perform mostly Torres’ originals but occasionally do covers. They have two upcoming appearances — look for them at Homopolitan at Velvet Lounge (915 U St., N.W.) on Feb. 18 where they’ll co-headline with burlesque outfit D.C. Gurley Show and lesbian R&B group the CooLots (Doors at 8, show at 9; $8 tickets available at the door, 21 and up). And on Thursday they’ll open ’80s night at Chief Ike’s Mambo Room (1725 Columbia Rd., N.W.) at 8 p.m.

Torres says he likes to explore the nuances of gay life, especially sex, from a queer perspective.

“I think it’s an artist’s job to question what’s put out there for us,” he says. “Ultimately art is not a statement, it’s a question mark. You can’t close everybody in the hetero-normative bubble.”

The band put out an EP last year called “Beautiful Noise” on Band Camp. They’re working on an indie album — tentatively called “Chaos Magic” — for release this year. All three members work day jobs — Torres is sous chef at Dupont Circle hotel The Beacon. They play in the region about three times per month.

“If success comes, we certainly won’t turn it down but I think we’re really lucky to live in a time when the record contract is not the ultimate goal,” he says.

Torres and Sherwood live together in Oxon Hill, Md. Torres enjoys music, cooking, sewing, crafts and “anything creative,” he says.

“I’m sort of a punk rock Martha Stewart.”

(Blade photos by Michael Key)

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I’ve been out pretty much my whole life, I wasn’t born, I sauntered out of the womb! The hardest person to tell was myself.

Who’s your LGBT hero?

Probably John Waters, while I love his sense of humor and creative quirkiness, he continues to be a pioneer and push the boundaries of American culture and cinema.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

Past, I’d say The Edge circa 2000-2002, I was a big raver back then and that club picked up where Tracks left off. Present, the 9:30 club, I’ve seen shows in there that have literally changed me as a person.

Describe your dream wedding.

I don’t really think I’ll ever get married, but if I did, it would be an 80’s-themed wedding with drag queen ushers dressed as ’80s icons like Molly Ringwald, ’80s Madonna and Boy George!

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about

Agriculture and food processing/labeling in America. I think we should tax junk food, soda and fast food and it should be illegal to sell those items in the public school system.

What historical outcome would you change?

The birth of Jesus. While I think all religions begin with the best intentions, as a gay person I also believe that religion has done far more harm than good to our community. I understand that most of the time it’s the extremists who are misinterpreting the context, however I think society as a whole would be far more evolved if we put our faith into science and art.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

The acquittal of Michael Jackson in 2005. I was working as a bartender at a chain restaurant at the time and all the TVs were on when it was announced. All the black people in the bar cheered while most of the white people protested and sneered. It was the first time I’d seen such direct and unapologetic racism.

On what do you insist?

Good manners and punctuality.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

“Back from Vegas, I’d tell you all about it, but you know what they say!”

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

Larger than life is just the right size”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Feel pity for those not strong enough to endure their true nature.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

I believe that if there is a “God,” then it is an artist. I think to be creative is the closest you can get to really understanding God. I also believe that morality is a personal issue not a spiritual one. I don’t think any “spiritual” person has the right to tell you having sex or doing drugs is wrong.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

To stop being afraid of offending some people. There are some great LGBT leaders out there, but most of them seem to be walking on political eggshells. We’re so worried about being seen as “normal,” the Human Rights Campaign wants the right wing to see us as heteronormative, monogamous white-picket fence-type families. I think it’s great that those types of gay families are out there, but we shouldn’t have to adapt to that ideal to get equal rights. There are plenty of successful non-monogamous couples, triads, open relationships, non-traditional families that are probably more “normal” and well adjusted than most straight families.

What would you walk across hot coals for?

The chance to go into space!

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

When someone thinks that because I’m gay I won’t fight back when you call me fag. I’m from P.G. County, I’m not afraid to stand up for myself.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

“The Trip.” I love how they weave in footage from critical moments in gay history.

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Saying “bless you” when someone sneezes. Just say “Shut up!”

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

Not really a prize, but I’d love to go on tour with my band and see the world while entertaining people.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

Nothing. I think that everything happens for a reason and if you’re happy with where you are, you can’t bitch about how you got there!

Why Washington?

The more I travel, the more I realize how great D.C. is! We have so much history but also constantly evolving culture. In one day you can see the monuments, eat amazing Ethiopian food and see a great drag show! I love all the culture here, how you can meet people from all backgrounds and everyone has a story.

 

 

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DC Center marks one year at new location

Milestone celebrated with tours, programming

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The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center opened in its new location last April. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center is marking a milestone year in its new home with a vibrant birthday celebration, inviting the community, allies, and media to join the festivities on Saturday, April 25 at 1 p.m.

Since opening its doors in Shaw, The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center has become a hub of support, advocacy, and celebration for LGBTQ+ residents across the District.

The birthday bash promises a day of programming including Yoga (Center Wellness), Micro Bouquet Making (Center Social), Zine Making (Center Arts), and so much more. Guests can also enjoy tours of the Center’s expanded facilities, showcasing spaces for programs, services, and community events.

Since relocating, the Center has expanded its programs, providing critical services. The birthday bash underscores the DC LGBTQ+ Community Center’s commitment to creating an inclusive space where everyone regardless of identity, age, or background can find community and empowerment.

For more details, contact Paul Marengo at 202-705-2890.

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LGBTQ events in the days to come

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Friday, April 24

Center Aging Monthly Luncheon With Yoga will be at 12 p.m. at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. Email Mac at [email protected] if you require ASL interpreter assistance, have any dietary restrictions, or questions about this event.

Lesbian Visibility Week will be at 7 p.m. at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. There will be a special screening of “Ahead of the Curve.” Enjoy an evening of film, conversation, and community, with cocktails and beverages available throughout the night For more details, visit the DC Center’s website

Trans Discussion Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This event is intended to provide an emotionally and physically safe space for trans people and those who may be questioning their gender identity/expression to join together in community and learn from one another. For more details, email [email protected].

Saturday, April 25

Go Gay DC will host “LGBTQ+ Community Brunch” at 11 a.m. at Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant. This fun weekly event brings the DMV area LGBTQ+ community, including allies, together for delicious food and conversation.  Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite

Sunday, April 26

Nellie’s Sports Bar will host “Nellie’s DC Drag Brunch” at 12 p.m. Join Sapphire Blue, Deja Diamond and their team of drag performers for the most fun you’ll have all weekend. Tickets start at $58.51 and are available on Eventbrite

LGBTQ+ Community Coffee and Conversation will be at 12 p.m. at As You Are. This event is for people looking to make more friends and meaningful connections in the LGBTQ community. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite

Monday, April 27

“Center Aging: Monday Coffee Klatch” will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ+ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more information, contact Adam ([email protected]).

Genderqueer DC will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a support group for people who identify outside of the gender binary, whether you’re bigender, agender, genderfluid, or just know that you’re not 100% cis. For more details, visit genderqueerdc.org or Facebook

Tuesday, April 28

The DC Center for the LGBT Community will host “Candlelight Vigil” at 6:30 p.m. This is a vigil centered on reflection, support, and collective care. Attendees are encouraged to gather at 6:30 p.m., with the program beginning promptly at 7 p.m. and concluding by 8 p.m. The event will take place on the closed-off  Wiltberger Street, providing a dedicated and intimate space for remembrance. Electronic candle lights will be available to participants. For those seeking additional support or who have questions ahead of the event, please contact [email protected]

Wednesday, April 29

Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom upon request. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking — allowing participants to move away from being merely “applicants” toward being “candidates.” For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.

The DC Center for the LGBT Community will host “Movement for Healing” at 3 p.m. This trauma- and yoga therapy–informed class is designed to help guests gently reconnect with their body and their breath. Through mindful movement, somatic awareness, and grounding practices, guests will explore how to release tension, increase mobility, and cultivate a deeper sense of safety and ease within. For more details, visit the DC Center’s website

Thursday, April 30

The DC Center’s Fresh Produce Program will be held all day at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. People will be informed on Wednesday at 5 p.m. if they are picked to receive a produce box. No proof of residency or income is required. For more information, email [email protected] or call 202-682-2245. 

Virtual Yoga Class will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This free weekly class is a combination of yoga, breathwork and meditation that allows LGBTQ+ community members to continue their healing journey with somatic and mindfulness practices. For more details, visit the DC Center’s website.  

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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2

Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’

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Loraine Hutchins died last year. (File photo courtesy of Hutchins)

The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m. 

Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com. 

An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all. 

Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.

In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”

“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.

“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”

“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”

“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day. 

Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.  

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