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D.C. event honors slain Texas officer, others

LGBT Fallen Heroes Fund spotlights those who made ultimate sacrifice

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Benjamin Marconi
and Nate Nguyen (Photo courtesy Nguyen)

LGBT Fallen Heroes Memorial Service
 
Saturday, May 13
 
2-5 p.m.
 
Arlington National Cemetery
 
Service held in theater

Jail & Bail at Bear Happy Hour and
 
Dining for Dollars
 
Friday, May 12
 
6-11 p.m.
 
Town, second floor
 
2009 8th St., N.W.

Copcakes for a Cause 6
 
Sunday, May 14
 
Town
 
(2009 8th St., N.W.)
 
5-8 p.m.
 
$25
 
lgbtfallenheroesfund.org

You’d never know from his obituary that San Antonio Police Department Detective Benjamin Marconi, who was shot and killed in the line of duty on Nov. 20, 2016, was gay.

That’s an injustice the LGBT Fallen Heroes Fund plans to correct this weekend. Marconi’s surviving partner, Nate Nguyen, will be honored along with others in similar situations this weekend in Washington with a bevy of events, both fun and serious, culminating with a Saturday afternoon ceremony and memorial service at Arlington National Cemetery.

This year’s honorees include Antonio Brown, an Army captain killed in the Pulse nightclub attack; Charlie Morgan, a chief warrant officer who was instrumental in getting the Defense of Marriage Act repealed; and Stephen White, a former Army specialist, border patrol officer and U.S. Air Marshal who was killed after meeting someone at a bar; and Marconi.

Begun in 2012, the Fund works to identify and honor LGBT law enforcement officers, firefighters, EMS and members of the military who have dedicated their lives to their communities and to give recognition to their survivors.

“The men and women who have been called to these careers put their lives on the line daily,” the Fund’s website says. “In addition to their dangerous vocations, they often have to hide their orientation for fear of being discriminated against, bullied or even fired. All too often the surviving partner and family are left out of any recognition or memorial services, denied financial support and possibly shunned by the agency and their local community.”

Director/co-founder Scott Gunn scours the Internet to find details on those who’ve died leading to the Fund honoring 22 individuals since its inception. In Marconi’s case, the gay community in San Antonio posted some comments to social media that indicated he’d been a local LGBT advocate. Dennis Rudder, a friend to Nguyen, contacted Gunn and told him Nguyen had been excluded from Marconi’s funeral, obit and more. Gunn, who’s been organizing LGBT events during National Police Week for nearly 15 years, by now has contacts who alert him when they know of an instance such as this.

Nguyen, who met Marconi at a bar in 2012, says he’s full of conflicted feelings as he plans to travel with Rudder to Washington this weekend. Despite a 20-year age difference (Nguyen is 29; Marconi was 50) he says they had a serious, nearly three-year relationship.

“I have ups and downs,” Nguyen says “I’m pretty grateful I have a great support system.”

He says he’s “very appreciative” of the Fund’s plans for the weekend.

“I didn’t even know about this organization at all,” he says. “I’m just really grateful they’re there and I’m going to give back to the community, especially to them first.”

San Antonio police arrested Otis Tyrone McKane, 31, in November and booked him on a capital murder charge in connection with Marconi’s death. According to local media accounts, he was upset about a child custody battle that prevented him from seeing his son.

“I lashed out at someone who didn’t deserve it,” the San Antonio Express News quoted McKane as having said.

Marconi was shot and killed about 11:45 a.m. on Nov. 20, 2016 during a traffic stop near SAPD headquarters in downtown San Antonio. After a 30-hour manhunt, a SWAT team located and arrested McKane, according to local media accounts. Nguyen says Marconi was out widely in his social life but out only to certain individuals at the department.

Nguyen, who had a habit of checking in with Marconi about every hour he was on duty, says it was a case of Marconi being “in the wrong place at the wrong time.”

“Ben had pulled somebody over and this guy, they have video of him circling headquarters for quite some time,” Nguyen says. “It was pretty random.”

Marconi’s son Dane, who’s in his early 20s and was close to Nguyen (“He loved my cooking,” Nguyen says), got in touch with him the day Marconi died after a period of hours in which Nguyen had been unable to reach Marconi. The family had gathered at the hospital where Marconi’s body was taken and waited until Nguyen arrived to tell him Marconi had died.

“I went into the other room to see him and they had him covered,” Nguyen says. “I said, ‘I need to see him,’ and so when I saw him, I was just so glad I got to see his face one last time. That’s how I found out.”

Nguyen says his relationship with Marconi’s family is mixed. Marconi had been married to a woman previously and has a grown son and stepdaughter.

“We were very close and we’re still close,” Nguyen says. “I was at every single family event, close to his sisters, his brother, you name it. I’m basically part of the family. His son and I are pretty close.”

Nguyen attended the funeral at Community Bible Church but says the officiant didn’t know Marconi had been gay.

“He just found out that day,” Nguyen says. “They asked who I was and I said, ‘I’m his partner.’ It wasn’t awkward, but I can see how they were shocked.”

Rudder, an avid Fund supporter who’s gotten close to Nguyen in recent months, says the situation was handled insensitively.

“One thing that bothers all of us, the family assistance program at the San Antonio Police Department didn’t make any contact with Nate until maybe two months ago,” Rudder says. “Nate went to them for help … and they didn’t even know about him. He doesn’t want any of Ben’s money, he just wants to be recognized as Ben’s partner and we’re gonna show him when we get to D.C. this week, everyone’s going to know you were Ben’s partner.”

Nguyen, who’s returned to school and is studying for a degree in geology, says Marconi would want to be remembered as someone who “made a difference.”

“He basically wanted to change the world and make his kids proud,” Nguyen says.

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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2

Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’

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Loraine Hutchins died last year. (File photo courtesy of Hutchins)

The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m. 

Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com. 

An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all. 

Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.

In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”

“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.

“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”

“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”

“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day. 

Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.  

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Queery: Meet artist, performer John Levengood

Modern creative talks nightlife, coming out, and his personal queer heroes

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John Levengood (Blade photo by Michael Key)

John Levengood (he/him) describes himself as a modern creative with a wide‑ranging toolkit. He blends music, technology, civic duty, and a sharp sense of wit into a cohesive artistic identity. Known primarily as a recording artist and performer, he’s also a self‑taught music producer and software engineer who embodies a generation of creators who build their own lanes rather than wait for one to appear.

Levengood, 32, who is single and identifies as gay and queer, is best known as a recording artist who has performed at Pride festivals across the country, including the main stages of World Pride DC, Central Arkansas Pride, and Charlotte Pride.

“Locally in the DMV, I’m known for turning heads at nightlife venues with my eye-catching sense of style. When I go out, I don’t try to blend in. I hope I inspire people to be themselves and have the courage to stand out,” he says.

He’s also known for hosting karaoke at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va., on Thursday nights. “I like to create a space where people feel comfortable expressing themselves, building community, and showcasing their talents.”

He also creates social media content from my performances and do interviews at LGBTQ+ bars and theatres in the DMV. Follow the Arlington resident @johnlevengood.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I have been fully out of the closet since 2019. My parents were the hardest people to tell because my family has always been my rock and at the time I couldn’t imagine a world without them. Their reactions were extremely positive and supportive so I had nothing to fear all along.
I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, dad, and sister in our hotel room in New Orleans during our winter vacation and being so nervous to tell them. After I finally mustered up the nerve and made the proclamation, I realized my dad had already fallen asleep on the couch. My mom promised to tell him when he woke up.

Whos your LGBTQ hero?

My LGBTQ heroes are Harvey Milk for paving the way for gays in politics and Elton John for being a pioneer for the fabulous and authentic. My local heroes in the DMV are Howard Hicks, manager of Green Lantern, and Tony Rivenbark, manager of Freddie’s Beach Bar. Both of them are essential to creating spaces where I’ve felt welcome and safe since moving to the DMV.

Whats Washingtons best nightspot, past or present?

Trade tops the list for me because of the dance floor and outdoor space. It’s so nice to get a break from the music every once and a while to be able to have a conversation.

We live in challenging times. How do you cope?

I’m still figuring this out. What is working right now is writing music and spending time with family and friends. I’ve also been spending less time on social media going to the gym at least three times a week.

What streaming show are you binging?

After “Traitors” Season 4 ended, I was in a bit of a show hole, but “Stumble” has me in a laughing loop right now. The writing is so witty.

What do you wish youd known at 18?

At 18, I wish I would have known how liberating it is to come out of the closet. It would have been nice to know some winning lottery numbers as well.

What are your friends messaging about in your most recent group chat?

We are planning our next trip to New York City. If you can believe it, I visited NYC for the first time in 2025 for Pride and I’ve been back every quarter since. Growing up in the country, I was subconsciously primed to be scared of the city. But my mind has been blown. I can’t wait to go back.

Why Washington?

It’s the closest metropolitan area to my family, but not too close. I love the museums, the diversity, the history, and the proximity to the beach and mountains. It’s also nice to live in a city with public transportation.

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Project GLOW celebrates LGBTQ acts

D.C.’s electronic music festival set for May 30-31

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A scene from last year’s Project GLOW. (Photo courtesy organizers)

Aging RFK Stadium has come down, but the RFK grounds are still getting lit up. Welcome back to the stage Project GLOW, D.C.’s homegrown electronic festival, on May 30-31. Back for its fifth year on these musically inclined acres, Project GLOW returns with an even more diverse lineup, and one that continues to celebrate LGBTQ antecedents, attendees, and acts.

Project GLOW 2026 headliners include house and techno star Mau P, progressive house legend Eric Prydz, hard-techno favorite Sara Landry, and bass acts Excision b2b Sullivan King, among the lineup of trance, bass, house, techno, dubstep, and others for the fifth anniversary year.

President & CEO Pete Kalamoutsos — born and raised in D.C. — founded Club GLOW in 1999. In 2020, GLOW entered into a partnership with global entertainment company Insomniac Events to produce live events like Project GLOW, which kicked off in 2022.

As in past years, Project GLOW not only makes space, but is intentionally inclusive of the LGBTQ community, one of its most dedicated fan bases. The festival’s LGBTQ-focused Secret Garden stage blooms again — a more intimate dance area that stands on the strength of DJs and musicians who draw from the LGBTQ community. D.C.’s LGBTQ nightlife mastermind Ed Bailey is the creative mind behind Secret Garden again. He joined Project GLOW in 2023.

“Kalamoustos says that “he’s proud of his partnership with Ed Bailey, along with Capital Pride and [nightlife producer] Jake Resnikow. It’s amazing to collaborate with Bailey at the Secret Garden stage, especially after the curated lineup we worked on at Pride last year.”

The Secret Garden will be a bit different from other stages: Eternal (“At the Eternal stage, time stands still. Lose yourself in the dance of past, present, and future, surrendering to the eternal rhythm of the universe”) and Pulse (“Feel the rhythm of the beat pulse through your veins as the heartbeat of the crowd synchronizes into one. Here, every moment vibrates with life as it guides you through a new dimension of euphoria”). The Secret Garden stage is in the round, surrounded by 16 shipping containers. The containers play canvas to muralists from around the world, who are coming in to paint them in a vibrant garden-style vibe. “We gave this stage some extra love with this layout,” K says, “ we finally cracked the code.”

K says that this will be the biggest lineup yet for the Secret Garden, featuring Nicole Moudaber b2b Chasewest, Riordan b2b Bullet Tooth, Ranger Trucco, Cassian, Eli & Fur, Cosmic Gate and Hayla. The stage is also the largest yet, featuring an expanded dance floor and 360-degree viewing.

Across all stages, K says that his goal for the fifth anniversary is “More art and fan interactive experience, more like a festival, strive to be like a Tomorrowland, as budget grows to add more experience.” Last year’s Project GLOW alone drew 40,000 attendees over two days.

K, however, was not satisfied with one festival this spring. GLOW recently announced a “pop-up” one-day event. Teaming up with Black Book Records, GLOW is set to throw a first-of-its-kind dance-music takeover of Pennsylvania Avenue, N.W., headlined by electronic music star Chris Lake. Set for April 18, this euphoric block party will feature bass and vibes blocks from the White House. Organizers expect as many as 10,000 fans to attend. Beyond music, there will be food, activations, and plenty of other activities taking place around 6th St and Pennsylvania Ave NW – a location familiar to many in the LGBTQ community, as this sits squarely inside the blocks of the Capital Pride party that takes place in DC every June.

Over the past two decades, Club GLOW has produced thousands of events, from club nights to large-scale festivals including Project GLOW, Moonrise Festival, and more. Club GLOW also operates Echostage.

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