Local
Obituary: Fred Parris, 62
Co-founder of Northern Va. Gay Alliance succumbed to congestive heart failure in Houston
Frederick Walter “Fred” Parris, a D.C. area resident in the 1970s and 1980s and a co-founder of the Northern Virginia Gay Alliance, died March 4 in Houston of congestive heart failure. He was 62.
He served as a freelance writer for the Washington Blade in the early 1980s and is credited with drawing early attention to the subject of gay teen suicide through a series of stories he wrote for the Blade in 1982 on that issue.
He is the author of the 1984 book, “All You Can Eat: Your Guide to 1,000 Buffet Restaurants Priced $7.95 or Less.”
Parris was born Nov. 12, 1948, in Manhattan, Kan. He graduated from Kansas University in 1970 with a major in journalism. He received the William Allen White Award for excellence in feature writing in his role as a writer for the University Daily Kansan newspaper.
He received a master’s degree in library science from Kansas’s Emporia University and later worked for five years with the Memphis Public Library system. During his residence in Memphis, Parris served as news editor for Gaiety, a monthly gay and lesbian publication. His work with the paper included interviews with singer Joan Baez and author Truman Copote.
He moved to the D.C. area in 1976, where he became involved with a number of LGBT rights groups and causes. He also became an advocate for seniors and pushed for tenant rights for seniors and lower-income people in a D.C. area suburb, according to his brother David Parris.
Upon his relocation to Houston in 1989, Parris worked in various positions for the Houston Public Library. He served as a local history reference librarian and collection development specialist for the Texas division at the Houston Metropolitan Research Center. In that capacity, Parris created and served as curator for two popular exhibits – “Anita Bryant Comes to Houston, 1977” and “Houston During World War II.”
He retired from the Houston Public Library in May 2008.
Survivors include a sister, Rosemary Parris Bennet; a brother, David Parris; a niece, Lauren Bennett; and a nephew, Adam Bennett.
A private memorial service is scheduled in Houston on May 1. Contributions can be made to the “It Gets Better Project,” an effort aimed at preventing LGBT teen suicide.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
