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Anti-gay graffiti spray painted on home of Rehoboth couple

State Police fail to list incident as hate crime

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CAMP Rehoboth’s Steve Elkins described the graffiti as containing ‘vile homophobic slurs.’ (Washington Blade file photo by Damien Salas)

An LGBT rights advocate in Rehoboth Beach, Del., has expressed concern that Delaware State Police chose not to designate as a hate crime a Sept. 23 incident in which anti-gay messages were spray painted on the house of a gay couple.

Steve Elkins, executive director of CAMP Rehoboth, an LGBT community center, told the Washington Blade that he saw photos of the graffiti spray painted in several places on the couple’s rented house. He said the messages were definitely “crude and homophobic.”

Master Corp. Gary Fournier of the State Police told the Blade in an email that an unidentified suspect or suspects spray painted “obscene gestures and words” on the house and a vehicle parked in the driveway on the 19000 block of John J. Williams Highway, which is near Delaware Coastal Highway 1 outside the Rehoboth Beach City limits.

Fournier said State Police have designated the incident as a case of criminal mischief and trespass.

“The investigation into this incident is on-going and is not being investigated as a hate crime,” he said.

He declined to disclose what the spray painted messages said or what the “obscene gestures” depicted. He also declined to say why police don’t believe the incident is a hate crime.

Gene Harris, one of the two men who live in the house, told WRDE TV News that he and his partner woke up about 8 a.m. on Sept. 24 and discovered what he called hate fueled messages scrawled on their home.

The Cape Gazette, a Rehoboth-area newspaper, published two photos showing graffiti painted in several places on the exterior walls, the roof, and the garage door of the house. The photos were not taken close enough to show what the graffiti depicted.

“It took us back 20 or 30 years to a feeling of shame and humiliation and somehow embarrassment – yes embarrassment,” Harris told the TV news station.

Elkins, who also spoke to the TV news station, told the reporter in an on-camera interview that he viewed the incident as a hate crime.

“It’s pretty scary to see what was painted not only on the front of the home but all around the house,” he said. “And even on…a car that belonged to a friend of theirs was sprayed with some vile homophobic slurs,” Elkins said in the TV interview.

“It made me sick to my stomach to see it,” he said.

Elkins told the Blade that among the words sprayed on the house was “cock sucker.”

Jason Miller, a spokesperson for the Delaware Attorney General’s Office, said the office was aware of the incident and was monitoring the police investigation. He said that if an arrest is made the Attorney General’s office would make an independent decision on what charge should be filed against the person or persons arrested.

“Through our own review of the case, we can upgrade the charges,” he said, adding that his office would list the incident as a hate crime if it determines such a charge is warranted.

The Delaware News Journal reported that the house in which the two gay men live is owned by Sussex County Council member Joan Deaver, who lives in a nearby house.

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Milton Pride Fest to take place Saturday

This year’s theme is ‘Small Town, Big Heart’

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Milton, Del., will host its Pride Fest this Saturday with the theme “Small Town, Big Heart.” The town’s population of just over 3,000 is in its sixth year hosting Pride. 

The event is hosted by Sussex Pride and Milton Theatre and will take place from 4-8 p.m. in the area surrounding the theater. Admission is pay-what-you-can and proceeds will support the Milton Theatre’s education wing campaign, an initiative dedicated to expanding arts education and creating spaces for the next generation of performers and artists. 

The musical act schedule includes Goldstar at 4 p.m., Magnolia Applebottom and Friends at 5:30 p.m., and Mama’s Blacksheep at 6:45 p.m. There will be vendors, food trucks, and a Kids Fest with an inflatable obstacle course. 

“In our little corner of the world, LOVE leads the way! Milton Pride 2025 is a celebration for EVERYONE — neighbors, families, allies, and friends — because acceptance, kindness, and community belong to us all,” Milton Theatre’s website reads. “Whether you’re here to cheer, learn, or simply feel the joy … you’re welcome exactly as you are. Let’s come together and celebrate Milton, a SMALL TOWN … with a BIG HEART!”

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Drive with Pride in D.C.

A new Pride-themed license plate is now available in the District, with proceeds directly benefiting local LGBTQ organizations.

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A sample of the license plate with the "Progressive" Pride flag. (Screenshot from the DCDMV website)

Just in time for Pride month, the D.C. Department of Motor Vehicles has partnered with the Mayor’s Office of LGBTQ Affairs to create a special “Pride Lives Here” license plate.

The plate, which was initially unveiled in February, has a one-time $25 application fee and a $20 annual display fee. Both fees will go directly to the Office of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Affairs Fund.

The MOLGBTQA Fund provides $1,000,000 annually to 25,000 residents through its grant program, funding a slew of LGBTQ organizations in the DMV area — including Capital Pride Alliance, Whitman-Walker, the D.C. Center for the LGBTQ Community, and the Washington Blade Foundation.

The license plate features an inclusive rainbow flag wrapping around the license numbers, with silver stars in the background — a tribute to both D.C.’s robust queer community and the resilience the LGBTQ community has shown.

The “Pride Lives Here” plate is one of only 13 specialty plates offered in the District, and the only one whose fees go directly to the LGBTQ community.

To apply for a Pride plate, visit the DC DMV’s website at https://dmv.dc.gov/

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Delawareans march in D.C. WorldPride parade

CAMP Rehoboth contingent among marchers

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The nation’s capital welcomed WorldPride this past weekend, a massive celebration that usually takes place in a different city every two years. 

The Saturday parade attracted hundreds of thousands of people from around the world and the country. The state of Delaware, a few hours drive from D.C., saw participants in the parade, with CAMP Rehoboth, an LGBTQ community center in Rehoboth Beach, hosting a bus day trip. 

Hope Vella sits on the board of directors and marched with CAMP Rehoboth. Vella said that although the parade took a long time to start and the temperature was hot, she was “on a cloud” from being there. 

“It didn’t matter to me how long it took to start. With the current changes that are in place regarding diversity and inclusion, I wanted my face there,” Vella said. “My life is an intersection. I am a Black woman. I am a lesbian, and I have a disability. All of these things are trying to be erased … I didn’t care how long it took. I didn’t care how far it was going to be. I was going to finish that parade. I didn’t care how hot it was.”

The nearly two mile parade route didn’t feel as long because everyone was so happy interacting with the crowd, Vella said. The group gave out beads, buttons, and pins to parade watchers. 

“The World Pride celebration gave me hope because so many people came out. And the joy and the love that was between us … That gave me hope,” Vella said. 

Vella said that people with disabilities are often overlooked. More than one in four Americans have disabilities, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

Vella said it was important for her “to be out there and to be seen in my wholeness as a Black woman, as a lesbian, as a woman with a disability and to not be hiding. I want our society to understand that we exist in LGBTQ+ spaces also.”

Retired Maj. Gen. Tammy Smith is involved with CAMP Rehoboth and marched with a coalition of LGBTQ military members. Smith said they were walking to give transgender military members visibility and to remind people why they are serving. 

“When we are not visible, what is allowed to take our place is stereotypes,” Smith said. “And so without visibility, people think all veterans are conservative and perhaps not open to full equality. Without visibility, they might think a small state with a farming background may be a place that’s unwelcoming, but when you actually meet the people who are from those places, it sets aside those stereotypes and the real authenticity is allowed to come forward.”

During the parade, Smith said she saw trans military members in the parade make eye contact or fist bump with transgender people in the crowd. 

“They were seen. Both sides were seen during that parade and I just felt privileged to be able to witness that,” Smith said. 

Smith said Delaware is a state that is about freedom and equality and is the first state for a reason. The LGBTQ community is engrained as part of life in the Rehoboth and Lewes areas. 

“What pride means to me is that we must always be doing what is necessary to maintain our dignity as a community,” Smith said. “We can’t let what people with negative messaging might be tossing our way impact us and the celebration of Pride. I don’t see it as being self-promoting. I see it as an act of dignity and strength.”

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