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QUEERY: Greg Sensing
The D.C. Brau office manager answers 20 gay questions
Greg Sensing came to Washington in the fall of 2010 so his wife, Stacy, could continue her work as a research economist.
Now the 45-year-old Nashville native works as office manager at D.C. Brau Brewing Co., a job that dovetails nicely with one of his hobbies.
“I love discovering new craft beers I’ve never tried before,” Sensing says. “I also love to cook and love old cookbooks, especially ones from the ‘60s.”
They’re raising their family — with baby Olli (rhymes with “goalie”) — and live in Brightwood.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I came out twice: first as a dyke and, several years later, as a trans dude. I was sure my super-religious, southern parents would take the news hardest both times. Surprisingly, coming out to them as queer was much tougher than coming out as trans. I’ve been very lucky. My three older sisters and I are all still very loving and affectionate, which is nice.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
I have several! Gunner Scott, Chase Strangio, Marisa Richmond, Dean Spade, Monica Roberts, Ruby Corado, Mara Keisling — folks who dedicate their lives to making a real, progressive, positive difference in the lives of trans people. Those are my heroes.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
I’ve always had a fun time at Bear Happy Hour on the roof at Rock & Roll Hotel. Bears are my favorite eye candy. The one time I went to Secrets was pretty fascinating and memorable. But I’ve got a baby now so “nightspot” more accurately refers to where one of us points in response to the 3 a.m. question, “Do you see where he barfed/pooped/peed this time?”
Describe your dream wedding.
My actual wedding happened at the Agricultural History Farm Park in Derwood, Md. My partner and I got married on the lawn in front of the farmhouse there and had our reception dinner in the big red barn. It was a gorgeous setting and only rained right at the end of the ceremony for just a few minutes — just long enough to produce a rainbow! Awesomely queer! Our union was sanctified by the great homo weather gods.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
The end of systemic racism, socio-economic inequality and oppression, which includes the unnecessary and excessive militarization of police forces.
What historical outcome would you change?
I would kick whoever came up with the concept of slavery so hard in the nads. Repeatedly.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
When Katya Zamolodchikova won Miss Congeniality on “Drag Race.” That, or when Mr. Rogers flipped the bird on TV.
On what do you insist?
Being decent and respectful to people in any service industry. At least attempt to look people in the eye when they’re doing something for you. People who behave like pompous, entitled jerks toward service staff or blue-collar workers just make me so nauseous.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
A couple of my D.C. Brau co-workers and I put together a team for the St. Baldrick’s fundraiser at the Boundary Stone on Sunday. It was a big, fun event where participants shaved their heads to raise money and awareness for childhood cancer research. I think my latest post was a photo of my “after” look. I’m not usually this closely shorn but it was for a good cause!
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
I skipped the book and made a movie instead — “Systyr Act: Under the Habit.”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
If it changed every person’s sexual orientation to be every sexual orientation, I’d celebrate. Because maybe then people would understand how messed up and pointless it is to try to vilify someone for the way they express love and with whom they feel most comfortable expressing it.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Feminist drag queens. And Tina Turner.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Don’t forget about the Q in LGBTQ. Conformity is not for everyone, diversity should be celebrated, regardless of orientation or identity expression.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
Completely cliché, I know, but my kid, Olli. Or a really good, fresh, local, imperial India pale ale. Or Elizabeth Shue.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
The misogynist, vagina-hating gay man who loves eating ass.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
“Over the Top.” If you replaced Stallone and the kid with a daddy and his sub, you would barely have to change a word of the dialogue, I’m telling you. Somebody needs to remake all cheesy ’80s movies with a cast of nothing but trans bears.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
The pervasive drive to conform while simultaneously judging others who aren’t as fearful of expressing their individuality.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Being on a winning team at pub trivia somewhere.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That I was trans and to not worry about what others think because I’m probably mostly surrounded by sad/afraid/judgmental idiots who probably don’t really like themselves very much. Plus, there’s just so much to celebrate and be proud of as a member of the trans community. My perspective, particularly regarding gender and sexism, is so intensely and intimately shaped by my experiences of being raised as a young girl and being perceived now as an adult man. It’s an education in humanity, whether you like it or not. Humanity and hormones. See, that should be the title of my book.
Why Washington?
Because the D.C. summertime feels exactly like carrying a large, profusely sweating, naked man in a Baby Bjorn strapped to the front of myself at all times for months. Who doesn’t love that? Nope. My wife got a job here so we moved. The end.

Greg Sensing (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

