Commentary
Uncensored: Gentlemen of the press
Nigerian journalist details colleagues’ homophobia

Ms. Lagos, who is a journalist in Nigeria, details her colleagues’ problematic coverage of LGBT-specific issues. (Photo by Darwinek via Wikimedia)
Those were the exact words of Michael, a renowned human rights journalist and the group administrator for the Journalist Group, the largest network of more than 250 veteran and upcoming African journalists on WhatsApp.
With a membership guideline which states that the group is apolitical, devoid of biases, promotes professionalism and sound judgment and a training ground for undiluted journalism and human rights causes, I wouldn’t have been taken aback when banter of words on LGBTQ issues ensued on such a platform.
It is no longer news that Nigeria’s Same Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act of 2013 signed into law by then-President Goodluck Jonathan on Jan. 13, 2014, has made it impossible for people of the same sex to engage in any form of civil union or same-sex marriage. However, since the passage of the law, there have been widespread inhumane treatments by law enforcement agents and some members of the public who have taken the laws into their own hands against the LGBTQ community.
It is however worrisome that a journalist who is supposed to set news agendas freely discusses and criticizes the activities of both the authorities, civil and private structures have become the inhumane sword that pierces the innocent souls of mankind. I would have thought that my profession as a journalist is meant to respect the right of society to objective truthful information and a whole spectrum of opinions on certain issues.
Anita, a veteran journalist on radio with 25 years work experience wouldn’t just hear of it! Her disdain for the LGBTQ community pierced my soul as I scrolled and read through the group chat for the day.
“Gentlemen of the press, we cannot and must not discuss, lest interview anyone perceived to be gay or lesbian on our radio or television stations. It is not only an abomination but it offends public sensitivity and therefore NTBB (not to be broadcast),” she said. “In fact the truth is that these aliens have depraved minds and need psychological counseling.”
Was I angry at her analysis or choice of words? Not really! I was rather perplexed with these generation of veterans who young journalists should learn the ethics of journalism from have taken the toll of unconstructive journalism, a voice for the voiceless that is now the medium of hate speech.
“It appears as if there is an oath taken by leaders of the western world to ensure the ascendancy of LGBTQ in the West,” Jacobson, a member of the group and the head of the editorial department of a renowned print media outlet, reiterated. “I am sure that it’s the new face of liberalism the west is trying to push on us. We must speak against it on our media stations. These so called gay people should be thrown to the dogs”
What caught my attention the most was the fact that Jacobson was one of the journalists assigned to cover the coming out of Richard Quest.
Jacobson wrote one of the best news stories on CNN’s renowned broadcaster when he visited Nigeria recently. Could Jacobson have forgotten so soon that the man he profiled in his news story is a GAY MAN?
Listening to the radio and television for the latest news stories, I was glad to hear that a new law is being proposed which will categorize hate speech as “terrorism.”
I am aware that hate speech is speech which attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as race, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, disability, or gender but in a Nigeria where her laws are discriminatory and have become a tool being used by the law enforcement agencies, members of the public and worse of, journalist to legitimize multiple human rights violations perpetrated against LGBTQ people, can we say that this law is realistic or better still the beginning of light at the end of the tunnel?
The journalist group chat went on and on, the hate speeches, the insensitivity and narrow mindedness. I sighed! What incorruptible injustice against mankind.
My fellow gentlemen of the press, May I have your listening ears please? What has someone’s sexuality got to do with their ability to relate and behave like a human being? These people are just like anyone of us, if you have ever been discriminated against because of your skin color, race, religion or sex you will empathize with this community. I have worked with them and as far as I am concerned, they can be the nicest of people to work with. Do I support what they do? I don’t care, because it is none of my business.
There is an awakening that is looking at religion in a very different light, so if your bias is against them on religious grounds, then I suggest you take a very deep look at your beliefs and then ask yourself if they were created like you were or evolved from science as postulated by some school of thought. What would you as a parent do if your child affiliates with the LGBTQ community? Will that child cease to be your child, will the love you have for the child evaporate over night? Have you ever imagined been given a blood transfusion to save your life? Would it matter if the blood belonged to a gay man or lesbian woman? Would you even know whose blood it is?
We can’t deny the fact that the world is full of people who don’t do things the way we do. As journalists, I expect us to be broadminded and stop being judgmental. The hypocrisy of people bugles the mind. Those who protest and shout the loudest against what they know nothing about should educate themselves and stop being afraid. You only need to be a fly on the wall to see what so called straight sex people get up to in their bedrooms.
We all bleed red and we are all humans, and just like us straight sex people, they also have a right to be here.
I am Ms. Lagos, an objective Journalist and the transmitter of human rights.
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Center Arts Gallery celebrates 10 years with reception, auction
Oct. 17 fundraiser to feature jazz combo, artwork created on site
Ten years ago, I had a vision: to create a dedicated space within The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center for local LGBTQ+ artists to share their creativity in a community space conceived specifically for them. That vision became the Center Arts Gallery. Over the past decade, the Center Arts Gallery has grown into a true home for our LGBTQ+ siblings, a place illuminating our joy, resistance, and resilience through the power of art.
Art is so much more than decoration. It can be a powerful protest, a keeper of memories, a testament to survival, and a vivid reminder that our lived experiences deserve to be seen, heard, and deeply valued. When we created the Center Arts Gallery, our goal was to remove barriers so that queer artists could feel welcomed, supported, and completely free to express themselves. Now, as we mark the incredible 10th anniversary of Center Arts, love truly comes full circle as many of those same amazing artists and creatives are giving back by donating their artwork for a special benefit auction.
On Saturday, Oct. 17, 2026, The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center will host our annual Fall Reception and Art Auction, celebrating 10 years of Center Arts Gallery at 1827 Wiltberger St., N.W., with an ambitious fundraising target of $25,000.
Appropriately themed “The Art of Belonging,” this milestone celebration will bring our community together with intention, uniting multiple forms of local queer creativity under one roof. The evening promises to be an unforgettable experience.
We are thrilled to have the celebration hosted by award-winning spoken word artist, poet, and educator Charity Blackwell. Attendees will enjoy smooth jazz selections performed by 2nd Independence — a jazz combo from the DC Different Drummers — alongside delicious heavy hors d’oeuvres provided by Shaw Tavern and exquisite dessert offerings by celebrity chef Patrick Vanas.
Throughout the night artwork will be created live on site, joining the online pieces generously donated by local artists.
Most importantly, every dollar raised during the reception and auction goes directly toward sustaining The DC Center’s life-affirming programs and supportive services. From food assistance providing nourishing meals, the free food pantry, and behavioral health counseling, to trauma-informed case management, resource navigation, HIV/STI testing, and essential hygiene services like showers, laundry, and a clothing boutique, our doors remain open because
of community support. These funds also support our cyber lounge, mail and locker services, harm reduction supplies, and critical wellness programs.
To ensure that everyone in our community can fully participate, ASL interpretation will be provided during the event program. We offer flexible ways to join us: General Admission is free (currently at capacity), with custom signature cocktails, wine, and beer available for purchase.
For those looking for an elevated evening, our $75 VIP Experience includes early admission at 6 p.m., early online auction access, complimentary Champagne (6-7 p.m.), an intimate opportunity to mingle with participating artists, a special swag bag, plus an open beer and wine bar throughout the entire evening.
For 10 years, Center Arts Gallery has shown us that belonging is an art form we create together. As we look back on a decade of community and look forward to the future, I invite you to join us, support local queer artists, and invest in the essential programs that keep our community thriving. Let’s come together to ensure that The DC Center can continue to educate, empower, uplift, and connect us all for generations to come.
Kimberley Bush is executive director of The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center.
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Washington Blade responds to concerns over White House pool duties
Inaccurate media reports create confusion but we stand with our colleagues
Last week, President Trump announced his unconstitutional ban of CNN, MSNow, and Politico from the White House. Coincidentally, on Monday, it was the Washington Blade’s turn to serve as the print pool reporter on duty covering the president’s actions that day. This important responsibility is shared and rotated among the print members with each serving roughly once per month. The Blade is the only LGBTQ outlet with a seat in the briefing room, a slot in the pool rotation, and membership in the White House Correspondents’ Association, something we fought for decades to secure after enduring years of discrimination, ridicule, and resistance to openly queer journalists working inside the White House. We take our responsibilities there seriously.
There are two pools that cover the president: broadcast and print. The other four members of the broadcast pool — ABC, CBS, NBC, and Fox News — agreed to boycott their pool duties. There has been no boycott among the print pool, which is a separate entity. I called the president of the White House Correspondents’ Association on Monday to confirm that no outlets in the print pool were boycotting.
A boycott by the Blade would set us back and lead to our expulsion from the pool and briefing room and our replacement by a right-wing outlet sympathetic to President Trump’s approach to attacking the media. The LGBTQ community is far better served with the Blade in the room than a far-right blogger taking our seat.
Let’s be clear: the Blade stands for diversity, equity, and inclusion and we stand for the First Amendment and freedom of the press. In solidarity with the broadcast pool, we made two important decisions on Monday — the first day anyone had to think about any of this. First, we refused to take or share any videos or still photos of the president, which would have undermined the broadcast boycott. Second, when Politico’s turn comes up for pool duty in mid-October, the Blade will not fill in and cover for them while they are banned. Politico must be readmitted and allowed to do their job.
After a rough day navigating and reporting on all of this, the Advocate published a reckless and inaccurate story suggesting that the Blade had crossed a picket line. Not true, as there is no print pool boycott. They claimed that I wouldn’t talk to their reporter. Also not true. I called their reporter within 90 minutes of receiving his message and he didn’t take the call or call me back. Their story named me and our White House reporter, immediately exposing us to public criticism and worse. The environment in D.C. is so toxic and even violent these days that subjecting our staff to unfair and false accusations like this invites harassment, doxxing, and worse. To do that without even talking to us is next level irresponsible and the antithesis of journalism.
On Tuesday, I talked to two reporters and an editor at the Advocate but they refused to retract anything in their inaccurate story. If the reporter had returned my call, I could have explained all of this but they are more concerned with clickbait and sensational headlines, a dangerous practice in these troubled times.
Back to the pool. The Blade was in the briefing room in the Reagan era, when Press Secretary Larry Speakes made jokes about AIDS and the reporters in the room laughed out loud. We endured all of that abuse and worse for decades, always standing in the back of the room and never being called on. The Blade’s journalists persevered. When President George W. Bush was re-elected in 2004, the Blade’s White House credentials were revoked amid an earlier press crackdown. Notably, no one boycotted or stood up for us. When Barack Obama won election in 2008, I received an email from his communications director informing me that effective midnight on Jan. 20, 2009, the Blade’s credentials would be restored.
So we have had quite a ride navigating administrations and their changing requirements for gaining access but always playing the long game. As Barney Frank used to say, “If you’re not at the table, then you’re probably on the menu.” The Blade is at the table and we do our best to ensure the LGBTQ community’s issues are addressed by both parties.
Thanks for reading and supporting the Blade’s work. If you have questions about our approach, you can reach me at [email protected].
Kevin Naff is editor of the Washington Blade. Reach him at [email protected].
Commentary
What LGBTQ veterans are building after ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’
DADT repeal took effect on Sept. 20, 2011. Trans servicemember ban reinstated
Fifteen years ago this month, the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” took effect. At the time, the importance of the change was obvious: gay, lesbian, and bisexual Americans would no longer have to hide who they were to wear the uniform. What was harder to see was what would follow: a generation of LGBTQ veterans able to carry their service openly into American civic life.
Earlier this month, Alaska state Rep. Andrew Gray, an Army veteran, stood before the Anchorage Assembly and asked the city to recognize Sept. 20 as LGBTQ Veterans Day.
His former command sergeant major, Mike Grunst, followed him to the microphone. A 35-year veteran who had served in combat, Grunst called troops who had served while hiding who they were “the bravest I have ever served with.”
Then Denise Sudbeck stepped forward. A Vietnam-era Navy veteran, she thanked the country for the privilege of serving and asked that the next generation have the same chance.
The Assembly approved the recognition.
Nothing about the scene required a new vocabulary. A veteran made a request of his community. A commander vouched for those who served beside him. Another veteran asked that younger Americans inherit the opportunity she valued. They entered the civic record simply as veterans.
That identity can do more than win recognition.
When federal policy abruptly ended the careers of transgender servicemembers this year, veterans and servicemembers in California began asking a practical question: What happens when those Americans come home?
Republican Assemblyman Jeff Gonzalez, a Marine combat veteran, began one hearing with questions about transgender military service. He listened as veterans explained how the military handles medical care and deployment case by case.
Then the discussion turned to separation.
“I don’t wanna see any veteran homeless,” Gonzalez said. Before the hearing ended, he was asking: “How can I help? How can I understand? How can I be a good advocate?”
The legislation that followed would provide housing, employment and transition assistance to discharged servicemembers. Republican state Sen. Shannon Grove spoke for it. The Senate passed it 32 to 0.
Americans have plainly not settled their disagreements over transgender people. Nor should military service be a prerequisite for rights that belong to every citizen.
But military service creates relationships that are difficult to reduce to the abstractions of the culture war. Before a legislature, “the transgender issue” can become a veteran who deployed, an officer who led troops, or the person who once stood beside you.
The political question changes because the human relationship has already changed.
The pattern is beginning to appear across the country. Kansas is among the states recognizing LGBTQ Veterans Day for the first time this year. New York and Virginia are pursuing broader state-level programs for LGBTQ veterans.
Sept. 20 is deliberate. On that day in 2011, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” ended.
We usually remember repeal for what LGBTQ Americans gained: the ability to serve openly. Fifteen years later, we can also see what the country gained.
A gay veteran can stand before his local government beside the commander who once led him. A transgender servicemember can sit before a legislator who begins with doubts and ends by asking how he can help. A veteran from an older generation can ask her neighbors to give those who follow her the same chance to serve.
This is citizenship in practice.
The enduring legacy of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal is not only that Americans were finally allowed to serve openly. It is also what they can now build after coming home.
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