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QUEERY: Sean Holihan
The RAINN policy manager answers 20 queer questions

Editor’s note: Doing something interesting or creative during lockdown? The Blade is always looking for compelling Queery subjects. To be eligible, the subject must be a D.C.-area resident, openly LGBTQ and someone who’s never previously done it. Trans folks, queer women and people of color are especially desired. Send Queery suggestions to Features Editor Joey DiGuglielmo at [email protected] and you or a friend could be in an upcoming issue!
For more than 25 years, RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) has provided critical support to survivors and their loved ones through the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800-656-HOPE or rainn.org).
As the primary provider of services in the U.S., RAINN takes a survivor-centered, trauma-informed approach to developing programs and services that support survivors of sexual violence and their loved ones and works to end sexual violence in all its forms.
After working with Camille Cooper, RAINN’s vice president of policy, for more than a decade, Sean Holihan “jumped at the chance” to join the staff as policy manager just over a year ago.
Although RAINN does not track the sexual orientation of its callers, HRC has said LGBTQ youth are twice as likely to have experienced sexual dating violence or physical dating violence and that “many” of its callers are queer. The coronavirus lockdown is likely exacerbating the issue, Holihan says.
“For children quarantined with their abusers, stay-at-home orders have exacerbated abuse they are experiencing,” the 39-year-old Norfolk, Va., native says. “History has shown that sexual and domestic violence actually increase during times of crisis or natural disasters, but because many victims are stuck at home, unable to get away from an abuser or even report that the abuse is happening, sexual assault exams are down during this time. Once stay-at-home orders are lifted across the country, we expect to see a large increase of reports, as well as calls to the National Sexual Assault Hotline and are working to ensure we can be there to support survivors at this crucial time.”
RAINN was started by Scott Berkowitz in 1994. Singer/songwriter Tori Amos was RAINN’s first spokesperson and continues to be involved.
Holihan worked previously as a communications and policy consultant with his husband, Danny Barefoot, at their small firm. Holihan came to Washington 11 years ago to work with the Democratic Party.
He’s been isolating at home during the pandemic and says, “I’ve accepted that I can’t change what’s happening.”
Highly active in D.C. gay social circles, Holihan says he’s known “a handful” of friends and acquaintances who’ve had COVID-19 but “thankfully they’ve all recovered by now.”
He lives in Shaw and enjoys baseball, video games, his cats, Pokemon Go and “binge watching old seasons of ‘Drag Race’” in his down time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I came out when I was 17 as bisexual to my mom. All she said was, “Yeah sure, bi now, gay later.” Never loved that sentiment, but she wasn’t wrong.
Who’s your LGBTQ hero?
Bayard Rustin. He was an out gay man who spent more than two years in prison as a conscientious objector to the draft, participated in the first Freedom Rides, helped desegregate the Armed Forces and worked alongside MLK Jr. for equality. This man is a legend.
What LGBTQ stereotype most annoys you?
I think I hate the idea that all gays are exclusive and mean to each other. Anyone and everyone CAN be mean to each other. However, if anything, I’ve found D.C. to be a great place for new people to make a family of their own.
What’s your proudest professional achievement?
Over the years I’ve worked to help pass legislation that helped out-of-work fishermen create new careers as ship builders (long story), help people get protective orders against their abuser and ensure that victims of sexual assault had access to medical help.
What terrifies you?
Being alone in this world. I saw my Uncle Bobby suffer and die from AIDS when I was a kid. He passed without anyone to care for him except for my mom. It terrified me and made me think that’s what living my life as an openly gay man held in store. I’m happy to say my life has turned out differently, but it’s something that I still fear.
What’s something trashy or vapid you love?
Miller Lite and the arcade game Buck Hunter.
What’s your greatest domestic skill?
I am a pretty decent bartender.
What’s your favorite LGBTQ movie or show?
Movie: “But I’m a Cheerleader” still holds up despite coming out in 1999. TV show: “Six Feet Under.”
What’s your social media pet peeve?
People commenting on other people’s posts or tweets just to be a jerk. Why engage? Just keep scrolling.
What would the end of the LGBTQ movement look like to you?
A completely trans-inclusive country.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Right now, I guess I’d have to say shaking hands when you greet someone.
What was your religion, if any, as a child and what is it today?
I was baptized as a Methodist to get back at my Catholic grandparents. My grandparents made my mom marry my dad right before I was born to avoid the shame of having a baby out of wedlock. My parents divorced five years later and I haven’t been religious in a long, long time.
What’s D.C.’s best hidden gem?
So’s Your Mom in Adams Morgan makes amazing sandwiches. Just give them your cash and get out because they don’t take cards and you can’t eat inside.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Gathering with my first group of gay friends in Virginia Beach, Va., to watch “Queer as Folk” before heading out to this bar called Ambush is probably something that will always stick with me.
What celebrity death hit you hardest?
I moved around a lot as a kid and instead of playing outside, I would watch a ton of “Saturday Night Live” reruns. I absolutely loved Phil Hartman. Hearing about his death hit me hard.
If you could redo one moment from your past, what would it be?
I dropped out of college to drive cross country and live in Berkeley for a short time with my brother and sister. It wasn’t even that fun.
What are your obsessions?
This is going to sound so hokey but it’s the people around me. I have an amazing group of people around me and I’m incredibly lucky to have them in my life. Not being able to see all of them at this time is a big reminder of that.
Finish this sentence — It’s about damn time:
… baseball comes back.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
To aim higher. It took me until I was 25 to realize I wanted to do more with my life than just scrape by.
Why Washington?
The most passionate group of people I’ve ever met.
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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2
Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’
The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m.
Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com.
An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all.
Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.
In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”
“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.
“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”
“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”
“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day.
Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.
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Queery: Meet artist, performer John Levengood
Modern creative talks nightlife, coming out, and his personal queer heroes
John Levengood (he/him) describes himself as a modern creative with a wide‑ranging toolkit. He blends music, technology, civic duty, and a sharp sense of wit into a cohesive artistic identity. Known primarily as a recording artist and performer, he’s also a self‑taught music producer and software engineer who embodies a generation of creators who build their own lanes rather than wait for one to appear.
Levengood, 32, who is single and identifies as gay and queer, is best known as a recording artist who has performed at Pride festivals across the country, including the main stages of World Pride DC, Central Arkansas Pride, and Charlotte Pride.
“Locally in the DMV, I’m known for turning heads at nightlife venues with my eye-catching sense of style. When I go out, I don’t try to blend in. I hope I inspire people to be themselves and have the courage to stand out,” he says.
He’s also known for hosting karaoke at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va., on Thursday nights. “I like to create a space where people feel comfortable expressing themselves, building community, and showcasing their talents.”
He also creates social media content from my performances and do interviews at LGBTQ+ bars and theatres in the DMV. Follow the Arlington resident @johnlevengood.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I have been fully out of the closet since 2019. My parents were the hardest people to tell because my family has always been my rock and at the time I couldn’t imagine a world without them. Their reactions were extremely positive and supportive so I had nothing to fear all along.
I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, dad, and sister in our hotel room in New Orleans during our winter vacation and being so nervous to tell them. After I finally mustered up the nerve and made the proclamation, I realized my dad had already fallen asleep on the couch. My mom promised to tell him when he woke up.
Who’s your LGBTQ hero?
My LGBTQ heroes are Harvey Milk for paving the way for gays in politics and Elton John for being a pioneer for the fabulous and authentic. My local heroes in the DMV are Howard Hicks, manager of Green Lantern, and Tony Rivenbark, manager of Freddie’s Beach Bar. Both of them are essential to creating spaces where I’ve felt welcome and safe since moving to the DMV.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Trade tops the list for me because of the dance floor and outdoor space. It’s so nice to get a break from the music every once and a while to be able to have a conversation.
We live in challenging times. How do you cope?
I’m still figuring this out. What is working right now is writing music and spending time with family and friends. I’ve also been spending less time on social media going to the gym at least three times a week.
What streaming show are you binging?
After “Traitors” Season 4 ended, I was in a bit of a show hole, but “Stumble” has me in a laughing loop right now. The writing is so witty.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
At 18, I wish I would have known how liberating it is to come out of the closet. It would have been nice to know some winning lottery numbers as well.
What are your friends messaging about in your most recent group chat?
We are planning our next trip to New York City. If you can believe it, I visited NYC for the first time in 2025 for Pride and I’ve been back every quarter since. Growing up in the country, I was subconsciously primed to be scared of the city. But my mind has been blown. I can’t wait to go back.
Why Washington?
It’s the closest metropolitan area to my family, but not too close. I love the museums, the diversity, the history, and the proximity to the beach and mountains. It’s also nice to live in a city with public transportation.
Aging RFK Stadium has come down, but the RFK grounds are still getting lit up. Welcome back to the stage Project GLOW, D.C.’s homegrown electronic festival, on May 30-31. Back for its fifth year on these musically inclined acres, Project GLOW returns with an even more diverse lineup, and one that continues to celebrate LGBTQ antecedents, attendees, and acts.
Project GLOW 2026 headliners include house and techno star Mau P, progressive house legend Eric Prydz, hard-techno favorite Sara Landry, and bass acts Excision b2b Sullivan King, among the lineup of trance, bass, house, techno, dubstep, and others for the fifth anniversary year.
President & CEO Pete Kalamoutsos — born and raised in D.C. — founded Club GLOW in 1999. In 2020, GLOW entered into a partnership with global entertainment company Insomniac Events to produce live events like Project GLOW, which kicked off in 2022.
As in past years, Project GLOW not only makes space, but is intentionally inclusive of the LGBTQ community, one of its most dedicated fan bases. The festival’s LGBTQ-focused Secret Garden stage blooms again — a more intimate dance area that stands on the strength of DJs and musicians who draw from the LGBTQ community. D.C.’s LGBTQ nightlife mastermind Ed Bailey is the creative mind behind Secret Garden again. He joined Project GLOW in 2023.
“Kalamoustos says that “he’s proud of his partnership with Ed Bailey, along with Capital Pride and [nightlife producer] Jake Resnikow. It’s amazing to collaborate with Bailey at the Secret Garden stage, especially after the curated lineup we worked on at Pride last year.”
The Secret Garden will be a bit different from other stages: Eternal (“At the Eternal stage, time stands still. Lose yourself in the dance of past, present, and future, surrendering to the eternal rhythm of the universe”) and Pulse (“Feel the rhythm of the beat pulse through your veins as the heartbeat of the crowd synchronizes into one. Here, every moment vibrates with life as it guides you through a new dimension of euphoria”). The Secret Garden stage is in the round, surrounded by 16 shipping containers. The containers play canvas to muralists from around the world, who are coming in to paint them in a vibrant garden-style vibe. “We gave this stage some extra love with this layout,” K says, “ we finally cracked the code.”
K says that this will be the biggest lineup yet for the Secret Garden, featuring Nicole Moudaber b2b Chasewest, Riordan b2b Bullet Tooth, Ranger Trucco, Cassian, Eli & Fur, Cosmic Gate and Hayla. The stage is also the largest yet, featuring an expanded dance floor and 360-degree viewing.
Across all stages, K says that his goal for the fifth anniversary is “More art and fan interactive experience, more like a festival, strive to be like a Tomorrowland, as budget grows to add more experience.” Last year’s Project GLOW alone drew 40,000 attendees over two days.
K, however, was not satisfied with one festival this spring. GLOW recently announced a “pop-up” one-day event. Teaming up with Black Book Records, GLOW is set to throw a first-of-its-kind dance-music takeover of Pennsylvania Avenue, N.W., headlined by electronic music star Chris Lake. Set for April 18, this euphoric block party will feature bass and vibes blocks from the White House. Organizers expect as many as 10,000 fans to attend. Beyond music, there will be food, activations, and plenty of other activities taking place around 6th St and Pennsylvania Ave NW – a location familiar to many in the LGBTQ community, as this sits squarely inside the blocks of the Capital Pride party that takes place in DC every June.
Over the past two decades, Club GLOW has produced thousands of events, from club nights to large-scale festivals including Project GLOW, Moonrise Festival, and more. Club GLOW also operates Echostage.
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