Local
Mayor to honor Annie’s at High Heel Race
Steakhouse stalwart died in July; was long-time friend of gays
D.C. Mayor Vincent Gray is expected to pay tribute to the late Annie Kaylor of Annie’s Paramount Steak House on Tuesday night minutes before he gives the signal for the start of the annual Halloween drag High Heel Race set to begin at 9 p.m. at 17th and R streets, N.W.
According to Sterling Washington, director of the Mayor’s Office of GLBT Affairs, Gray is to present to Paul Katinas, Annie Kaylor’s nephew, a duplicate version of the soon-to-be installed street sign designating a one-block section of Church Street between 17th Street and Stead Park as “Annie’s Way.”
Gray, who has been named grand marshal for this year’s high heel race, submitted legislation to the City Council calling for naming the street after the restaurant long known as Annie’s and in honor of Kaylor, who died in July at the age of 86.
Annie’s Paramount Steak House has been in business on 17th Street for 65 years. A long-time friend and supporter of D.C.’s LGBT community, Annie Kaylor has been recognized as a beloved figure by both the LGBT and Dupont Circle communities since she began work at the restaurant as a bartender and night manager in the 1950s.
Mayoral spokesperson Robert Marus said a separate dedication ceremony to officially install the “Annie’s Way” street signs would likely take place in late winter or early spring after the legislation is approved by the Council and clears the required 30 legislative day review period by Congress for all city legislation.
The annual high heel race organized by the 17th Street gay bar JR.’s attracts more than a thousand of spectators, many of whom come in Halloween costumes, to watch as many as two dozen or more men, dressed in drag and wearing high heels, race along the street in what has become a highly competitive contest.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).

