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QUEERY: Jon-Michael Eclar

The 18th Street Singers member answers 20 gay questions



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Jon-Michael Eclar (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The 18th Street Singers present their concert “From Shadow to Light” next week that promises a “transcendent” musical experience designed to showcase the “meditative and sublime beauty of early music.”

The Singers, an a cappella choir of about 50 that specializes in early (i.e. pre-Baroque) music, will perform Dec. 9-10 at 7:30 p.m. each night at St. Agnes of the Ascension Church (1217 Massachusetts Ave., N.W.) featuring sacred works by Purcell, Tallis, Palestrina, Monteverdi, Pretorias and more. Tickets are $15 in advance or $20 at the door. Visit for details.

“Choral singing, to me, is like a team sport,” says 31-year-old Jon-Michael “JM” Eclar, says of the 12-year-old choir in which he sings tenor. “Everyone in the choir is working hard toward a common goal and we cannot be successful unless we all pitch in. When it finally comes together and the chords lock, it’s truly a magical experience.”

Eclar, a Chantilly, Va., native, works by day for a human resources trade association. He also leads the tenor section in the choir of Church of the Reformation on Capitol Hill.

He’s in a relationship with Brad Haas and lives in Dupont Circle. Eclar enjoys working out, running, playing in the Stonewall Kickball League and, of course, singing in his free time.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell? 

I’ve been out since my junior year in college and the hardest person to tell was the first person I ever came out to, who was my best friend and roommate. After him, coming out to my friends and family became easier and easier with every person I told.

Who’s your LGBT hero? 

RuPaul. She has been out for decades and has been nothing but herself. She inspires everyone to love yourself no matter what anybody else thinks. Be true to who you are. As she says, “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love somebody else?” And yes, I can get an AMEN up in here.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

Go see a free show at the Kennedy Center Millennium Stage at 6 p.m. After that, take the elevator to the terrace and watch the sunset across the Potomac. I’m a hopeless romantic, what can I say?

Describe your dream wedding.  

I’d love for it to be an outdoor wedding with my closest friends and our families. I imagine it somewhere idyllic near a mountain range, like Appalachia.

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about? 

Arts education, arts integration and arts advocacy. The arts should be a required curriculum in the classroom, like science, math and other disciplines. Studies show that the arts and humanities cultivate creativity, a love for learning, motivation, cognitive development and teamwork among countless other reasons. Unfortunately, arts programs across our country are being severely reduced or cut entirely. Do your part by contacting your respective member of congress, talk to school leaders and volunteer your time.

What historical outcome would you change? 

I’m going to go out on a limb, but can we get a restart to all of 2016?

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime? 

Singing at Joe Biden’s holiday party and then meeting him afterwards. We chatted about our alma mater (Go ‘Cuse!), snow and the Adirondacks. The second most memorable moment was when my friend surprised me with house tickets to see “Hamilton” in New York City, which was life-changing.

On what do you insist? 

Kindness and a good sense of humor. Life is too short to be a jerk and take it so seriously.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet? 

My choir (18th Street Singers) concert on December 9-10 at Church of the Ascension and St. Agnes!

If your life were a book, what would the title be? 

“I Got 99 Problems, but My Pitch Ain’t One”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do? 

Not a goddamn thing. It has taken me some time to fully appreciate and love who I am. Being gay is a huge part of my identity and I wouldn’t change that for the world.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?

Just like on (Netflix show) “Stranger Things,” I believe in the Upside Down. RIP Barb.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders? 

To take a quote from Hillary’s recent speech, “Never stop believing that fighting for what’s right is worth it.” With this recent election, we need to make sure that we don’t regress to what our community has worked so hard to achieve.

What would you walk across hot coals for?

My friends and family. Walt. Brad.

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most? 

That gaysian men are all submissive bottoms. Yeah, I’ll say it. It’s not true — we’re not all submissive. OK, OK, that was a joke. But in all seriousness, I think the fact that we have stereotypes to begin with is problematic. The beautiful thing about our community is that we are a diverse myriad of personalities! Don’t pigeonhole us into specific stereotypes that don’t apply to all.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie? 

“Paris is Burning.” Still t’werkin on that death drop, though. I’ll get it someday. Sigh.

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Going to a concert and everyone has their phone out recording a video or taking pictures. Enjoy and just live in the moment.

What trophy or prize do you most covet? 

When I was 23, I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. I had surgery to remove my thyroid, which left a scar across the base of my neck. To me, that scar represents overcoming adversity and my new lease on life.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

Maybe you should have gone to that state school instead of maybe that expensive private college institution.

Why Washington? 

Because Washington offers the best of a big city without feeling so overwhelmed. Great neighborhood bars and restaurants. Plenty of green space to roam around outside. And bike lanes. Yes, bike lanes.

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Baltimore DJ on using music as a bridge to combat discrimination

Deezy brings high-energy show to the Admiral on Jan. 28



DJ Deezy has hosted multiple events in D.C. and Baltimore. (Photo by Carlos Polk from We Dream Photography and Studios)

A Baltimore DJ will conclude a month of performances in Baltimore and Washington, D.C. clubs this Friday, Jan. 28, according to the artist’s management. DJ Deezy is set to perform at the Admiral in D.C. at 9 p.m. 

Since the year began, Deezy has hosted electric events at clubs such as Hawthorne DC, DuPont and the Baltimore Eagle Bar & Nightclub. 

The Washington Blade sat down with the DJ to discuss the course of her career. 

The beginning of DJ Deezy’s infatuation with music dates back to her childhood spent between her mother’s house in Baltimore City and her father’s house in the suburbs. 

In Baltimore, Deezy was exposed to the local rap and raw hip-hop scene that inspired her to embark on a rap career in high school. 

Concurrently, she was entrenched in Motown and classic rock by virtue of her singer, songwriter, and guitarist father Ron Daughton’s involvement in a classic rock band. He is a member of “The Dalton Gang” and was inducted into the Maryland Entertainment Hall of Fame in 2015.

“Before I embarked on my DJ journey, my father let me record ‘a little 16’ on his tape recorder,” said Deezy. “Eventually, he bought me a wireless microphone that I carried around with me to performances.”

Between her experience as a rapper and watching her father maneuver the classic rock music scene, Deezy acquired varying tastes in music that have influenced how she curates her sets today. 

She “specializes in open format vibes with spins from multiple genres including hip-hop, rap, circuit, and top 40s hits,” according to a summer 2021 press release from her management.

Deezy is also a proud member of the LGBTQ community — she identifies as a lesbian — and this also informs her approach to her work.

“I’m easily able to transition and rock the crowd because I can relate to many different backgrounds,” said Deezy. “I can DJ in places that are predominantly white, Black, or gay [and still do my job effortlessly].”

Centering community

Deezy values representation. Not only because she exists in a field dominated by men, but also because DJs who inhabit other identities aside from being men are less common in the industry. 

The scarcity of Black and lesbian DJs has prompted her to use her career as evidence that people who are different can attract audiences and succeed.

“I want to put us out there especially for Baltimore,” said Deezy. “I know that there’s Black lesbians out there doing the same thing as me, but why aren’t we getting [recognized]?”

In 2018, Deezy rented out a “Lez” lot at the Baltimore Pride block party where she set up a tent and played a set for the crowds tailgating around her. While entertaining them, she distributed her business cards — an act she believes yielded her the contact who eventually got her booked for a residency at the Baltimore Eagle.

While this was a step forward in her career, Deezy acknowledges that it wasn’t without challenges. She likened entering the Baltimore Eagle — traditionally a leather bar frequented predominantly by men —to navigating foreign territory. 

“When I first got there, I got funny looks,” she said. “There’s a lot of these guys who are like, ‘Why are you bringing a lesbian DJ to a gay bar?’”

But Deezy powered through her performance, lifted the crowd from its seats and “rocked the house [so that] no one will ever ask any questions again.” 

She admits that she’s an acquired taste but believes in her ability to play music infectious enough to draw anyone to the dance floor.  

“Feel how you want to feel about a Black lesbian DJ being in the gay bar,” said Deezy. “But music is a bridge that [will] connect us all, and you’ll forget about your original discrimination when you [experience] me.”

While Deezy has mostly performed in the DMV, she has also made appearances in Arizona where she hosted a family event and also in clubs in Atlanta and New York City. 

Her work has also attracted international attention and she was the cover star of  French publication Gmaro Magazine’s October 2021 issue

Looking to the future, Deezy’s goal is to be a tour DJ and play her sets around the world.

“I had a dream that Tamar Braxton approached me backstage at one of her concerts and asked me to be her tour DJ,” she said. “So, I’m manifesting this for myself.” 

In the meantime, Deezy will continue to liven up audiences in bars and clubs around the country while playing sets for musicians like Crystal Waters and RuPaul’s Drag Race celebrity drag queens like Alyssa Edwards, Plastique Tiara, La La Ri, Joey Jay and Eureka O’Hara — all of whom she has entertained alongside in the past. 

Outside the club, Deezy’s music can be heard in Shoe City where she created an eight-hour music mix split evenly between deep house and hip-hop and R&B. 

DJ Deezy (Photo by Carlos Polk from We Dream Photography and Studios)
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Rodriquez scores historic win at otherwise irrelevant Golden Globes

Award represents a major milestone for trans visibility



Michaela Jaé Rodriguez, on right, and Billy Porter in 'Pose.' (Photo courtesy of FX)

HOLLYWOOD – Despite its continuing status as something of a pariah organization in Hollywood, the Hollywood Foreign Press Association has managed to cling to relevance in the wake of last night’s behind-closed-doors presentation of its 79th Annual Golden Globe Awards by sole virtue of having bestowed the prize for “Best Leading Actress in a Television Series – Drama” on Michaela Jaé Rodriguez for her work in the final season of “Pose” – making her the first transgender performer to win a Golden Globe.

The ceremony took place as a private, no-press-or-audience event in which winners were revealed via a series of tweets from the Golden Globes Twitter account. No celebrities were present (not even the nominees or winners), although actress Jamie Lee Curtis participated by appearing in a video in which she pronounced her continuing loyalty to the HFPA – without mention of the  longstanding issues around diversity and ethical practices, revealed early in 2021 by a bombshell Los Angeles Times report, that have led to an nearly industry-wide boycott of the organization and its awards as well as the cancellation of the annual Golden Globes broadcast by NBC for the foreseeable future.

While the Golden Globes may have lost their luster for the time being, the award for Rodriquez represents a major milestone for trans visibility and inclusion in the traditionally transphobic entertainment industry, and for her part, the actress responded to news of her win with characteristic grace and good will.

Posting on her Instagram account, the 31-year old actress said: 

“OMG OMGGG!!!! @goldenglobes Wow! You talking about sickening birthday present! Thank you!

“This is the door that is going to Open the door for many more young talented individuals. They will see that it is more than possible. They will see that a young Black Latina girl from Newark New Jersey who had a dream, to change the minds others would WITH LOVE. LOVE WINS.

“To my young LGBTQAI babies WE ARE HERE the door is now open now reach the stars!!!!!”

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As You Are Bar and the importance of queer gathering spaces

New bar/restaurant poised to open in 2022



As You Are Bar had a pop-up venue at Capital Pride's "Colorful Fest" block party in October. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

More than just a watering hole: As You Are Bar is set to be the city’s newest queer gathering place where patrons can spill tea over late-morning cappuccinos as easily as they can over late-night vodka-sodas.

Co-owners and founders Jo McDaniel and Rachel Pike built on their extensive experience in the hospitality industry – including stints at several gay bars – to sign a lease for their new concept in Barracks Row, replacing what was previously District Soul Food and Banana Café. In a prime corner spot, they are seeking to bring together the disparate colors of the LGBTQ rainbow – but first must navigate the approval process (more on that later).

The duo decided on this Southeast neighborhood locale to increase accessibility for “the marginalized parts of our community,” they say, “bringing out the intersectionality inherent in the queer space.”

Northwest D.C., they explain, not only already has many gay bar options, but is also more difficult to get to for those who don’t live within walking distance. The Barracks Row location is right by a Metro stop, “reducing pay walls.” Plus, there, “we are able to find a neighborhood to bring in a queer presence that doesn’t exist today.”

McDaniel points out that the area has a deep queer bar history. Western bar Remington’s was once located in the area, and it’s a mere block from the former Phase 1, the longest-running lesbian bar, which was open from 1971-2015.

McDaniel and Pike hope that As You Are Bar will be an inclusive space that “welcomes anyone of any walk of life that will support, love, and celebrate the mission of queer culture. We want people of all ages, gender, sexual identity, as well as drinkers and non-drinkers, to have space.”

McDaniel (she/her) began her career at Apex in 2005 and was most recently the opening manager of ALOHO. Pike (she/they) was behind the bar and worked as security at ALOHO, where the two met.

Since leaving ALOHO earlier this year, they have pursued the As You Are Bar project, first by hosting virtual events during the pandemic, and now in this brick-and-mortar space. They expressed concern that receiving the Alcoholic Beverage Regulation Administration (ABRA) liquor license approval and the local Advisory Neighborhood Commission, or ANC, approval will be a long and expensive process.

They have already received notice that some neighbors intend to protest As You Are Bar’s application for the “tavern” liquor license that ABRA grants to serve alcohol and allow for live entertainment (e.g. drag shows). They applied for the license on Nov. 12, and have no anticipated opening date, estimating at least six months. If ABRA and the city’s Alcoholic Beverage Control Board give final approval, the local ANC 6B and nearby residents can no longer protest the license until the license comes up for renewal.

Until approval is given, they continue physical buildout (including soundproofing) and planning their offerings. If the license is approved, ABRA and the ABC Board can take action against As You Are Bar, like any bar, at any time if they violate the terms of the license or create a neighborhood disturbance that violates city laws such as the local noise ordinance.  In the kitchen, the duo snagged Chef Nina Love to develop the menu. Love will oversee café-style fare; look out for breakfast sandwiches making an appearance all the way until close. They will also have baked goods during the day.

McDaniel and Pike themselves will craft the bar menu. Importantly, they note, the coffee bar will also serve until close. There will be a full bar as well as a list of zero-proof cocktails. As with their sourcing, they hope to work with queer-, minority-, and women-owned businesses for everything not made in-house.

Flexible conceptually, they seek to grow with their customer base, allowing patrons to create the culture that they seek.

Their goal is to move the queer space away from a focus on alcohol consumption. From book clubs, to letter-writing, to shared workspaces, to dance parties, they seek an all-day, morning-to-night rhythm of youth, families, and adults to find a niche. “We want to shift the narrative of a furtive, secretive, dark gay space and hold it up to the light,” they say. “It’s a little like The Planet from the original L Word show,” they joke.

Pike notes that they plan on working closely with SMYAL, for example, to promote programming for youth. Weekend potential activities include lunch-and-learn sessions on Saturdays and festive Sunday brunches.

The café space, to be located on the first floor, will have coffeehouse-style sofas as well as workstations. A slim patio on 8th Street will hold about six tables.

Even as other queer bars have closed, they reinforce that the need is still present. “Yes, we can visit a café or bar, but we always need to have a place where we are 100 percent certain that we are safe, and that our security is paramount. Even as queer acceptance continues to grow, a dedicated queer space will always be necessary,” they say.

To get there, they continue to rally support of friends, neighbors, and leaders in ANC6B district; the ANC6B officials butted heads with District Soul Food, the previous restaurant in the space, over late-night noise and other complaints. McDaniel and Pike hope that once nearby residents and businesses understand the important contribution that As You Are Bar can make to the neighborhood, they will extend their support and allow the bar to open.

AYA, gay news, Washington Blade
Rachel Pike and Jo McDaniel signed a lease for their new concept in Barracks Row. (Photo courtesy Pike and McDaniel)
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