Arts & Entertainment
Nico Tortorella gets candid about polyamorous relationship with lesbian partner
the pair have been together for 11 years
“Younger” star Nico Tortorella opened up about his polyamorous relationship with his partner Bethany Meyers in an interview with The Advocate.Ā
Tortorella, who identifies as pansexual, and Meyers have been together for 11 years.
Meyers, a fitness and lifestyle entrepreneur, says that she identifies as a lesbian and that Tortorella is the only man she can have a relationship with.
While they have an open relationship, Meyers says she is open to casual sex while Tortorella prefers to have a deeper connection before a physical relationship. But both believe that love doesn’t have to be just between two people.
āSo many people have this idea that if you can love this, you cannot love this. And I donāt understand, because I do,ā Meyers says. āI can have feelings for two people. There are different kinds of feelings, they fulfill different needs. I donāt find it very realistic to think that Iām going to get everything I need out of Nico.ā
However, Tortorella admits the couple is still navigating the world of polyamory.
āWeāre still figuring out the best way we can bring other people into our relationship. I think weāre in the best place now [that] weāve ever been, but weāre definitely still on an amateur level,” Tortorella says.Ā ā[Past partners] didnāt fully realize and understand who we are and what we mean to each other,ā says Nico. āLike, āOK, you have Bethany, [but] where do I fit into the puzzle?ā āAm I ever going to be as important as Bethany is?ā And whatās the answer to that? How do I best answer that question?ā
As for Tortorella’s pansexual identity, he says he doesn’t feel the need to be included in the LGBT acronym.
“I can be emotionally, physically attracted to men,ā Tortorella says. āI can be emotionally, physically attracted to women. The āBā in LGBTQ-plus has been fought for, for so long. Iām not going to be the person thatās like, āNo, I need a āP,ā I need another letter!ā I stand by people that have paved this way for somebody like me.ā
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Out & About
Nu Sass Productions to celebrate 15th anniversary
‘Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead’ performed at DC Arts Center
Nu Sass Productions will mark its 15th anniversary with a resurrection of āRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā beginning Friday, Sept. 20 at 8 p.m. at the DC Arts Center.
āRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā debuted at the Capital Fringe Festival in 2009 and will return this year with a new cast and crew.
Tickets cost $30 and can be purchased via the Nu Sass website.
Theater
Explore new venues, productions during D.C. Theatre Week
30 shows, including musicals, comedies, dramas, premieres, and more
2024 Theatre Week
Sept. 26-Oct. 13
Theatreweek.org
For Michael Ramirez, theater remains an ongoing source of inspiration and pleasure. As a little boy in El Paso, Texas, his mom took him to see lots of kidsā shows. And later in high school, he played one of the Sharks in āWest Side Story.ā All fond memories.
At the University of Texas in Austin for social work (undergraduate) and social work/public administration (graduate school) and then as a successful human resources professional and policy wonk in Washington, Ramirez continued to enjoy theater from the audience or behind the scenes. Now retired, he serves as a Helen Hayes Awards judge and board member at Woolly Mammoth Theatre.
Theatre Washington is the umbrella organization that not only produces the Helen Hayes Awards but also Theatre Week, an annual celebratory launch of the season with shows at low prices, a free kickoff fest, and other fun events.
The 2024 Theatre Week, explains Ramirez, features about 30 varied productions in the DMV, including musicals, comedies, dramas, new works, premieres, and works geared to young audiences. And tickets are affordably discounted at $60, $40, and $20.
āItās a great opportunity to take a chance on a theater that you might not be familiar with,ā he says. āWhen it comes to seeing shows, a lot of people think Kennedy Center or Fordās. This can be an introduction to something entirely new. D.C. is a busy theater town with lots of companies and venues.ā
At the heart of Theatre Week are its plays and musicals. Ramirez has already made his list.
His picks include GALA Hispanic Theatreās āThe 22+ Weddings of Hugoā featuring out actor Carlos Castillo as Hugo and staged by out director JosĆ© Zayas; busy out playwright Branden Jacobs-Jenkinsā āThe Comeuppanceā at Woolly Mammoth; and āRosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Deadā at Nu Sass Productions.
He also plans to see Mosaic Theatreās āLady Day at Emersonās Bar and Grill,ā a play with music about jazz legend/queer icon Billie Holiday starring Roz White; ExPats Theatreās āMarlene,ā featuring Karin Rosnizeck as legendary diva Marlene Dietrich; and Rorschach Theatreās āSleeping Giantā written by gay playwright Steve Yockey well known as the developer of the HBO Max comedy-drama television series āThe Flight Attendant.ā
Ramirez adds, āAnd as a good gay, I canāt miss āSondheim Tribute Revueā at Creative Cauldron.ā
There are also parties and outdoor events. He advises a few of his favorites.
On Monday, Sept. 9, Woolly Mammoth hosts a Theatre Week Launch Party replete with drinks and season sneak peaks (invitation only).
The Historic Theatre Walking Tour (Sept. 21) asks the public to check out downtown D.C. theaters with guides Farar Elliot and Chris Geidner (free). And with City on the River Concert (Sept. 22), Theatre Washington returns to the D.C. Wharf Transit Pier to present āmusical theater showstoppersā from a dozen of the seasonās upcoming shows (free).
Next up itās āDC Theatre at the Natsā (Sept. 24), a night out at the ballgame that baseball lover Ramirez is sure to attend. And typically, he says, performers from a local show or company are booked to sing the anthem ($20).
And big event Kickoff Fest 2024, an all-afternoon event for all ages, takes place on Sept. 28 at Arena Stage (also free).
Not surprisingly Ramirez fell for another theater aficionado. He and husband John Ralls got together in 1990 and married in 2014. Ralls is a board member at Rorschach.
As board members, they āfunction as ambassadors and marketers for the theater. We reach into our pockets and write the checks. We buy the season tickets, and encourage our friends to do the same.ā
Ramirez enthusiastically reiterates: āTheatre Week is especially fun. Again, tickets are reasonable. Thereās everything from puppet plays at Glen Echo Park to something more serious. Itās the perfect chance to try something new.ā
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