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QUEERY: Jim Slattery
The Brother Help Thyself board president answers 20 gay questions
Brother Help Thyself, the local HIV/AIDS community LGBT group founded in 1978, has its signature event, Pride Day at Kings Dominion, on Saturday.
Patrons can ride from 4-11 p.m. and an after party is from 10 p.m.-1 a.m. with DJ Keith. Tickets are $35 in advance or $37 at the gate. After 8 p.m., the park is exclusively the domain of Brother supporters. Details at brotherhelpthyself.net.
Jim Slattery has been involved with the organization about five years and is in his second term as president. He says the group continues to do important local work in the fight against AIDS.
“There really isn’t another group like Brother Help Thyself in D.C.,” the 45-year-old Washington native says. “Sure, there are a lot of other non-profits, but I feel we’re really instrumental in helping a lot of the smaller, more shoe-string operations, that groups that don’t have a lot of structure, we’re great at giving them seed money to get up and running.”
The Kings Dominion event, a tradition for the last 15 years, is Brother’s biggest annual event. About 2,500 are expected and the group generally gets about $25,000 in proceeds, which it uses to fund the grants it awards each January.
Slattery works by day as a scheduler for Ward 4 Councilmember (and mayoral hopeful) Muriel Bowser. He and husband Ethan Hase live D.C.’s Takoma neighborhood. Slattery enjoys local politics, volunteer work, Rehoboth Beach, music, movies and card games in his free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I came out to just about everyone in the summer of 2006 after the death of a close friend by writing an op-ed for this paper which I then shared with family and friends. Who was the hardest person to tell? I think honestly, my best friend Linda. Looking back, it was such a silly fear. But I helped raise her kids and even took in her son when he was kicked out of her home. I guess I feared she would think I was “after him.” Ridiculous, I know.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
June Horner of PFLAG of Westminster, Md., one of the strongest, bravest and most dedicated people I have ever met. As to LGBT, I’d have to say my good friend Bradley “Thumper Bear” Hill, who preceded me as BHT’s president. He’s really been a big influence in my life and was instrumental in kick starting my advocacy work in our community.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
The D.C. Eagle, without fail. It’s really where I came into my own as a gay man and where I met my husband. That bar really was my Cheers and while I’m really sad the old location is now gone, I do look forward to hanging out at the new Eagle on Benning Road and having it grow on us.
Describe your dream wedding.
I’ve already had it. We were joined in Provincetown, Mass., on Sept. 5, 2009 by family and friends on a beach just as the sun was setting. I wish my mother had been there, but she had died two months earlier. Thankfully she’d known Ethan for years and loved him too.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Autism research
What historical outcome would you change?
Nothing. It’s tempting but as Stephen King taught us, even small things you might change could have even more disastrous ramifications.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
The death of Michael Jackson.
On what do you insist?
Politeness. Our society could really use a refresher course.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
A link to Mary J. Blige’s “No More Drama” video.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Full Schedule, Full Life”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
I would be very wary of science and wonder why it wanted to discover such a way.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I honestly don’t know. The Catholic faith I was raised with really does not seem very logical.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Listen carefully and work towards a common goal of inclusion and acceptance for all. Don’t get caught up in petty drama or fight against each other. Differences of opinion are to be expected, but don’t disagree simply to disagree. Do this and over time you’ll learn who is truly devoted to the cause and who is devoted to some sort of limelight.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
The right to be recognized as my husband’s spouse everywhere just as every straight married couple in this country has the right to do.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
That we all don’t like sports, love Madonna, Cher and Barbra Streisand and that we all pay a hundred bucks or more for a haircut.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
“Brokeback Mountain.” It’s so painfully heart wrenching and beautifully told and acted.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Shaking hands. I’d much rather give you a hug.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
A photo album given to me by my grandmother when I turned 31, full of mementos from her life (rain check from the 1925 World Series between Washington and Pittsburgh) and from mine (a glowing sixth grade progress report) and photos from throughout my life. What a gift this was, that she saved all of these things over the years and then gave them to me. She died two years ago at age 95 and I rediscovered the album looking for a specific photo of her.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That being gay did not have to be an ugly secret.
Why Washington?
It’s where three generations of my family have called home and because, really, where else?
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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2
Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’
The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m.
Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com.
An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all.
Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.
In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”
“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.
“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”
“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”
“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day.
Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.
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Queery: Meet artist, performer John Levengood
Modern creative talks nightlife, coming out, and his personal queer heroes
John Levengood (he/him) describes himself as a modern creative with a wide‑ranging toolkit. He blends music, technology, civic duty, and a sharp sense of wit into a cohesive artistic identity. Known primarily as a recording artist and performer, he’s also a self‑taught music producer and software engineer who embodies a generation of creators who build their own lanes rather than wait for one to appear.
Levengood, 32, who is single and identifies as gay and queer, is best known as a recording artist who has performed at Pride festivals across the country, including the main stages of World Pride DC, Central Arkansas Pride, and Charlotte Pride.
“Locally in the DMV, I’m known for turning heads at nightlife venues with my eye-catching sense of style. When I go out, I don’t try to blend in. I hope I inspire people to be themselves and have the courage to stand out,” he says.
He’s also known for hosting karaoke at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va., on Thursday nights. “I like to create a space where people feel comfortable expressing themselves, building community, and showcasing their talents.”
He also creates social media content from my performances and do interviews at LGBTQ+ bars and theatres in the DMV. Follow the Arlington resident @johnlevengood.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I have been fully out of the closet since 2019. My parents were the hardest people to tell because my family has always been my rock and at the time I couldn’t imagine a world without them. Their reactions were extremely positive and supportive so I had nothing to fear all along.
I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, dad, and sister in our hotel room in New Orleans during our winter vacation and being so nervous to tell them. After I finally mustered up the nerve and made the proclamation, I realized my dad had already fallen asleep on the couch. My mom promised to tell him when he woke up.
Who’s your LGBTQ hero?
My LGBTQ heroes are Harvey Milk for paving the way for gays in politics and Elton John for being a pioneer for the fabulous and authentic. My local heroes in the DMV are Howard Hicks, manager of Green Lantern, and Tony Rivenbark, manager of Freddie’s Beach Bar. Both of them are essential to creating spaces where I’ve felt welcome and safe since moving to the DMV.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Trade tops the list for me because of the dance floor and outdoor space. It’s so nice to get a break from the music every once and a while to be able to have a conversation.
We live in challenging times. How do you cope?
I’m still figuring this out. What is working right now is writing music and spending time with family and friends. I’ve also been spending less time on social media going to the gym at least three times a week.
What streaming show are you binging?
After “Traitors” Season 4 ended, I was in a bit of a show hole, but “Stumble” has me in a laughing loop right now. The writing is so witty.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
At 18, I wish I would have known how liberating it is to come out of the closet. It would have been nice to know some winning lottery numbers as well.
What are your friends messaging about in your most recent group chat?
We are planning our next trip to New York City. If you can believe it, I visited NYC for the first time in 2025 for Pride and I’ve been back every quarter since. Growing up in the country, I was subconsciously primed to be scared of the city. But my mind has been blown. I can’t wait to go back.
Why Washington?
It’s the closest metropolitan area to my family, but not too close. I love the museums, the diversity, the history, and the proximity to the beach and mountains. It’s also nice to live in a city with public transportation.
Aging RFK Stadium has come down, but the RFK grounds are still getting lit up. Welcome back to the stage Project GLOW, D.C.’s homegrown electronic festival, on May 30-31. Back for its fifth year on these musically inclined acres, Project GLOW returns with an even more diverse lineup, and one that continues to celebrate LGBTQ antecedents, attendees, and acts.
Project GLOW 2026 headliners include house and techno star Mau P, progressive house legend Eric Prydz, hard-techno favorite Sara Landry, and bass acts Excision b2b Sullivan King, among the lineup of trance, bass, house, techno, dubstep, and others for the fifth anniversary year.
President & CEO Pete Kalamoutsos — born and raised in D.C. — founded Club GLOW in 1999. In 2020, GLOW entered into a partnership with global entertainment company Insomniac Events to produce live events like Project GLOW, which kicked off in 2022.
As in past years, Project GLOW not only makes space, but is intentionally inclusive of the LGBTQ community, one of its most dedicated fan bases. The festival’s LGBTQ-focused Secret Garden stage blooms again — a more intimate dance area that stands on the strength of DJs and musicians who draw from the LGBTQ community. D.C.’s LGBTQ nightlife mastermind Ed Bailey is the creative mind behind Secret Garden again. He joined Project GLOW in 2023.
“Kalamoustos says that “he’s proud of his partnership with Ed Bailey, along with Capital Pride and [nightlife producer] Jake Resnikow. It’s amazing to collaborate with Bailey at the Secret Garden stage, especially after the curated lineup we worked on at Pride last year.”
The Secret Garden will be a bit different from other stages: Eternal (“At the Eternal stage, time stands still. Lose yourself in the dance of past, present, and future, surrendering to the eternal rhythm of the universe”) and Pulse (“Feel the rhythm of the beat pulse through your veins as the heartbeat of the crowd synchronizes into one. Here, every moment vibrates with life as it guides you through a new dimension of euphoria”). The Secret Garden stage is in the round, surrounded by 16 shipping containers. The containers play canvas to muralists from around the world, who are coming in to paint them in a vibrant garden-style vibe. “We gave this stage some extra love with this layout,” K says, “ we finally cracked the code.”
K says that this will be the biggest lineup yet for the Secret Garden, featuring Nicole Moudaber b2b Chasewest, Riordan b2b Bullet Tooth, Ranger Trucco, Cassian, Eli & Fur, Cosmic Gate and Hayla. The stage is also the largest yet, featuring an expanded dance floor and 360-degree viewing.
Across all stages, K says that his goal for the fifth anniversary is “More art and fan interactive experience, more like a festival, strive to be like a Tomorrowland, as budget grows to add more experience.” Last year’s Project GLOW alone drew 40,000 attendees over two days.
K, however, was not satisfied with one festival this spring. GLOW recently announced a “pop-up” one-day event. Teaming up with Black Book Records, GLOW is set to throw a first-of-its-kind dance-music takeover of Pennsylvania Avenue, N.W., headlined by electronic music star Chris Lake. Set for April 18, this euphoric block party will feature bass and vibes blocks from the White House. Organizers expect as many as 10,000 fans to attend. Beyond music, there will be food, activations, and plenty of other activities taking place around 6th St and Pennsylvania Ave NW – a location familiar to many in the LGBTQ community, as this sits squarely inside the blocks of the Capital Pride party that takes place in DC every June.
Over the past two decades, Club GLOW has produced thousands of events, from club nights to large-scale festivals including Project GLOW, Moonrise Festival, and more. Club GLOW also operates Echostage.

