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Frederick Center seeks public funding
Four-year-old non-profit makes formal request

Frederick Pride (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
In late December, representatives of The Frederick Center asked the City of Frederick for $5,200 to help fund its youth program. It was the first time the four-year-old non-profit has made a formal funding request to the city or any government agency.
The youth group program consists of weekly meetings for individuals from ages 13 to 23. “It’s a place where they can basically hang out with each other,” Kris Fair, executive director of The Frederick Center, told The Frederick News-Post. “We have speakers, games, events, peer-to-peer mediation. It’s basically just a weekly opportunity for youth to interact with each other and, most importantly, affirm one another in a positive space.”
A licensed clinical social worker facilitates the meetings every other week. The issues addressed include mental health questions, school-related issues, transitional matters and parental concerns, according to Amy Wilkinson, a youth program coordinator, in an email to the News-Post.
The Frederick Center’s annual budget is about $60,000 with 25 to 30 percent of that amount dedicated to the youth program. That group receives funding from private individual donors, local businesses, and the group’s Frederick Pride festival as well as from community fundraisers and benefits, said Wilkinson.
The public money sought for the program would pay half the salary of a mental health professional. Wilkinson told the News-Post that the youth group has tripled in size since 2013 with an increasing number of younger members joining.
Alderman Michael O’Connor told the News-Post that he supports the funding in next year’s budget. “The Frederick Center does wonderful work in the community, and I would like to be able to support them,” he said.
The Frederick Center plans to ask Frederick County for funding since the center serves both city and county residents but is not certain how such money would be spent.
“The Frederick Center began partnering with our city and county governments two years ago,” Fair told the Blade. “That partnership has been rapidly expanding and we are hoping with these requested grants we can further strengthen that bond to provide critical services to the LGBTQ community.”
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
