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Local couple wins $100,000 wedding contest

Buoyed by support from family, friends and strangers

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Thanks to the votes of thousands of supporters, D.C.’s Carl Cox and Darin Henderson have won a prestigious national wedding contest. The couple will receive a wedding package from local vendors worth a jaw-dropping $100,000 that covers the rings, ceremony, reception and everything in between.

“They are an amazing couple,” said photographer Michael Kress, who launched Freedom2Wed to celebrate D.C.’s legalization of same-sex marriage. The online competition, which attracted more than 22,500 votes, turned out to be a close race among the six finalists.

Last week, event organizers ambushed Cox and Henderson at their home, Publishers Clearinghouse-style, to announce that they’d won. With Champagne and cupcakes in hand, Kress delivered the news to the somewhat shell-shocked pair—and captured it all on video.

“When they knocked on the door, I was expecting them to say, ‘congrats you came in second’ or something,” Cox said. “It still hasn’t sunk in yet.”

“It’s wonderful beyond words,” Henderson said. With the camera still rolling, they called their mothers — who had been working feverishly to gather votes on their behalf — to tell them the news.

“Awww, my boys won,” an emotional Cherrie Henderson said, while on speakerphone.

Cox and Henderson told the Blade that in addition to that of their mothers, the support they’ve received from friends, coworkers, and even complete strangers has been “completely heartwarming.”

“We were floored that so many people offered to help,” Cox said.

To pull in last-minute votes, a large group of friends rallied at the 11th hour by spreading the word at local festivals and around the community. They set up tents, handed out cards, and asked whoever would listen to vote for the couple. Cox and Henderson even gathered support from fellow passengers and crewmembers during a cruise they went on in late September.

What’s been most surprising about the entire journey, the couple acknowledged, is the number of allies they gained who hadn’t always been supportive of gay marriage. “A lot of that had to do with stepping up to the plate and being so public about [being gay],” Henderson said, which came with the territory of the contest.

Now that the competition is officially over, Cox and Henderson are looking forward to kicking back and starting the fun part — the planning. Having been to their share of straight weddings, they hinted that they’re aiming for something a little more “quirky.”

Cox envisions an “eclectic” event that matches the “ying and yang” of their sometimes serious, sometimes silly personalities. “We would like it to be both comical and heartfelt,” he said.

The pair plans to hold the ceremony at the Metropolitan Community Church of D.C. and the reception at the Long View Gallery, one of the contest’s participating vendors.

Although the date hasn’t been set yet, Henderson hopes it can be scheduled for March 4 — the day of the couple’s five-year anniversary.

“That way, I’ll have one day to remember in my life, not two,” he said.

(Photo by Michael Key)

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Va. LG opposed marriage equality affirmation bill in handwritten note

Winsome Earle-Sears constitutionally required to sign HB 174 as Senate president

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Virginia Lt. Gov. Winsome Earle-Sears speaks at CPAC in 2023. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Virginia Lt. Gov. Winsome Earle-Sears last year in a handwritten note indicated her opposition to marriage rights for same-sex couples when she signed a bill that affirmed marriage equality in the state.

Brandon Jarvis of Virginia Scope on May 1 published Earle-Sears’s note on House Bill 174, which state Del. Rozia Henson, a Prince William County Democrat who is gay, introduced.

The Virginia Senate passed HB 174 by a 22-17 vote margin, and the state constitution required Earle-Sears to sign it as the chamber’s president. Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin signed the measure into law after it received bipartisan support.

“As the lieutenant governor, I recognize and respect my constitutional obligation to adhere to procedures set out in the constitution of Virginia,” wrote Earle-Sears in her note. “However, I remain morally opposed to the content of HB 174 as passed by the General Assembly.”

Earle-Sears, a former U.S. Marine who served in the Virginia House of Delegates from 2002-2004, in 2021 became the first woman elected Virginia’s lieutenant governor. Activists have criticized her for her opposition to LGBTQ rights in Virginia.

She sparked controversy last year when she misgendered state Sen. Danica Roem (D-Manassas), who is transgender, on the Senate floor. Earle-Sears has also spoken at the Conservative Political Action Conference.

Earle-Sears is running to succeed Youngkin as governor once his term ends in January 2026. She will likely face former U.S. Rep. Abigail Spanberger, a Democrat who previously represented Virginia’s 7th Congressional District.

John Reid, a conservative talk show host who is openly gay, last month secured the Republican nomination to succeed Earle-Sears as lieutenant governor. Youngkin has called for Reid to end his campaign amid reports that he posted “pornographic content” on social media.

Reid has strongly denied the reports.

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D.C. liquor board extends drinking hours for WorldPride

Gay bars, other liquor-serving establishments can stay open 24 hours

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Venus Valhalla performs at Pitchers. Liquor-serving establishments in D.C. will be able to remain open for 24 hours during WorldPride. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

D.C.’s Alcoholic Beverage and Cannabis Board, which regulates liquor sales for the city’s bars, restaurants, nightclubs, and other establishments licensed to serve alcoholic beverages, has approved extended hours for alcohol service and sales during the days when most WorldPride events will be held in the nation’s capital.

In a May 2 announcement, the Alcoholic Beverage and Cannabis Administration, which works with the board, said the extended liquor serving and sales hours for WorldPride will take place beginning Friday, May 30, through 4 a.m. Monday, June 9.

Although the official schedule for WorldPride events shows the events will take place May 17-June 8, most of the large events, including a two-day Pride street festival, parade, and concert, were expected to take place between May 30 and June 8.

According to the ABCA announcement and an ABCA spokesperson, liquor servicing establishments with the appropriate license can stay open for 24 hours and serve alcoholic beverages from 6 a.m. through the day and evening until 4 a.m., with no liquor sales allowed from 4 a.m. to 6 a.m. during the May 30-June 9 period.

The ABCA announcement says liquor serving establishments must apply for the extended hours option and pay a $100 registration fee by a deadline on May 27.

Sources familiar with the liquor board have said the board has for many years approved the extension of liquor serving and sales hours for important events and for certain holidays such as New Year’s Eve.

At the time it approved the extended hours for WorldPride the liquor board also approved extended hours during the time when games for a World Cup soccer tournament will be held in the city on June 18, June 22, and June 26.

It couldn’t immediately be determined how many of D.C.’s 22 LGBTQ bars plan to apply for the extended drinking hours. David Perruzza, owner of the Adams Morgan gay bar Pitchers and its adjoining lesbian bar A League of Her Own, said he will apply for the 4 a.m. extended hours option but he does not intend to keep the two bars open for the full 23 hours.

Under the city’s current alcoholic beverage regulations, licensed liquor serving establishments may serve alcoholic beverages until 2 a.m. on weekdays and 3 a.m. on weekends.

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Episcopal bishop to speak at WorldPride human rights conference

Trump demanded apology from Mariann Edgar Budde over post-Inauguration sermon

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The Right Rev. Mariann Edgar Budde. (Screen capture via PBS NewsHour/YouTube)

The Right Rev. Mariann Edgar Budde is among those who are scheduled to speak at the WorldPride 2025 Human Rights Conference that will take place from June 4-6.

Budde, who is the bishop of the Diocese of Washington, in January urged President Donald Trump “to have mercy” on LGBTQ people, immigrants, and others “who are scared right now” during a post-Inauguration service that he and Vice President JD Vance attended at the Washington National Cathedral. Trump criticized Budde’s comments and demanded an apology.

The Right Rev. Mariann Edgar Budde speaks at the Washington National Cathedral on Jan. 21, 2025. (PBS NewsHour clip)

A press release the Washington Blade received notes Icelandic Industries Minister Hanna Katrín Friðriksson, UK Black Pride founder Phyll Opoku-Gyimah, and Bob the Drag Queen are among those who are also expected to participate in the conference.

The conference will take place at the JW Marriott (1331 Pennsylvania Ave., N.W.) and registration is open here.

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