Local
Pastor of Carroll church receives award
Kuchma honored for promoting diversity, inclusion

Rev. Marty Kuchma has been the pastor at St. Paul’s United Church of Christ in Westminster, Md. since 2005. (Photo by Michael Teare)
Rev. Marty Kuchma, who has been the pastor at St. Paul’s United Church of Christ in Westminster, Md., since 2005, received the 25th annual Carroll County Human Relations Commission’s 2017 Human Relations Award last month.
According to the Carroll County Times, St. Paul’s Consistory (church council) President Ben Rogers wrote in the March church newsletter “Highlights” that Kuchma was “recognized for his many efforts in addressing homelessness, diversity, inclusion, and other important issues with which we are faced in Carroll County.”
St. Paul’s, the first and only open and affirming church in Carroll County, has been the venue for PFLAG-Westminster meetings since 2011. In addition to the monthly general meetings, “We host First Fridays for LGBT youth as a safe space for conversation, games, fellowship,” Michael Teare, a gay man and an elder at the church, told the Blade.
Teare calls Rev. Kuchma a hero and an amazing man.
“I was drawn to St. Paul’s because of its open and affirming stance when that was still taboo in Carroll County,” says Teare. “Pastor Marty made me welcome my first visit to the church, and I have never left.”
Judy Gaver, a member of St. Paul’s and a member of the PFLAG-Westminster chapter steering committee, agreed.
“I honestly can think of no one more deserving to be the recipient of this award,” she told the Blade. “Among the myriad duties Marty performs as the pastor of St. Paul’s, and numerous other local councils and committees on which he sits, he is also a founding member and an active steering committee member of PFLAG Westminster-Carroll County chapter. Marty was the pastor when St. Paul’s became an open and affirming congregation in 2008.”
The Blade was unable to reach Kuchma for a comment.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
