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Thomas Dekker comes out as gay after producer Bryan Fuller outs him

the actor says he ‘wasn’t ready’ to reveal his sexuality

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“Heroes” actor Thomas Dekker has come out as gay and married after producer Bryan Fuller outed the star.

While speaking at an Outfest event, “Heroes” producer Bryan Fuller mentioned ā€œhet-washing” on the series, when an actor’s management team did not want his character to be gay on the show.

ā€œThe character became straight, and the actor came out as gay,” Fuller said.

In a Twitter response, Dekker came out as gay and revealed he got married to his husband in April.

“My sexual orientation once again came into question this week when a prominent gay man used an awards acceptance speech to ‘out’ me,” Dekker, 29, writes. “While he did not mention me by name, the explicit details of his reference made it easy for the public and media to connect the dots.”

Dekker also says that he never publicly came out and felt it wasn’t Fuller’s place to reveal his sexuality to the world.

“I have never lied to the press about the fluidity of my sexuality but this man claiming that I came out is not true,” Dekker continued. “Because I have not ‘officially’ until this moment. I simply refuse to be robbed of the glorious joy that belongs to me. To say the words myself. ‘I’m gay’. Those words are a badge of honor that no one can steal. Sexuality and who you love is a deeply personal and complicated thing. For some of us, it takes time to cultivate, discover and conclude. It is not something anyone should ever be ashamed of and certainly not something anyone should be rushed into.”

As for why he waited so long to come out, Dekker says it’s because he simply wasn’t ready.

“I agree with many who believe it is an important responsibility for LGBTQ persons with a platform to come out. It has the power to change minds, challenge beliefs and make others feel understood and supported. It can strengthen the progression of our community and help disarm those who discriminate against us,” Dekker writes.Ā “It is a brave, powerful and important thing to do but it is also a deeply personal decision. One that should only be made when you are ready.”

Dekker has also appeared on “The Secret Circle” and “Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles.”

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Nu Sass Productions to celebrate 15th anniversary

‘Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead’ performed at DC Arts Center

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Nu Sass Productions will mark its 15th anniversary with a resurrection of ā€œRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā€ beginning Friday, Sept. 20 at 8 p.m. at the DC Arts Center. 

ā€œRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Deadā€ debuted at the Capital Fringe Festival in 2009 and will return this year with a new cast and crew.

Tickets cost $30 and can be purchased via the Nu Sass website.

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Explore new venues, productions during D.C. Theatre Week

30 shows, including musicals, comedies, dramas, premieres, and more

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Michael Ramirez serves as a Helen Hayes Awards judge and board member at Woolly Mammoth Theatre. (Photo by DJ Corey Photography)

2024 Theatre Week
Sept. 26-Oct. 13
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For Michael Ramirez, theater remains an ongoing source of inspiration and pleasure. As a little boy in El Paso, Texas, his mom took him to see lots of kidsā€™ shows. And later in high school, he played one of the Sharks in ā€œWest Side Story.ā€ All fond memories. 

At the University of Texas in Austin for social work (undergraduate) and social work/public administration (graduate school) and then as a successful human resources professional and policy wonk in Washington, Ramirez continued to enjoy theater from the audience or behind the scenes. Now retired, he serves as a Helen Hayes Awards judge and board member at Woolly Mammoth Theatre. 

Theatre Washington is the umbrella organization that not only produces the Helen Hayes Awards but also Theatre Week, an annual celebratory launch of the season with shows at low prices, a free kickoff fest, and other fun events. 

The 2024 Theatre Week, explains Ramirez, features about 30 varied productions in the DMV, including musicals, comedies, dramas, new works, premieres, and works geared to young audiences. And tickets are affordably discounted at $60, $40, and $20.

ā€œItā€™s a great opportunity to take a chance on a theater that you might not be familiar with,ā€ he says. ā€œWhen it comes to seeing shows, a lot of people think Kennedy Center or Fordā€™s. This can be an introduction to something entirely new. D.C. is a busy theater town with lots of companies and venues.ā€  

At the heart of Theatre Week are its plays and musicals. Ramirez has already made his list. 

His picks include GALA Hispanic Theatreā€™s ā€œThe 22+ Weddings of Hugoā€ featuring out actor Carlos Castillo as Hugo and staged by out director JosĆ© Zayas; busy out playwright Branden Jacobs-Jenkinsā€™ ā€œThe Comeuppanceā€ at Woolly Mammoth; and ā€œRosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Deadā€ at Nu Sass Productions.

He also plans to see Mosaic Theatreā€™s ā€œLady Day at Emersonā€™s Bar and Grill,ā€ a play with music about jazz legend/queer icon Billie Holiday starring Roz White; ExPats Theatreā€™s ā€œMarlene,ā€ featuring Karin Rosnizeck as legendary diva Marlene Dietrich; and Rorschach Theatreā€™s ā€œSleeping Giantā€ written by gay playwright Steve Yockey well known as the developer of the HBO Max comedy-drama television series ā€œThe Flight Attendant.ā€

Ramirez adds, ā€œAnd as a good gay, I canā€™t miss ā€˜Sondheim Tribute Revueā€™ at Creative Cauldron.ā€ 

There are also parties and outdoor events. He advises a few of his favorites. 

On Monday, Sept. 9, Woolly Mammoth hosts a Theatre Week Launch Party replete with drinks and season sneak peaks (invitation only). 

The Historic Theatre Walking Tour (Sept. 21) asks the public to check out downtown D.C. theaters with guides Farar Elliot and Chris Geidner (free). And with City on the River Concert (Sept. 22), Theatre Washington returns to the D.C. Wharf Transit Pier to present ā€œmusical theater showstoppersā€ from a dozen of the seasonā€™s upcoming shows (free).  

Next up itā€™s ā€œDC Theatre at the Natsā€ (Sept. 24), a night out at the ballgame that baseball lover Ramirez is sure to attend. And typically, he says, performers from a local show or company are booked to sing the anthem ($20). 

And big event Kickoff Fest 2024, an all-afternoon event for all ages, takes place on Sept. 28 at Arena Stage (also free).

Not surprisingly Ramirez fell for another theater aficionado. He and husband John Ralls got together in 1990 and married in 2014. Ralls is a board member at Rorschach.

As board members, they ā€œfunction as ambassadors and marketers for the theater. We reach into our pockets and write the checks. We buy the season tickets, and encourage our friends to do the same.ā€

Ramirez enthusiastically reiterates: ā€œTheatre Week is especially fun. Again, tickets are reasonable. Thereā€™s everything from puppet plays at Glen Echo Park to something more serious. Itā€™s the perfect chance to try something new.ā€ 

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