District of Columbia
Two nonprofits partner to support local LGBTQ military youth
Blue Star Families, MMAA launch ‘Safe Spaces for Belonging’ meet up
Two of the nation’s largest nonprofits supporting military families have joined forces to provide newly relocated LGBTQ military youth and their families safe meeting spaces, fun activities and vital resources about affirming services available across the district.
Blue Star Families, a community-based nonprofit supporting military-connected families, has partnered with the Modern Military Association of America, the nation’s largest organization serving LGBTQ military and veteran communities, to form “Safe Spaces for Belonging,” a monthly meet up for queer military youth and their families to meet local LGBTQ youth and allies while adjusting to their new environment.
“Military life is inherently transitory,” said Cathy Marcello, assistant director of programs for MMAA and the mother of a transgender military youth. “Every time LGBTQ military youth move, they have to come out again – and they move often before graduating from high school. We want them to know they’re not alone and give them literally a space where they belong.”
Past events, programmed for youth aged 13-19 who identify as LGBTQ or ally, have included an inaugural resource fair at MLK library, pronoun button making, rock climbing and a virtual trivia night. Events are open to all area LGBTQ-affirming youth to foster connections and help integrate queer military youth into their new communities.
Marcello noted military moves have been particularly stressful for queer military youth over the past few years. More than 500 anti-LGBTQ bills were introduced in 2023 alone, according to the Williams Institute.
LGBTQ youth with at least one parent in the military reported significantly higher rates of mental health challenges and suicide risks than their peers, according to the Trevor Project, due to deployment separations and fears of harm for the service member, in addition to stress related to potential moves.
“We’ve got military families in these states right now with family members who do not have equal rights under the law,” Marcello said. “The family programming that we do is in response to the emergence of these anti-LGBTQ laws.”
Military parents attending Safe Spaces events with their queer youth receive information on LGBTQ-specific resources across the district and can ask questions, such as if continuing their child’s transition care would be considered “abuse” under local laws, without risking their positions or security clearances.
“Don’t Ask Don’t Tell [the repealed LGBTQ open service ban] happened during my lifetime, and this is an outgrowth of ending that time of serving in silence,” said Julie Riggs, executive director of the Sheila and George Casey National Capital Region Chapter of Blue Star Families. She’s also the wife of a retired Navy service member and the mother of two queer teens who are former military youth. “In contrast, we’re proud of all service and proud to have queer kids.”
While the Safe Spaces program is currently only available in D.C., Riggs said she hopes to see it expand across the country. The program falls under the Blue Star Families’ larger Campaign for Inclusion initiative.
Under the initiative, last year Blue Star Families partnered with Howard University and The Chamberlain Project to host a panel symposium at Howard recognizing the 75th anniversary of military desegregation.
The initiative also covers the position of Angie Cherikos, the Lockheed Martin National Capital Region DEPLOY (Diversifying and Expanding the Pipeline of Leadership) Fellow at Blue Star Families. Cherikos is a recent college graduate who describes herself as a former “military brat” who grew up in the D.C. area. While she only came into her queer awareness within the past two years, she always felt different and closely aligned herself with the LGBTQ community.
“It can be frustrating not knowing where to go and how to integrate into the communities I identify with,” Cherikos explained. “I wanted to ease that experience for others.”
As a queer person of color, Cherikos said she wanted to ensure the Safe Spaces program reached out and connected to diverse communities.
She pointed out the generational trauma inflicted on her age group was not just from the rise in anti-LGBTQ legislation, but also from a variety of issues impacting different groups in different ways, including the protests and national reckoning in the wake of George Floyd’s murder, rising gun violence, and the visible impacts of climate change.
Cherikos said one way for her generation to work through this trauma was to connect and support each other when they can.
In February, Safe Spaces is meeting up for a Valentine’s Day cookie decorating event in Arlington, where Cherikos said a goal is to open up conversations about who they’re dating or to encourage self-love in an affirming environment. A yoga and mindfulness event is scheduled for March in Georgetown. Each event helps queer military youth learn and explore the area while sharing experiences with their new friends.
“One participant said the hardest part of his transition was not the hormones or anything like that, it was moving from D.C. to Tennessee and not seeing anyone who looked like him,” she said. “So, if you see someone who looks like they just need one friend, use opportunities like this to be that friend for them. That’s how you make an impact. That’s how you make change happen.”
District of Columbia
Bowser appoints first nonbinary person to Cabinet-level position
Peter Stephan named Office of Disability Rights interim director
D.C. Mayor Muriel Bower has named longtime disability rights advocate Peter L. Stephan, who identifies as nonbinary, as interim director of the D.C. Office of Disability Rights.
The local transgender and nonbinary advocacy group Our Trans Capital and the LGBTQ group Capital Stonewall Democrats issued a joint statement calling Stephan’s appointment an historic development as the first-ever appointment of a nonbinary person to a Cabinet-level D.C. government position.
“This milestone appointment recognizes Stephan’s extensive expertise in disability rights advocacy and marks a historic advancement for transgender and nonbinary representation in District government leadership,” the statement says.
The statement notes that Stephan, an attorney, held the position of general counsel at the Office of Disability Rights immediately prior to the mayor’s decision to name him interim director.
The mayor’s office didn’t immediately respond to a question from the Washington Blade asking if Bowser plans to name Stephan as the permanent director of the Office of Disability Rights. John Fanning, a spokesperson for D.C. Council member Anita Bonds (D-At-Large), said the office’s director position requires confirmation by the Council.
Stephan couldn’t immediately be reached for comment.
“At a time when trans and nonbinary people ae under attack across the country, D.C. continues to lead by example,” said Stevie McCarty, president of Capital Stonewall Democrats. “This appointment reflects what we have always believed that our community is always strongest when every voice is represented in government,” he said.
“This is a historic step forward,” said Vida Rengel, founder of Our Trans Capital. “Interim Director Stephan’s career and accomplishments are a shining example of the positive impact that trans and nonbinary public servants can have on our communities,” according to Rangel.
District of Columbia
Capital Stonewall Democrats set to celebrate 50th anniversary
Mayor Bowser expected to attend March 20 event
D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser, members of the D.C. Council, and local and national Democratic Party officials are expected to join more than 150 LGBTQ advocates and supporters on March 20 for the 50th anniversary celebration of the city’s Capital Stonewall Democrats.
A statement released by the organization says the event is scheduled to be held at the Pepco Edison Place Gallery building at 702 8th St., N.W. in D.C.
“The evening will honor the people who built Capital Stonewall Democrats across five decades – activists who fought for rights when the odds were against them, public servants who opened doors and refused to let them close, and a new generation of leaders ready to carry the work forward,” the statement says.
Founded in 1976 as the Gertrude Stein Democratic Club, the organization’s members voted in 2021 to change its name to the Capital Stonewall Democrats.
Among those planning to attend the anniversary event is longtime D.C. gay Democratic activist Paul Kuntzler, 84, who is one of the two co-founders of the then-Gertrude Stein Democratic Club. Kuntzler told the Washington Blade that he and co-founder Richard Maulsby were joined by about a dozen others in the living room of his Southwest D.C. home at the group’s founding meeting in January 1976.
He said that among the reasons for forming a local LGBTQ Democratic group at the time was to arrange for a then “gay” presence at the 1976 Democratic National Convention, at which Jimmy Carter won the Democratic nomination for U.S. president and later won election as president.
Maulsby, who served as the Stein Club president for its first three years and who now lives in Sarasota, Fla., said he would not be attending the March 20 anniversary event, but he fully supports the organization’s continuing work as an LGBTQ organization associated with the Democratic Party.
Steven McCarty, Capital Stonewall Democrats’ current president, said in the statement that the anniversary celebration will highlight the organization’s work since the time of its founding.
“Capital Stonewall Democrats has been fighting for LGBTQ+ political power in this city for 50 years, electing people, training organizers, holding this community together through some really hard moments,” he said. “And right now, with everything going on, that work has never mattered more. This gala is the first moment of our next chapter, and I want the community to be a part of it.”
The statement says among the special guests attending the event will be Democratic National Committee Vice Chair Malcolm Kenyatta, who became the first openly gay LGBTQ person of color to win election to the Pennsylvania General Assembly in 2018.
Other guests of honor, according to the statement, include Mayor Bowser; D.C. Council member Zachary Parker (D-Ward 5, the Council’s only gay member; D.C. Council member Anita Bonds (D-At-Large); Earl Fowlkes, founder of the International Federation of Black Prides; Vita Rangel, a transgender woman who serves as Deputy Director of the D.C. Mayor’s Office of Talent and Appointments; Heidi Ellis, director of the D.C. LGBTQ Budget Coalition; Rayceen Pendarvis, longtime D.C. LGBTQ civic activist; and Phillip Pannell, longtime D.C. LGBTQ Democratic activist and Ward 8 civic activist.
Information about ticket availability for the Capital Stonewall Democrats anniversary gala can be accessed here: capitalstonewalldemocrats.com/50th
District of Columbia
Owner of D.C. gay bar Green Lantern John Colameco dies at 79
Beloved businessman preferred to stay ‘behind the scenes’
John Colameco, owner of the popular D.C. gay bar Green Lantern, has died, according to a March 7 announcement posted on the bar’s website and Instagram account. The announcement didn’t provide a date of his passing or a cause of death.
Green Lantern manager Howard Hicks said Colameco was 79 at the time of his passing.
“It is with great sadness that Green Lantern announces the death of our beloved owner, John Colameco,” the announcement says. “Most of our patrons might have heard John’s name, but might not have known his face,” it says.
“He was a ‘behind-the-scenes’ kind of guy who avoided the limelight,” the announcement continues. “He preferred to stay in the back of the house with staff and team ensuring everything was running smoothly so that everyone out front was having a good time.”
The announcement adds, “As a veteran and businessman, John wasn’t a member of the LGBTQ + community, but he was one of the best damn allies our community has ever had.”
It says he “long provided spaces for the queer community to come together” since the 1990s when he owned and operated a popular restaurant on 17th Street, N.W. called Peppers.
According to the announcement, Colameco and his then business partner Greg Zehnacker opened the Green Lantern in 2001 in an alley off of 14th Street, N.W., between Thomas Circle and L Street, N.W.
The announcement points out that the Green Lantern first opened in the same location in the early 1990s before it later closed when the original owners decided to purchase and open other bars, one of which was the gay bar Fireplace near Dupont Circle. Colameco and Zehnacker were able to reopen the bar with the Green Lantern name.
“When Greg died unexpectedly in February 2014, John remained steadfastly committed to carrying on their vision and ensuring that Green Lantern remained part of the fabric of D.C.’s queer community,” the announcement says.
“Over the years, through Green Lantern, John has provided support to many community organizations, most notably Stonewall Sports, the Gay Men’s chorus of Washington, and ONYX Mid-Atlantic with Green Lantern serving as a gathering hub for their activities,” it states.
The announcement adds that Colameco’s family was planning a memorial for him in his hometown of Philadelphia.
“His Green Lantern family will celebrate his life by operating the bar as usual and we encourage you to stop by and join us,” it says. “Community coming together and having a good time – it’s exactly what John would want.”
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