Arts & Entertainment
Lauper to headline HRC inaugural party
Also joining her on stage, ‘Idol’ contestant Frenchie Davis and actress Audra McDonald
An estimated 1,500 people are expected to attend the Human Rights Campaignās quadrennial inauguration celebration at the Mayflower Hotel in Northwest D.C. on Jan. 21.
Singer Cyndi Lauper will again perform at the event alongside former āAmerican Idolā contestant Frenchie Davis and the Gay Menās Chorus of Washington, Tony Award-winning actress Audra McDonald, actor Will Swenson of āPriscilla Queen of the Desertā and āHairā and Ross Mathews of āChelsea Latelyā and āThe Tonight Showā are also scheduled to attend.
āItās a varied cast,ā HRC spokesperson Fred Sainz told the Washington Blade. āItās going to be an incredibly fun program.ā
HRC President Chad Griffin is expected to deliver what Sainz described as āshort remarks.ā Politicians and other federal and elected officials from across the country are also expected to attend, but a confirmed list of attendees was not immediately available.
āItās going to be an incredibly exciting opportunity for us to really kind of celebrate how far weāve come and to then rededicate ourselves to the work ahead,ā Sainz said. āAnd within the next 6 months thereās going to be an awful lot of historic opportunities for us to propel our movement to even greater heights and this evening is really all about bringing those various opportunities together in one place.ā
The event will take place less than three months after same-sex marriage referenda passed in Maine, Maryland and Washington and Minnesota voters struck down a proposed constitutional amendment that would have banned nuptials for gays and lesbians.
Lawmakers in Illinois and Rhode Island continue to debate same-sex marriage bills, while the U.S. Supreme Court in March will hear oral arguments in cases challenging the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act and Californiaās Proposition 8.
The Virginia House of Delegates on Tuesday overwhelmingly approved the election of interim Richmond Circuit Court Judge Tracy Thorne-Begland as the stateās first openly gay jurist. Maryland legislators later this year are also expected to consider a measure that would ban anti-transgender discrimination in the workplace, housing and public accommodations.
President Obamaās supporters point to his support of marriage rights for same-sex couples, the repeal of the Pentagonās ban on openly gay and lesbian service members, the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity and expression to the federal hate crimes law and urging Uganda and other countries to protect the rights of their LGBT citizens as among his administrationās numerous accomplishments during its first term.
Advocates over the last four years have criticized the White House on a number of issues that include its refusal to issue an executive order that would ban federal contractors from discriminating against their LGBT employees and the presidentās nomination earlier this month of former Nebraska Sen. Chuck Hagel to succeed Defense Secretary Leon Panetta. Obamaās decision not to address the International AIDS Conference that took place in D.C. last July also raised eyebrows among some HIV/AIDS advocates and service providers.
āThe LGBT community has so much to celebrate with President Obama’s re-election,ā Joseph Palacios, director of the Catholics for Equality Foundation, said as he discussed his plans to attend the HRC inaugural celebration. āThis inaugural ball brings together all the key LGBT organizations in the country, so it will be a grand reunion for so many people who worked on the Obama campaign, marriage equality campaigns and the election of so many state and local officials ā especially Tammy Baldwin to the U.S. Senate.ā
Palacios added Lauper, who performed at the organizationās 2009 inaugural ball, is another draw.
āShe and the other entertainers will keep us dancing and inspiring us to keep up the fight for LGBT equality,ā he said.
Tickets to the event that includes an open bar and cocktail buffet are $375 ($275 for active duty servicemembers) and are available online. Log onto http://hrc.org/inauguration/section/entertainment#.UPbB53fAGSo for further information.
Whitman-Walker Health held the 38th annual Walk and 5K to End HIV at Anacostia Park on Saturday,Ā Dec. 7. Hundreds participated in the charity fundraiser,Ā despite temperatures below freezing. According to organizers, nearly $450,000 was raised for HIV/AIDS treatment and research.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)
The Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington performed “The Holiday Show” at Lincoln Theatre on Saturday. Future performances of the show are scheduled for Dec. 14-15. For tickets and showtimes, visit gmcw.org.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)
Books
Mother wages fight for trans daughter in new book
āBeautiful Womanā seethes with resentment, rattles bars of injustice
āOne Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Womanā
By Abi Maxwell
c.2024, Knopf
$28/307 pages
“How many times have I told you that…?”
How many times have you heard that? Probably so often that, well, you stopped listening. From your mother, when you were very small. From your teachers in school. From your supervisor, significant other, or best friend. As in the new memoir “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman” by Abi Maxwell, it came from a daughter.
When she was pregnant, Abi Maxwell took long walks in the New Hampshire woods near her home, rubbing her belly and talking to her unborn baby. She was sure she was going to have a girl but when the sonogram technician said otherwise, that was OK. Maxwell and her husband would have a son.
But almost from birth, their child was angry, fierce, and unhappy. Just getting dressed each morning was a trial. Going outside was often impossible. Autism was a possible diagnosis but more importantly, Maxwell wasn’t listening, and she admits it with some shame.
Her child had been saying, in so many ways, that she was a girl.
Once Maxwell realized it and acted accordingly, her daughter changed almost overnight, from an angry child to a calm one ā though she still, understandably, had outbursts from the bullying behavior of her peers and some adults at school. Nearly every day, Greta (her new name) said she was teased, called by her former name, and told that she was a boy.
Maxwell had fought for special education for Greta, once autism was confirmed. Now she fought for Greta’s rights at school, and sometimes within her own family. The ACLU got involved. State laws were broken. Maxwell reminded anyone who’d listen that the suicide rate for trans kids was frighteningly high. Few in her town seemed to care.
Throughout her life, Maxwell had been in many other states and lived in other cities. New Hampshire used to feel as comforting as a warm blanket but suddenly, she knew they had to get away from it. Her “town that would not protect us.”
When you hold “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman,” you’ve got more than a memoir in your hands. You’ve also got a white-hot story that seethes with anger and rightful resentment, that wails for a hurt child, and rattles the bars of injustice. And yet, it coos over love of place, but in a confused manner, as if these things don’t belong together.
Author Abi Maxwell is honest with readers, taking full responsibility for not listening to what her preschooler was saying-not-saying, and she lets you see her emotions and her worst points. In the midst of her community-wide fight, she reveals how the discrimination Greta endured affected Maxwell’s marriage and her health ā all of which give a reader the sense that they’re not being sold a tall tale. Read this book, and outrage becomes familiar enough that it’s yours, too. Read “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman,” and share it. This is a book you’ll tell others about.
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