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Local gay group working to rehab home with Habitat



There’s an old saying that if all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

Usually, that’s not a compliment. But it’s a good place to begin — with hanging wallboard, and pounding nails — if the task at hand is to rehab a home through volunteer labor and sweat equity, with the dwelling to be turned over to a family needing a hand up, not a handout.

To secure affordable home ownership one family at a time in Montgomery County, one of the nation’s most affluent suburban areas, is the goal of the county’s Habitat for Humanity affiliate, founded in 1982 but now in a new partnership with activists in the LGBT community and their allies in an initiative called Pride Build 2011.

Michael Meller, who is gay and chairs the effort, hopes to raise the $60,000 needed to bring the 67th Habitat-sponsored home in Montgomery County to fruition later this year.

“Too often the LGBT community may be viewed as separate from the community at large, and that’s just false,” Meller says.

“We do care, we do give back, we do want to make a better life for everybody, not just ourselves, and this kind of project makes it clear that the LGBT community is in fact an integral part of the greater community as a whole,” says Meller, a business consultant specializing in real estate financial and market feasibility studies. “In doing this, we’re bringing together a very high-profile and renowned organization, Habitat for Humanity, which doesn’t just go out and ask for money, but also for blood, sweat and tears from volunteers to get invested in the project.”

The group has $25,000 saved but needs $30,000 to get started, then another $30,000 to complete the project. So the group is hosting a fundraising reception next week featuring blue-ribbon LGBT sponsors such as state Sen. Rich Madaleno, and three delegates from the county, Bonnie Cullison, Anne Kaiser and Heather Mizeur, all from Montgomery County, as well as Elizabeth Birch, former Human Rights Campaign executive director. Acting as special guest host will be Tom Sherwood, a reporter for NBC News Channel 4 who specializes in politics and D.C. government. Guest admission is $50 and host committee admission is $75.

The group will start if it reaches its $5,000 goal. Organizations contributing include the Washington Blade, PFLAG, the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce and the Sanford and Doris Slavin Foundation. The lead corporate sponsor is Marriott International, which is donating two vacations for a live auction to be held at the reception.

The reception will take place on Thursday at 5706 Warwick Place, from 6:30-8:30 p.m. at the home of Jeffrey Slavin, mayor of Somerset, Md., an affluent community of little more than 1,000 people wedged near Chevy Chase and Bethesda close to Friendship Heights. Joining Slavin, first elected Somerset’s mayor in 2008, will be two other mayors, also gay, David Lublin, mayor of Chevy Chase and professor of government at American University; and Peter Fosselman, a civil engineer and since 2006 mayor of Kensington, Md., and also as of last month, an appointee of Maryland Governor Martin O’Malley as the state’s deputy secretary of state.

Meller says his group is using this project to get a feel for how receptive the local LGBT community is to helping Habitat.

Meller points to Bob Bernstein, a Bethesda resident, as the “genesis for this idea,” after Bernstein, a Pride Build donor, saw a similar idea at play in Portland.

“It was so exciting to see this as a good example of the equality movement today, where much progress is being made by people meeting openly LGBT people interested in the broader community,” Bernstein, whose daughter is a lesbian, says. “I thought, ‘Here’s a way to step that up and also meet a need, so a family can get an affordable home,’ so I contacted Habitat for Humanity in Montgomery County, and they were equally excited to get something similar started here.”

It’s unknown who the family receiving the home will be. The group isn’t targeting an LGBT family. Habitat’s Amanda Fein says the project “will definitely” be done by year’s end. It will likely be a house needing significant rehab work. She says they hope to have it selected this month.

Habitat’s modus operandi is using volunteers — sometimes hundreds — to build or rehabilitate houses that are sold to qualified families at no profit and are financed with affordable, no-interest mortgages.

Monthly payments are deposited into a local Habitat fund that helps to build or rehab more homes. In addition to a down payment and the monthly mortgage payment, the new homeowners invest, says Fein, on average between 200 and 500 hours of their own labor into building their homes. In addition to working on their own homes, these “partner families” also attend workshops on handling money and basic home maintenance and repair.

The next local Habitat homeownership information session is Wednesday at 6:30 at the group’s offices at 9110 Gaither Road in Gaithersburg, Md. Interested people must live or work in the county for at least one year prior to application and be permanent legal residents of the U.S. People must be currently living in substandard housing conditions. They must pre-register to attend and must pre-qualify based upon family size and family income, ranging from $31,050 to $36,250 for one person to $31,050 to $68,350 for eight or more people.

For more details, visit The Pride Build homeowner will be selected by Habitat’s Family Selection Committee based on housing need, willingness to put in a set number of hours of work themselves and their ability to repay when the house is sold to the selected homeowner at a below market price and with a 30-year, no-interest mortgage, gaining equity in the home each year.

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Anne Heche dies after removal from life support

Actress dated Ellen DeGeneres in late 1990s



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Actress Anne Heche died after she was removed from life support on Sunday, nearly two weeks after her Mini-Cooper crashed through a two-story house in Los Angeles’ Mar Vista neighborhood. Investigators with the Los Angeles Police Department believe she was intoxicated at the time.

She sustained a severe anoxic brain injury along with severe burns and was being treated at the Grossman Burn Center at West Hills Hospital, near Chatsworth in the San Fernando Valley.

The 53-year-old actress who was a star of films like “Donnie Brasco,” the political satire “Wag the Dog” and the 1998 remake of “Psycho,” had been declared legally dead under California law on Friday, however, her family kept her alive long enough to be an organ donor.

In a statement Friday, the LAPD announced that: “As of today, there will be no further investigative efforts made in this case. Any information or records that have been requested prior to this turn of events will still be collected as they arrive as a matter of formalities and included in the overall case. When a person suspected of a crime expires, we do not present for filing consideration.” LAPD detectives had previously made public that investigators into the crash found narcotics in a blood sample taken from Heche.

The actress’s family released a statement on Friday:

“Today we lost a bright light, a kind and most joyful soul, a loving mother, and a loyal friend. Anne will be deeply missed but she lives on through her beautiful sons, her iconic body of work, and her passionate advocacy. Her bravery for always standing in her truth, spreading her message of love and acceptance, will continue to have a lasting impact,” the statement added.

Heche was married to camera operator Coleman Laffoon from 2001 to 2009. The two had a son, Homer, together. She had another son, named Atlas, during a relationship with actor James Tupper, her co-star on the TV series “Men In Trees.”

Laffoon left a moving tribute on an Instagram reel in which he also gave an update on how their 20-year-old son Homer Laffoon is coping with the loss of his mother.

“I loved her and I miss her, and I’m always going to,” he said adding: “Homer is okay. He’s grieving, of course, and it’s rough. It’s really rough, as probably anybody can imagine. But he’s surrounded by family and he’s strong, and he’s gonna be okay.”

“Rest In Peace, Mom, I love you, Homer,” the actor’s 20-year-old son, Homer, said in a statement after Heche was declared legally dead on Friday.“ My brother Atlas and I lost our Mom,” read the statement. “After six days of almost unbelievable emotional swings, I am left with a deep, wordless sadness. Hopefully, my mom is free from pain and beginning to explore what I like to imagine as her eternal freedom. Over those six days, thousands of friends, family, and fans made their hearts known to me. I am grateful for their love, as I am for the support of my Dad, Coley, and my stepmom Alexi who continue to be my rock during this time. Rest In Peace Mom, I love you, Homer.”

Tupper, a Canadian actor who starred alongside Heche in “Men in Trees,” had a 13-year-old son, Atlas, with her. “Love you forever,” Tupper, 57, wrote on his Instagram post’s caption with a broken heart emoji, which shared an image of the actress from Men in Trees.

Between 1997 and 2000, Heche was also in a relationship with talk show host Ellen DeGeneres.

“This is a sad day,” DeGeneres posted on Twitter. “I’m sending Anne’s children, family and friends all of my love.” The year after her break-up with the comedian, in September 2001, Heche recounted in her memoir “Call Me Crazy,” about her lifelong struggles with mental health and a childhood of abuse.

KTLA’s entertainment reporter Sam Rubin noted that over the past two decades, Heche’s career pivoted several times. In 2017, she hosted a weekly radio show on SiriusXM with Jason Ellis called “Love and Heche.”

In 2020, Heche made her way into the podcast world. She launched “Better Together” which she cohosted alongside Heather Duffy Boylston. The show was described as a way to celebrate friendship. 

She also worked in smaller films, on Broadway, and on TV shows. She recently had recurring roles on the network series “Chicago P.D.,” and “All Rise” and was a contestant on “Dancing with the Stars.”

People magazine reported that several of Heche’s acting projects are expected to be released posthumously.

These include “Girl in Room 13,” expected to be released on Lifetime in September, “What Remains,” scheduled to be released in 2023, and HBO Max TV series “The Idol,” created by Abel Tesfaye (The Weeknd) and Euphoria creator Sam Levinson.

In her Instagram post from earlier this year Heche stands between her sons Atlas, 13 and Homer, 20.

From KTLA:

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‘Star Trek’ actress Nichelle Nichols dies at 89

George Takei tweets ‘we lived long and prospered together’



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She was a groundbreaking cultural icon who broke barriers in a time of societal upheaval and battling for the civil rights of Black Americans. An actress, a mother and thoroughly devoted to the legions of fans of “Star Trek,” Nichelle Nichols, Star Trek’s Lt. Nyota Uhura, has died at 89.

The announcement on her Facebook page by her son read:

Sunday, July 31, 2022

Friends, Fans, Colleagues, World

I regret to inform you that a great light in the firmament no longer shines for us as it has for so many years.

Last night, my mother, Nichelle Nichols, succumbed to natural causes and passed away. Her light however, like the ancient galaxies now being seen for the first time, will remain for us and future generations to enjoy, learn from, and draw inspiration.

Hers was a life well lived and as such a model for us all.

I, and the rest of our family, would appreciate your patience and forbearance as we grieve her loss until we can recover sufficiently to speak further. Her services will be for family members and the closest of her friends and we request that her and our privacy be respected.

Live Long and Prosper,

Kyle Johnson

Nichols was born in Robbins, Ill., in 1932, according to her IMDb page. Legendary composer Duke Ellington “discovered” Nichols and helped her become a singer and dancer. She later turned to acting, and joined Gene Roddenberry’s “Star Trek,” where she played Uhura from 1966 to 1969.

Out actor George Takei who played ‘Sulu’ on Star Trek the original series with Nichelle Nichols who played Lt. Nyota Uhura, at a Star Trek convention in this undated photo. (George Takei/Twitter)

It was in that role of Uhura that Nichols not only broke barriers between races, most famously her onscreen kiss, the first between a Black person and a white person, with castmate William Shatner, who played Capt. James T. Kirk, but she also became a role model for young Black women and men inspiring them to seek out their own places in science, technology, and other human endeavors.

In numerous interviews over the years Nichols often recalled how the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., was a fan of the show and praised her role and personally encouraged her to stay with the series.

When the first series ended Nichols went on to become a spokesperson for NASA, where she “helped recruit and inspire a new generation of fearless astronauts.” She later reprised her role in several successful “Star Trek” films and continued to advocate for the advancement of Black Americans especially in the areas of science and technology.

Formerly a NASA deputy administrator, Frederick Gregory, now 81, told the Associated Press he once saw an advertisement in which Nichols said “I want you to apply for the NASA program.”

“She was talking to me,” he recounted. The U.S. Air Force pilot would apply and later become the first African American shuttle pilot.

President Joe Biden weighed in Sunday afternoon on her passing in a statement issued by the White House:

In Nichelle Nichols, our nation has lost a trailblazer of stage and screen who redefined what is possible for Black Americans and women.
A daughter of a working-class family from Illinois, she first honed her craft as an actor and singer in Chicago before touring the country and the world performing with the likes of Duke Ellington and giving life to the words of James Baldwin.
During the height of the Civil Rights Movement, she shattered stereotypes to become the first Black woman to act in a major role on a primetime television show with her groundbreaking portrayal of Lt. Uhura in the original Star Trek. With a defining dignity and authority, she helped tell a central story that reimagined scientific pursuits and discoveries. And she continued this legacy by going on to work with NASA to empower generations of Americans from every background to reach for the stars and beyond.
Our nation is forever indebted to inspiring artists like Nichelle Nichols, who show us a future where unity, dignity, and respect are cornerstones of every society.

Nichols son said that services will be private for family members and her closest friends.

In 2008 the actress at a news conference, coordinated by the filmmakers of the motion picture “TRU LOVED,” in honor of the more than 900 students at Los Angeles’ Miguel Contreras Learning Complex’s School of Social Justice who participated in the GLSEN Day of Silence.

Nichelle Nichols speaks on LGBTQ rights:

Her fellow castmate and life long friend, openly Out actor George Takei shared his sadness on hearing of Nichols’ passing on Twitter:

From the September 2016 edition of the Smithsonian Channel: “Star Trek’s decision to cast Nichelle Nichols, an African American woman, as major character on the show was an almost unheard-of move in 1966. But for black women all over the country, it redefined the notions of what was possible.”

Star Trek’s Nichelle Nichols on Uhura’s Radical Impact:

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Emma Corin becomes first nonbinary person featured on cover of American Vogue

The star of The Crown opened up about their identity.



Emma Corrin Jamie Hawkesworth/Vogue

Emma Corin was announced as the cover star of the August edition of Vogue. It’s the first time a nonbinary person is featured on the cover of American Vogue.

Corin posted the cover photo and wrote, “My grin really says it all! A huge honour to be your August cover.”

In early 2021, Corin quietly came out as a queer and nonbinary, changing pronouns to “she/they” in their instagram bio. Currently Corin sticks to pronouns “they/them.”

“I feel much more seen when I’m referred to as ‘they,’ but my closest friends, they will call me ‘she,’ and I don’t mind, because I know they know me,” Corin explained during the interview with Vogue.

Corin stated that they’ve still gone on dates with various kinds of people and set no limit on who they date. “I like people,” they simply said and shrugged.

Corin also shared some of their dating experiences. “My first date with a girl, they were like, Oh! You’re a baby queer!” Corin said, “It was amazing. We actually didn’t end up seeing each other again, but she really gave me the lowdown.”

Besides, Corin was frank about their conflicting feelings towards gender and sexuality issues. “I’m working out all this complex gender and sexuality stuff. And yet, I’m seeing a guy? That feels very juxtaposed, even if I’m very happy.”

Corin is known for playing Diana on the Netflix series The Crown.

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