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Spencer Perry continues moms’ tradition of activism
Son of Prop 8 plaintiffs reflects on marriage fight, stays involved at GWU
Spencer Perry takes after his parents.
The 19-year-old son of the lesbian plaintiff couple in the case against California’s Proposition 8 is straight, but as a freshman at George Washington University, he’s taken leadership roles in the school’s gay-straight alliance and LGBT graduate program.
In an interview with the Washington Blade at GWU’s Duques Hall, Spencer says he would pursue LGBT activism even if his parents ā Kris Perry and Sandy Stier ā weren’t plaintiffs in the case that restored marriage equality to California, because of his experience in youth government programs during his adolescence.
“Sometimes I got the opportunity to travel across the country and meet others with different views on LGBT rights,” Perry says. “More often than not, I found myself even just in conversations casually, advocating for my parents and advocating for the family that we have and families just like theirs. I really felt proud of myself doing that. It was a good feeling and I wanted to keep pursuing it.”
After growing up in Berkeley, Calif., which he calls a “bubble” in terms of support for LGBT people, Spencer enrolled at GWU, where he double majors in political science and economics. Shortly after enrolling, he was elected freshman representative for Allied in Pride and was appointed as a board member of GWU’s LGBT Health Graduate Certificate Program.
He moved to D.C., where he lives on campus at Thurston Hall, at the same time his parents relocated to the area after Kris Perry accepted a job as executive director of the First Five Years Fund, a non-profit that seeks early childhood education for disadvantaged children.
Spencer says his focus at Allied in Pride is getting the culture at GWU “to be more embracing of LGBT individuals” on campus.
The next big task? Preparing for the second annual amateur drag show set for Feb. 13 called “Allied in Greek” ā a collaboration between the Allied in Pride and Greek life in which members of GWU’s fraternities and sororities dress up in drag. The goal for the event, which will take place at 7 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium, is to show support for fellow LGBT students and benefit The Trevor Project, which seeks to help LGBT youth considering suicide.
Nick Gumas, who’s gay andĀ president of Allied in Pride, praised Perry.
“Spencer has been an important part of Allied in Pride since he joined at the start of last semester,” Gumas says. “He always brings his creativity and positive energy to all of our meetings and events. It has been an absolute pleasure getting to know Spencer and I know he is going to continue to do great things in the future.”
Spencer knows firsthand the feeling of having the rights of his family taken from him. On Election Day in 2008 ā the same day that President Obama was elected to office ā voters in California approved Prop 8, rescinding the marriage rights that gay couples already enjoyed in the state.
“Anyone will tell you who lived in California and is part of the LGBT community, that was a very embarrassing moment because No. 1, we elected a phenomenal president, the first black president, which was a terrific feeling to be part of that, but at the same time, Proposition 8 was passed, too,” he says.
The day the California Supreme Court upheld Prop 8, Kris Perry and Stier ā along with Los Angeles coupleĀ Paul Katami and Jeffrey Zarrillo ā filed a lawsuit in federal court seeking to overturn Prop 8. They were represented by the legal dream team of Ted Olson and David Boies, who were hired by the then newly formed American Foundation for Equal Rights.
The lawsuit wasn’t filed beforeĀ Kris Perry, his birth mother, and Stier, who became his stepmother after a previous relationship Kris Perry had with another woman, asked their four children, including Spencer and his twin brother Elliott, whether it was OK.
“I remember one day after school right before dinner around that time, Kris and Sandy sat us down,” Spencer says. “They said, ‘Listen, we’ve been approached by this group called AFER and they’re interested in pursuing a lawsuit to overturn Proposition 8 as unconstitutional. We’re very interested, but we want to make a collective decision as a family. So they asked us if Elliott and I would be OK with that.”
It didn’t take much to convince Spencer to be willing to come on board.
“Elliott and I jumped at the opportunity,” he says.
At first, Spencer says his parents “did their darndest to keep us kind of protected” from the public interest surrounding the case. But as the case proceeded through the district court, to the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals and to the Supreme Court, and Spencer grew older and more interested in public affairs, he was able to speak out and talked to media outlets.
“I really did enjoy it,” Spencer says. “Not to be someone who’s devoted to attention, but it really was a good feeling to voice my opinion and to make sure people understand there are kids who have gay parents all across America.”
In addition to speaking at various news conferences, Spencer gave interviews to the San Francisco Chronicle, People magazine, the Los Angeles Times and New York Times, among others
One of the views against same-sex marriage that Spencer had to address ā and one that he was living proof to counter ā was the often-used argument that children of same-sex parents don’t fare as well as those raised by their opposite-sex biological parents.
“I’ve heard the argument a million and one times, but if anything, my gut reaction is that it’s kind of hurtful to hear that because my parents love each other, I’m worse off for it,” Spencer says. “I can’t tell you how loving and proud, and just absolutely supportive, my parents are of me. And how much better I am for them being my parents.”
After years of litigation, the case ended up before the U.S. Supreme Court, where justices ruled 5-4 that proponents of Prop 8 had no standing to defend the lawsuit, leaving in place a U.S. District Court decision from Judge Vaughn Walker that overturned the amendment on the grounds that it violated the equal protection rights of gay couples in the state.
But before that momentous decision, the justices scheduled oral arguments on March 26 to hear both sides in the case. Although Spencer wasn’t initially expecting to attend that day, an AFER board member was kind enough to give seats to allow him and Elliott to attend.
Spencer found himself sweating and uncomfortable as he observed Olson, anti-gay attorney Charles Cooper and Solicitor General Donald Verrilli makes their arguments before the justices, but for reasons other than the historic nature of the occasion.
“I caught food poisoning the night before,” Spencer says. “I never had food poisoning before, so I didn’t know what was happening, but I was just clenching the arms in my chair and sweating a little bit. I thought it was just nerves or something.”
Still, Spencer says he was inspired by what he saw, especially the comments from U.S. Associate Justice Anthony Kennedy.
“It was absolutely fantastic, especially listening to Justice Kennedy, it really touched my heart when he spoke about the kids who were involved in these cases, the children who belong to these families and feel disenfranchised by their government,” Spencer says.
Decision day came on June 28. This time Spencer wasn’t in D.C. ā even though his parents were there to celebrate along with Human Rights Campaign President Chad Griffin on the steps of the Supreme Court ā and instead was in North Carolina with other students involved in the debate team.
“The entire period when I was doing that, I was checking my phone, checking my Twitter, Instagram, everything I could get my hands on, every media outlet if it was going to happen,” Spencer says.
Despite the ups and downs as the case went through the courts, Spencer says the experience as a whole was positive and brought him closer to his family.
“Looking back on it, I feel immensely proud of my moms,” Spencer says.Ā “I never felt closer to them than when I saw Kris and Sandy testifying in front of a federal judge. Even now, I still feel proud to know that they changed the lives of so many people for the better.”
Peter Rosenstein, a gay Democratic activist and friend of Spencer’s, calls him “a great kid” and says the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree in terms of the pursuit of activism shared by his parents.
“I enjoyed his response when I was first introduced to him and asked if he was gay or straight,” Rosenstein says. “He said, ‘straight, my momās didnāt rub off on me’ to which I responded my parents didnāt rub off on me either. I think his being at GW will be great for the school and great for all the kids that meet him.”
What should the national LGBT movement focus on next? Spencer says it should be winning state battles on marriage equality throughout the country, so when the issue returns to the Supreme Court, justices will make a favorable ruling for gay couples throughout the country.
“There’s going to be political ideology in any ruling, and there’s going to be influence in public opinion, but I think the way that public opinion has absolutely shifted in the past four years in support of marriage equality and LGBT rights, it really does speak to the fact that there’s an opportunity for a national precedent on marriage equality in the Supreme Court,” Spencer says.
District of Columbia
D.C. police investigating anti-gay assault at 14th & U McDonaldās
In separate incident, gay man found unconscious near Florida Avenue bar
D.C. police are investigating an incident in which a group of as many as 15 men and women allegedly assaulted a gay man while some of them called him a āfaggotā at around 1 a.m. on Sunday, Oct. 27, at the McDonaldās restaurant at 14th and U Streets, N.W., according to a police report and the victimās husband.
The report, which lists the incident as a suspected hate crime, says the victim, Sebastian Thomas Robles Lascarro, was taken to Howard University Hospital for treatment. A police spokesperson said he was released from the hospital the next day.
A GoFundMe page posted by Stuart West, Lascarroās husband, who said Lascarro goes by his middle name Thomas, states, āMedical bills, therapy costs, and ongoing recovery needs will continue to increase and any help to ensure he gets the care he needs to regain his health and peace of mind will be a blessing.ā
The GoFundMe message adds, āThomas was attacked by a mob who used hateful, derogatory language targeting his identity as a gay man. This horrific hate crime left him hospitalized overnight, facing serious physical injuries and emotional trauma.ā
In response to an inquiry from the Blade about the 14th and U Street incident, a D.C. police spokesperson disclosed that a man whose friends identify him as gay was found unconscious on the ground suffering from a head injuryĀ about 5 a.m. also on Sunday, Oct. 27, at the intersection of 5th and T Streets, N.W. just off Florida Avenue near the gay bar Uproar.
A police report lists the case as a robbery but doesnāt say how the injuries he suffered to his head happened. And like the case of the gay man attacked at the McDonaldās, friends of the man found unconscious posted a GoFundMe page identifying the man.
āBryan Smith (aka the barber) recently suffered immense trauma to his head and will be hospitalized for the foreseeable future,ā it says. āBryan is a dear friend and a pillar in the D.C. queer and nightlife communities,ā the GoFundMe appeal says. āAny amount of donations would be greatly appreciated to go towards the upcoming expenses he will incur.ā
One of the friends who posted the GoFundMe told the Washington Blade they would have no further comment at this time. However, D.C.ās Fox 5 News reports members of Smithās family said he remains in a coma, with D.C. police saying they have video footage of two possible suspects who reportedly took Smithās phone and wallet containing credit cards.
Although people who knew Smith said he had worked for many years as a hairstylist, the Fox 5 News report says he had recently been serving as a DJ. It points out that police are offering a $1,000 reward for information leading to an arrest and conviction of the perpetrators responsible for Smithās robbery and assault.
West, the husband of Lascarro, when contacted by the Blade, said Lascarro, 22, had been at the nearby gay bars Crush and Bunker, and he stopped at the McDonaldās on his way home. West said the assault began inside the McDonaldās, which was crowded with customers. He said the police report correctly states that Lascarro told police the incident began when one of the attackers, a woman, criticized him for not saying āexcuse meā when he walked past her.
āHe ignored her, and he walked away,ā West told the Blade, adding that the woman then called him a faggot and her friends, who were mostly men, blocked the exit door at the McDonaldās, preventing Lascarro from leaving and demanded that he apologize to the woman.
āAnd when he said he was not going to apologize and he raised his hand to try and move the door to get out, thatās when more than 10 individuals started to assault him,ā West said. āAnd so, they started punching him all over his face and body, and it eventually moved to outside the McDonaldās on the D.C. sidewalk, where more people got involved and started hitting him and assaulting him.ā
At one point when Lascarro was sitting on the ground, ābloodied, dazed, and confused, they decided to throw drinks and trash at him,ā West said. He said when two people walking by asked him if he needed help, Lascarro was able to dial 911 on his phone, and an ambulance arrived minutes later, which took him to the hospital.
āThey performed a full CT scan and thankfully there were no critical injuries discovered,ā West said. āSo, the only injuries are bruises and scrapes and cuts and a very sore jaw,ā he said, adding that the head injuries have caused his husband to suffer migraine headaches.
West said he later visited the McDonaldās and asked two supervisors if they would release to him a copy of the video surveillance camera images from their security cameras from the night of the attack. He said the two declined his request but said they were cooperating with the police investigation.
D.C. police officials have said investigators routinely obtain video camera footage from businesses or from city security cameras along public spaces such as parks or streets when investigating crimes.
Police have said anyone with information that could lead to the identification of the perpetrators involved in the crimes targeting Lascarro and Smith should contact police at 202-727-9096.
The GoFundMe pages for the two men are here:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-thomass-recovery-from-hate-crime
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-bryan-smiths-medical-recovery
Polls indicate Prince Georgeās County Executive Angela Alsobrooks is comfortably ahead of former Maryland Gov. Larry Hogan in the race to succeed retiring U.S. Sen. Ben Cardin (D-Md.).
A Washington Post-University of Maryland poll conducted between Oct. 17-22 found Alsobrooks ahead of Hogan by a 52-40 percent margin. Alsobrooks, a Democrat, was ahead of her Republican rival by a 48-39 percent margin in a poll the University of Maryland Baltimore County conducted between Sept. 23-28.
Alsobrooks during an interview with the Washington Blade before she defeated Congressman David Trone in the May 14 primary said she supports the Equality Act. Alsobrooks also highlighted her support for Marylandās marriage equality law that voters upheld in a 2012 referendum.
Hogan in 2018 signed a bill that banned so-called conversion therapy in Maryland. He criticized Republican Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis over his stateās āDonāt Say Gayā law during a 2023 interview with CNNās āState of the Union.ā
A bill that created the Commission on LGBTQ Affairs in the Governorās Community Initiatives Office took effect in 2021 without Hoganās signature. Hogan also did not sign a bill that banned the so-called LGBTQ panic defense in Maryland.
Hogan marched in this yearās Annapolis Pride parade.
Campaign spokesperson Blake Kernan on Wednesday referred the Blade to the campaignās final ad it released earlier in the day.
āIām not just another Republican,ā says Hogan. āIāll make your life more affordable, and support a womanās right to choose.ā
Kernan defended Hoganās record on LGBTQ rights in an article the Blade published on Aug. 7. Kernan in a May 22 statement criticized Alsobrooks over her comments about Hoganās abortion rights record.
The Alsobrooks campaign on Tuesday told the Blade it is āready to defend our Democratic Senate Majority, protect our freedoms, and fight for our families.ā
āAngela continues to travel across the state and can feel the enthusiasm and energy from all voters ā from young people concerned about the cost of living, women concerned about access to reproductive freedoms, seniors concerned about the cost of prescription drugs, and all Marylanders who want a future where their families can thrive,ā said the campaign in a statement. āAngela is in this fight for every one of them, for every Marylander.”
Democrat April McClain Delaney is running against former Maryland state Del. Neil Parrott (R-Washington County) in the race to succeed Trone in Marylandās 6th Congressional District.
A Gonzales Research and Marketing Strategies poll conducted between Aug. 24-31 found Parrott ahead of Delaney by a 41-39 percent margin. A Public Opinion Strategies poll conducted between Aug. 6-11 found Delaney ahead of Parrott by a 42-40 percent margin.
Delaney, a former Commerce Department official who is married to former Maryland Congressman John Delaney, in her campaign ads has noted Parrott in 2005 said people who test positive for HIV should be tattooed. Parrott in 2014 led an unsuccessful effort to prompt a referendum on Marylandās transgender rights law that then-Gov. Martin OāMalley signed.
In Virginia, state Sen. Suhas Subramanyam (D-Loudoun County) is running against Republican Mike Clancy in the stateās 10th Congressional District. The winner will succeed Congresswoman Jennifer Wexton, who announced last September she would not seek re-election after doctors diagnosed her with an aggressive form of Parkinsonās disease.
āWhen I think about who will best continue my legacy and deliver real results for us in Congress, I can think of no one better than state Sen. Suhas Subramanyam,ā said Wexton in an Oct. 16 press release in which she and former U.S. Rep. Barbara Comstock (R-Va.) endorsed Subramanyamās campaign.
Democrat Eugene Vindman is running against Republican Derrick Anderson for outgoing Congresswoman Abigail Spanbergerās seat in Virginiaās 7th Congressional District.
Spanberger is running for governor in 2025.
In Delaware, state Sen. Sarah McBride is poised to become the first transgender person elected to Congress. Democratic Congresswoman Lisa Blunt Rochester is also likely to become the first Black person to represent Delaware in the U.S. Senate.
“There’s no one better to represent us in Washington, D.C., and in the United States Senate than Lisa Blunt Rochester,” said President Joe Biden in a recent endorsement.
District of Columbia
46 known LGBTQ candidates running for D.C. ANC seats
32 running unopposed on ballot, 22 are incumbents
At least 46 known LGBTQ candidates are running for seats on the cityās Advisory Neighborhood Commissions in the Nov. 5 D.C. election, with a half dozen or more LGBTQ candidates running in each of the cityās wards except for Ward 3, where just two known LGBTQ candidates are running.
Among the 46 known LGBTQ candidates, 22 are incumbent ANC commissioners seeking re-election to another four-year term. The ANC Rainbow Caucus, which consists of LGBTQ ANC members, shows on its website it currently has 27 incumbent commissioners, most of whom are running for re-election.
That appears to indicate the percentage of LGBTQ ANC members seeking to run for re-election is greater than the percentage of the overall number of ANC members running for another term. According to reports by the Washington Post and other media outlets, many ANC members have chosen not to run for re-election this year, based in part on the stress that goes with the job
Under the D.C. Home Rule Charter, Advisory Neighborhood Commissioners serve as unpaid elected officials charged with making recommendations to the city government on a wide range of neighborhood issues, including the approval of liquor licenses for bars and restaurants and zoning regulations. City officials are required to give āgreat weightā to the ANC recommendations, but government officials are not required to accept the recommendations.
The official list of ANC candidates on the D.C. election ballot released by the D.C. Board of Elections shows that 51 of the 345 ANC Single Member Districts, or SMDs, do not have a candidate running on the Nov. 5 election ballot. The Board of Elections has released a separate list of registered write-in candidates that includes several ANC candidates.
The Board of Elections list shows there are a far larger number of ANC single member districts in which a single candidate is running unopposed. Among the 46 LGBTQ ANC candidates, 32 have no opponent on the election ballot.
Gay ANC commissioner Vincent Slatt, who represents the Dupont Circle ANC district 2B03, and who serves as chair of the ANC Rainbow Caucus, said ANC members face a considerable amount of stress.
āANCs are volunteer, uncompensated positions that we do in addition to our day jobs,ā Slatt told the Washington Blade. āThere is an extremely high turnover rate due to the lack of support we receive from the executive agencies, and the perception of our neighbors that we provide constituent services that our Council members provide,ā he said.
Slatt added that residents sometimes lack full understanding of the role of ANC members, which āhas created a large amount of turnover, and the problem is getting worse.ā
The Blade obtained its list of known LGBTQ ANC candidates in part from the ANC Rainbow Caucus, which compiled its own list of LGBTQ candidates, and from the LGBTQ Victory Fund, the national group that supports LGBTQ candidates for elective office, which released a list of 13 Victory Fund āapprovedā ANC candidates. The Blade obtained a few additional names of LGBTQ ANC candidates not on the Rainbow Caucus or Victory Fund lists from people who knew the candidates.
Also, among the known LGBTQ ANC candidates, in just two single member districts, two LGBTQ candidates are running against each other. One is in district 1B03 in the Columbia Heights neighborhood in which J. Swiderski is challenging incumbent Jamie S. Sycamore.
The other is in district 2G01 in the Shaw neighborhood in which Howard Garrett, the recently elected president of the Capital Stonewall Democrats, D.C.ās LGBTQ Democratic group, is running against community activist Parker Griffin. The two are competing for an ANC seat in which the incumbent is not running for re-election.
Similar to past election years, the largest number of known LGBTQ ANC candidates are running this year in districts in Ward 2, including the Dupont Circle, Logan Circle, and Shaw neighborhoods. However, more LGBTQ candidates this year are running in Wards 4, 5, and 8 than in past years.
Gay former ANC commissioner Kent Boese, who until 2022 had represented the Ward 1 SMD in the Park View neighborhood, continues in his current role as director of the D.C. Office of Advisory Neighborhood Commissions, to which he was appointed in October 2022. Among his duties is to oversee fiscal and administrative operations of ANCs across the city.
Following is a list of the LGBTQ ANC candidates and the single member districts and neighborhoods in which they are running.
1A04 ā (Columbia Heights)
Jeremy Sherman, he/him
1A07 ā (Columbia Heights)
Mukta Ghorpadey, she/her
1A10 ā (Columbia Heights)
Billy Easley, he/him
1B03 ā (Columbia Heights/U Street)
J. Swiderski, they/he
Jamie S. Sycamore, he/him
1B06 ā (Columbia Heights/Meridian Hill)
Miguel Trindade Deramo, he/him
1B07 ā (U Street)
Matthew Holden, he/him
1D01 ā (Mount Pleasant)
Jay Falk, she/her
1E01 ā (Park View)
Brad Howard, he/him
1E07 ā (Howard University/Pleasant Plains)
Brian Footer, he/him
2A05 ā (Foggy Bottom)
Luke Chadwick, he/him
2B02 ā (Dupont Circle)
Jeffrey Rueckgauer, he/him
2B03 ā (Dupont Circle)
Vincent Slatt, he/him
2B09 ā (Dupont Circle/U Street)
Christopher Davis, he/him
2C01 ā (Penn Quarter)
Michael D. Shankle, he/him
2F05 ā (Logan Circle)
Christopher Dyer, he/him
2F06 ā (Logan Circle)
John Fanning, he/him
2F07 ā (Logan Circle)
Kevin Cataldo, he/him
2G01 ā (Shaw)
Parker Griffin, he/him
Howard Garrett, he/him
2G02 ā (Shaw)
Alexander āAlexā Padro, he/him
2G04 ā (Shaw)
Steven McCarty, he/him
3B06 ā (Wesley Heights)
S. Robert Rodriquez, he/him
3F05 ā (Van Ness/Cleveland Park)
Adrian Jesus Iglesias, he/him
4B01 ā (Takoma)
Doug Payton, he/him
4B10Ā ā (Lamond Riggs)
Jinin Berry, she/her
4C06 ā (Petworth)
Christen Boss Hayes, they/them
4E02 ā (16th Street Heights)
Vince Micone, he/him
5B02 ā (Brookland)
Nandini Sen, she/her
5B04 ā (Brookland)
Ra Amin, he/him
5B05 ā (Brookland)
MĆ³nica MartĆnez LĆ³pez, she/her
5D05 ā (Trinidad)
Salvador Sauceda-Guzman, he/him
5D06 ā (Trinidad/Carver)
Charquinta (Char) McCray, she/her
5E05 ā (Bloomingdale)
Tyler Lopez, he/him
5F06 ā (Eckington)
Joe Bishop-Henchman, he/him
6B03 ā (Capitol Hill)
David Sobelsohn, he/him
6B09 ā (Capitol Hill/Barney Circle)
Karen Hughes, she/her
7B05 ā (Hillcrest)
Elizabeth Reddick, she/them
7C01 ā (Deanwood)
Brian Glover, he/him
7C03 ā (Lincoln Heights)
Carlos Richardson, he/him
7C08 ā (Capitol View)
Brandon M. Scott, he/him
7E06 ā (Benning Ridge)
Ravi K. Perry, he/him
8A01 ā (Fairlawn)
Tom Donohue, he, him
8B05 ā (Garfield Heights)
Marcus Thomas Hickman, he/him
8C08 ā (Douglass)
Elizabeth Carter, she/her
8F04 ā (Navy Yard)
Edward Daniels
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